Is being over analytical wrong?

Honestly, my bf and I are going through problems with his cheating. So, I have decided to enter the world of dating... I am finding myself nipping guys in the bud really fast. At first, I thought that I was being a bit picky but this is something that I have done all my life with everybody. I size you up before I deal with you. I am a very social person BUT

Posted by Aquapanosh
Honestly, my bf and I are going through problems with his cheating. So, I have decided to enter the world of dating... I am finding myself nipping guys in the bud really fast. At first, I thought that I was being a bit picky but this is something that I have done all my life with everybody. I size you up before I deal with you. I am a very social person BUT

But what sweetie—? what else were you going to say—

cheating would put a damper on things. and you say cheating like its been more than one time. it seems you are protecting yourself. which is not wrong. cheating can hurt and it seems that you are distancing yourself from him by entering the dating world again.

in essence women know which men are right for them and which are not. you have that instinct. nothing wrong with that.

is it wrong? no. annoying? yes lol.

don't worry, i overanalyze all the time too. and my sister tells me all the time it's annoying so there u go haha

bahaha! THIS!

Ok... I will say this you guys over-evaluate yes but if other people are directly involved with what your evaluating then most likely the scenerio will change which will call for more over-evaluation on your part, which will cause another change, wash, rinse repeat. Never ending loop like the infinity sign. The only problem I see with over-analyzing is that while your pondering the infinite possibilities that could be had... life, opportunies will pass you by and chances will be lost. Once in a while it's not a bad thing to just jump in and wide the wave. You could be washed to a serene shore or you could be washed out to an undertoe... no one really knows unless you take the plunge.

You can work things out in your mind all you want but it others are involved you cannot truly gauge exactly how situations will unfold. You just have to let go and experience them.

BTW good call on letting the cheater go...he can sodd off.