Is Aquarius male and a Pisces female a true match?

I am a pisces female and I've been dateing my aqua man for almost 3 years now. Our relationship has been crazy especially after our child was born. Its like we are falling deeper and deeper in love with each other and its making us crazy. He tells me that im the women he wants to spend the rest of his life with but its like is he really ready? I say that because he has spent 8years in prison and im the first women he has been with sense he got out. I know he loves me but he has been acting weid and its like its the summer time and he wants to be free. I think he should experience another women befor we do get married. Please someone give me some insight

.....

i think it is endearing to see you guys want to be together 🙂 however, think in terms of the child...would letting your "bf" or lover go out and explore really do much justice for you and the baby? our even the relatoinship. are you seriously okay with it?

whatever the title you guys have....i personally wouldn't let him wander off just cause of my own fears. just live in the moment if he wants to be here for you guys and all that..then why is it so hard to believe?

2) if he really isn't ready and he just isn't aware of it...what is the difference of him doing it later or him doing it now? does it still really make it acceptable before marriage? after all...its still disrespecting and not valuing what you guys share.

that is gonna hurt so bad either way.

i say just let things flow the way they need too. just be level headed ya know? let him go out and do his thing. don't nag or complain and let him come back to you. men appreciate woman who can give them the freedom they desire...

tell him this: "i love you, i trust you 100% , your a man of integrity even if you been to prison, it is what you do with the rest of your life after that matters, your growing and im SO SO PROUD of you. Because you've been in that shit hole for so long...go enjoy your life! go out enjoy your boys, hang out, do things, go travel! with me too and i hope you want the same 🙂"

a man like this i would assume has major deep issues...fear of intimacy or fear of rejection or fear of not succeeding or even "learned helplessness" which means he could give up easyily. but if your the person that conditions him to relate you as: the positive, your encouragement, strength , your confience in him, how proud you are of him, you accept me no matter what. i gaurentee you he will nto give that up. EVEN if he coudl cave in with sex...with others (IF i mean) he will learn from his mistake and grow. after all, woman's job is to work behind the scenes and develop the boys in our life into men. its never ending. its kinda cool i think...we have the control and they think we're stupid hahahahahha puwahah.0_0

by telling him what i wrote above: he will feel overwhelmed with intense emotions...he won't leave you.

replace complaining or talking about issues with ACTIONS. wanna be more lovable or have in wanna spend more time with you?

when he does spend time with you and everytime you guys are together show him your vulnerable side. that you can be the therapist, the

wife, the partner in crime, the understanding person, the person he can go to whenever and however he likes. but also keep in mind what you need.Also if your busy with the baby, also ask him to take care of the child (giving me responsibility and giving trust to him will make this guy feel great) he won't let you down. Then go out with friends..annd if you don't have much friends go out and do something for yourself. men like women who have their own hobbies. it is very desirable.

If you feel neglected during this process just phrase things in more ACTION like ways

"i know you are extremely busy and are hustling to get your life together..i am perfectly fine with that. But i would like if you took some time even 15 minutes after you come home to do something together, hug or kiss, watch a tv show and or eat dinner together. that would make me very happy and also balance out our space"

that is better than girl versions

"why don't you love me? you never spend time with me. why why why?" see the difference? men lose all reception and go static when we talk like this.

this is what i would do..

Thank you for the insight im trying so hard to make it work.

You are very knowledgeable to this. Can you do me a fav and tell me what our charts is my bday is march16 1988 his is january 31 1986

@ppb IT IS MAAADDD LOVE TO THE point ITS MAKING US CRAZY. Heres an example we are attractive and to most we have nice bodies. Its like every time we go out with out each other we be llike dis anyone try to talk to u lol. I know its childish we just cant help ourselves.

Posted by luvinanaquarius
You are very knowledgeable to this. Can you do me a fav and tell me what our charts is my bday is march16 1988 his is january 31 1986

what time were you guys born? and what location?

I was born at 1:15 pm in detroit and I dont know what time he was born but he was also born in detroit as well