Leo gets Aqua, I think?

I am a Leo and all so when I want things I go for it. Usually too fast..no thinking. I love you Aquas! you like to think it through. I need you guys!
I had a good sleep and realized:
My aqua has no idea it has been almost 2 weeks since we hung out because he is like that. I know how long it has been because I am like that.
When I saw him yesterday, he was just as normal as ever.

Do aqua's not call people very often? guess not. Do they like the spontanious hang out more then calling someone to come by? Or my aqua knows he'll see me around at some point since we live in the same duplex?

I think he also likes to see what my reaction is like if I don't see or hear from him in a while. Maybe he really is 'feeling me out'.
Am I finally getting it?

yes, you are getting it! he is testing you and will continue to test you for as long as you two hang out with each other...the testing never ends!!! he will constantly say something or do something just to see what your reaction will be. so my advice is to play it cool, don't let it get to you, and if it does get to you, don't let him see that.

Great advice! Wow, they really do test you.
Is that why when we hang out, out of the BLUE he will ask me the weirdest questions. Like
"do you watch fishing on TV?" OR "were you ever the highschool mascot" OR have you ever beaten up little kids on your day off?"
Then one day we were chatting....he slipped in "You are not a typical girl" I don't even remember what I said back.
When I see him he will talk about his day as if I just saw him an hour ago. Eventhough it was almost 2 weeks ago!

well, i think when he asks questions like those above, he is trying to get to know you...see what your interests are, etc. so, at this point you two are on a "friends" level...he is treating you like a friend and learning about who you are...which is good to build a friendship first...especially with an aqua b/c they value that very much.

the testing will come once you get past the friend level...the testing is more of him feeling you out to see how you feel about him...how much you care about him, etc.

So I guess I won't tell him about other guys I meet and if I am going on a date? Should I even let him know I do date? I don't really since I like him, but we both have talked about internet dating. We both had profiles on the same site. Then a few days ago he had closed his dating page. Isn't on there anymore. I ususally don't tell him about that stuff with me. I just told him there are a lot of freaks that email me. That's true.
I met a guy on the weekend and if he calls me I will go out with him. But I don't think I should mention that to Aqua. The devious side wants too so he picks up the pace, but that is the pushy leo in me. Roar.

i wouldn't mention it to him since you two are just friends right now...when it becomes more official, then you can say something. but if you something about dating other right now, it will probably just push him away...

trust me...you telling him about going on a date with another guy would NOT make him move faster with you...in fact, i think it would be quite the opposite.
if you want to be with this aqua guy, you cannot be pushy...you must be patient b/c he is going to move really, really SLOW. if you are pushy about anything with him ,he will run.

right Moonchild. I am so silly, as if that would make someone move faster. I certainly wouldn't! I shall continue being patient. And bothering you all!
Thanks for shaking me. I needed it!

how long have you two known each other? and is he flirty around you at all? what is he like...how does he act? and how old are you two? just curious... 🙂

well, we are neighbours. But it was July when we offically met. It was a slow progression to where we are now. (surprise). We would usually just run into eachother and hang out then. He called me once I think in the summer. Then at the end of October I ran into him and asked him if he wanted to have coffee on the porch. We did and that was the day he spilled his private life to me. Since then we have been hanging out a lot. Usually just when I bump into him though. He's back in school and trying to get a PT job so I have been helping a bit. He is always giving me movies to watch and showing me interesting things on his computer. Always tells me all about his family, guys at school, what he did at school, how his back hurts, he talks a lot. Then he will just ask me about something I mentioned that I thought he forgot. Like "How were the horse races?"
When we hang, he sits right beside me. usually his head is tilted towards me. i feel his awkwardness. he admits he is awkward. No flirting unless you call witty banter flirting. We have a great rapport. We get eachothers off the wall humour. he's 28 and I am 31. He also mirrors my body language. AND he stares right into my eyes and holds the stare. I usually look away. Once I didn't look away and that was when I felt the 'click'.

"He also mirrors my body language. AND he stares right into my eyes and holds the stare. I usually look away. Once I didn't look away and that was when I felt the 'click'."

-yep, this is typical of an aqua!!! they have that stare where you know they are having some crazy deep thoughts, but they will never admit to it. and their body language tells a lot about them...big time.
yeah, my aqua mirrors a lot of what i do as well. he used to do it more when we were first dating, but he still does it. but with him, he will not only mirror my body language but also my moods.