LilCrabLOVE
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NO arguing with an aquarius, you won't win.
How to Handle an Aquarius When They Are Hurt or Angry
Aquarius individuals often need space and understanding when upset. They value honesty and respect but may shut down emotionally if they feel misunderstood. Giving them time to process and avoiding unnecessary arguments helps maintain harmony. Showing genuine respect for their feelings without overextending yourself can prevent loss of respect and improve your relationship.
Welcome LilCrabLOVE..very cute name btw. For you to get the best possible and most up to date information you must call forth the one and only ALANA. Here is what you must do...SOS - Attention- Alana please come in...your "waterbearing" advice is much needed...
I promise that the lovely Alana will respond to you and you will not be disapointed. 😉
I promise that the lovely Alana will respond to you and you will not be disapointed. 😉
Welcoem Licrablove...alana here:-) - SOS-ing as best I can!!!!
Me very aquarius...you have just described the female version of me - how I act when provoked!!!:-)
First off, I will banter back a bit....if I am not getting my way or having the last word!!, then it' simply the ice-maiden cometh....I turn to stone, retreat, retreat, retreat and never surrender....that's the name of the game.....if someone has hurt me by what they have said, I won't necessarily tell them then and there (that will come later, when I have thought things through in my head and regrouped). While this regrouping in going on though, it's freezer-zone time....guy, person, could offer me the world and I would look disdainfully through their eyes...they try to cuddle and make up....I turn to an unemotional snowman/woman!!!:-) and will squirm away from them...(Talk about rejection!!!) - the good thing about aquarius people though is that they just don't/can't hold grudges for long...life is too short....so for 10-15 minutes at the most!! I will be oh so cold and unreachable and then (revenge time:-), I will start to talk about what the argument was over.......the other person gets involved again!!!!! I repeat, repeat, repeat.....and have the last word and then say something silly like...well if you want to kiss me now, you can!!! They ususally do:-)
However, if you don't want to appear too door-matish all the time to your guy, when the argument is on, simply ignore the aquarian............don't try to fuss or make up......silence, remove yourself from the room even and go do your bits and bobs, as you know! nobody but nobody ignores an aquarian!!!...he will come trotting after you....pretending to look for somethings blah blah and you've snared him again:-)
Good luck my pal and keep crabbing:-)
A x
Me very aquarius...you have just described the female version of me - how I act when provoked!!!:-)
First off, I will banter back a bit....if I am not getting my way or having the last word!!, then it' simply the ice-maiden cometh....I turn to stone, retreat, retreat, retreat and never surrender....that's the name of the game.....if someone has hurt me by what they have said, I won't necessarily tell them then and there (that will come later, when I have thought things through in my head and regrouped). While this regrouping in going on though, it's freezer-zone time....guy, person, could offer me the world and I would look disdainfully through their eyes...they try to cuddle and make up....I turn to an unemotional snowman/woman!!!:-) and will squirm away from them...(Talk about rejection!!!) - the good thing about aquarius people though is that they just don't/can't hold grudges for long...life is too short....so for 10-15 minutes at the most!! I will be oh so cold and unreachable and then (revenge time:-), I will start to talk about what the argument was over.......the other person gets involved again!!!!! I repeat, repeat, repeat.....and have the last word and then say something silly like...well if you want to kiss me now, you can!!! They ususally do:-)
However, if you don't want to appear too door-matish all the time to your guy, when the argument is on, simply ignore the aquarian............don't try to fuss or make up......silence, remove yourself from the room even and go do your bits and bobs, as you know! nobody but nobody ignores an aquarian!!!...he will come trotting after you....pretending to look for somethings blah blah and you've snared him again:-)
Good luck my pal and keep crabbing:-)
A x
My moon is is aquarius and all that Alana said matches to perfection!
And hope he never sees this chat. Or he'll realize it's all a dream within a dream. Brain Overload. Aquarian Vegetable. He'll be no good to you then.
I can definitely win an argument with an aquarian!
What would you do? 😉 🙂🙂
Just say your wrong they will go of and cry somewhere.
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I don't know if this is typical Aquarian or not, but when I am in a conversation with someone and it gets into an argument or the other person starts a verbal attack, I wind up stumbling over my words.
Then latter, when I've had time to think be
Then latter, when I've had time to think be
Just Wanted To Say That I Am New To The Site, and It Is An Excellent Site I Might Add... :) I Am An Aquarian Female, 19 From Australia.
I Look Foward To Chating To Who-Ever! :)
P.S I Think That James Tate's Horriblescopes Are Amusing...
I Look Foward To Chating To Who-Ever! :)
P.S I Think That James Tate's Horriblescopes Are Amusing...
How come alot of website saying aquarius have a chance to get back to the past with someone in this month? Did anyone notice it?
Hello my ladies Alana and Freebird - thought I would start a new topic as the first one has gotten pretty long, so we can continue my Saga here. Hope you don't mind!
My lady Alana - so nice to have you back, and so thankful for your post and you
My lady Alana - so nice to have you back, and so thankful for your post and you
Hello Aquarians! I'm so hoping I can get some some help and advice from you on this - or at the least, a better perspective here. A little background is probably warranted here so please forgive the long post upfront......
I'm a female Aires to
I'm a female Aires to
Dear Aquarians,
I read recently that Aquarrians love to flirt and are not satisfied with just one lover. Is this true?
I am not a fan of clumping everyone according to what sign they are but we do have certain qualities due to each sign
I read recently that Aquarrians love to flirt and are not satisfied with just one lover. Is this true?
I am not a fan of clumping everyone according to what sign they are but we do have certain qualities due to each sign
Are we in the dawning of the age of aquarius ? If so when does the sun come up? If we are not when will we be? Do we give up our soul to the dark side?
My aquarian has lived long distance for the past 6 months. I was going to move in with him in another couple of months, but he recently decided that he wanted to end it. I know he has feelings, but whenever he thinks I care too much, his feelings just go
Ok i get capricorns being that my whole family are capricorns accept me and my sister my sister is aquarious i dont get her shes happy then moody been reading up on aquarious to try and understand her
The Aquarius Character Portrait
The Aquarius loves a party. Anytime, anywhere is their motto. It is not unlikely that an Aquarius will consider a wake a good place to meet chicks.
Aquarians tend to be nostalgic about the 1960s because t
The Aquarius loves a party. Anytime, anywhere is their motto. It is not unlikely that an Aquarius will consider a wake a good place to meet chicks.
Aquarians tend to be nostalgic about the 1960s because t
I'm in a BEAUTIFUL relationship with an aq, except when i unknowingly piss him off!!! argh! so frustrating. i seem to make comments totally not directed at him but maaan he takes them to heart and shuts down emotionally. THEEEEEEN after losing myself scrambling for the problem of this sudden mood change, he decides to be direct and argue about it. To my shock, he is upset over the tiniest little comment i sarcastically made. (we have a GREAT time together, great humor) But i never know what to say or what not to say.
Ok so my question is this....how should aq's be handled when they get hurt? when they get angry? Do they need space? He seems to love it when i fall all over him to fix his mood...but really, is this what he wants? Will he lose respect for me if i seem to not stand up for myself? ugh, help!!!!
thanks !!!!!