Need advice/help with Aqua Man

Hello guys. I've recently developed an interest in this Aqua man who has been trying over months to talk to me and get close by asking me to stay behind after work or pretending he didn't know how to play the guitar so I could touch him and position his hands on the guitar. We get along well although sometimes I joke about and he gets all timid and detached.

He slipped a slide comment before in our conversation saying how he likes me more than a friend but also said that I'm not ready. He's also told me once to test my reaction how this girls butt was nice so I replied saying I preferred the other girls ass. He simply laughed. I always counteract his comments.

I'd really like to know what the signs an Aquarius is really interested. I've been acting aloof on purpose to stop myself from seeming vulnerable or interested. Should I stop doing that and confess?

It'd be great to hear some answers and advice.

You acting aloof will only take you so far, HOWEVER, if you tell him you are interested, then continue being aloof, he'll initiate his chase mode. The girl I'm courting now asked for MY number at the end of the night we met, I've been hooked sense.

Show him some interest, back it off a little, then gradually show him more interest, then once he's there, completely open up to him. It'll work like a charm.

Especially considering you're a Capricorn? At least that's what I think the horns are about.

An aqua man is a child no matter how old he is, I'm one. He wants reward for his work or he will quit. He's trying to get you, so show him some positive signs. Subtle things at least, you'll then see. Confess, but always keep a mystery. Be mysterious but never show signs of un-interest. That's it.

OMG thank you, both of you for your advice and yes I am a bit of a mystery. That's what I've been doing all along.... pulling in then out again (sounds perverse xD). I'm going to confess on Monday by surprising him and whispering into his ear I like you. I'm curious to see how he'll react, but nevertheless I do sincerely like him. I wish I had the balls (excuse my french) to show it.

P.S Aquawillis no I am a Taurus, but I seem to click with the Aqua's 😉 we'll see anyways. I'm excited!!

Oh and just a funny litte note to add.... this Aquaman got me an egg for my birthday with his face drawn on. I think that's what really got me hooked. I love it!!!

Posted by AquaWillis
You acting aloof will only take you so far, HOWEVER, if you tell him you are interested, then continue being aloof, he'll initiate his chase mode. The girl I'm courting now asked for MY number at the end of the night we met, I've been hooked sense.

Show him some interest, back it off a little, then gradually show him more interest, then once he's there, completely open up to him. It'll work like a charm.

Especially considering you're a Capricorn? At least that's what I think the horns are about.

Looking back, I think that's how it went with me and my aqua in the beginning. It was unintentional, but since you pointed it out, in hindsight, I can see the dynamic.

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Posted by AquaWillis
You acting aloof will only take you so far, HOWEVER, if you tell him you are interested, then continue being aloof, he'll initiate his chase mode. The girl I'm courting now asked for MY number at the end of the night we met, I've been hooked sense.

Show him some interest, back it off a little, then gradually show him more interest, then once he's there, completely open up to him. It'll work like a charm.

Especially considering you're a Capricorn? At least that's what I think the horns are about.

Looking back, I think that's how it went with me and my aqua in the beginning. It was unintentional, but since you pointed it out, in hindsight, I can see the dynamic.

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Lol I hate to be mushy right now, but she was the most beautiful girl that had ever given me her number (out of maybe 3), and the FIRST black girl. She doesn't know it, but she has actually been highly instrumental in raising my self-esteem higher than it was.

But yeah, if you're any Earth sign reading this who is attracted to an Aquarius, after you flirt the first time definitely offer him your number to let him know he has a chance. If he knows he has a chance, he will pursue, in fact watch how he talks to you when you first meet, he may already be in love with you at first sight.

Thank you for the advice AquaWillis. I would just like to add an update. Today I 'confessed' in a very light-hearted and strange manner; something different. He chuckled and said he didn't believe me one bit. I stated I was interested and serious and he clearly said he didn't believe me. He also acted very nervous and his face changed as though he was offended by what I had said. I must add though that I thought (to my dismay) that confessing in a light-hearted way using humour while smiling and laughing would make it less 'intense', however it seemed to have confused him more than anything.

Any Aqua's want to shed some light on why he reacted this way and what I should do to 'prove' that I do like him, which is what he said. Maybe I don't realise how aloof I act, but I seriously expected him to see through that although I'm not expecting him to be a psychic either.

I'm sure he thought I was playing with him, but I'm genuinely not.

You'll have to get him to sit down and talk to you in a more serious manner, let him do all the talking and just answer calmly and honestly, and after the conversation have some humor and hugs.

He may be confused at how a big thing can be communicated playfully.
He couldn't dp that.

His mind will be filled with thoughts now.
Dont imagine its not.

You're likely more touchy feely than he is.
That will turn him on I imagine.

Make sure he's mature enough (life experience/not age) to appreciate a Taurean's willpower and drive.

Ultimately though, you need to be comfortable with the fact that this relationship is basically doomed.
Sure, he's an open-minded Aquarian who likes to mix it up.
But you need to stop dreaming and deluding yourself.
He's a catch, a kid, a dreamer, an idealist...
And you're one hundred and fifteen lol