One more translation, Please!

Yes, I have read through a ton of posts so I have a little insight, but surely not getting the full effect.

So I met this aqua guy a few weeks ago hanging out with the girls. Great conversation, dancing, being silly! Says he saw me from across the room and made his way over, but thought I was there with someone so he just watched. He writes me a note, the classic "I like u do u like me, check yes or no" - "Want to go steady, yes or no" thing. Cute! He jokes all night about "when we get married", blah, blah, blah. As soon as I pick up on the joke and say something to him he says, "well let's just take it easy and see where it goes". HUH— He gives me a nice little kiss.

I drive him home (his friends left early)and we talk for hours, , HE wants to cuddle and kiss for a little bit, calls me to make sure I got home ok, wants to make plans for next weekend. 4 days, no contact and not a problem from my side. I don't like someone all on top of me either...

More great conversation for a couple days - 2 weeks no contact. Calls me last night:
1) "U haven't written me off already have you?" Told him of course not, everybody has a life, things to do. "Well I'm kinda slow about these things". He means getting to know someone, right?? Then some chit-chat.

2) "I figured I better call u since tomorrow is V-day". Huh? More chit-chat.??

3) "So, do you have a hot date for tomorrow night?" Told him no, I don't. More chit-chat.??

4) "So is it okay if I take you out on Saturday, instead of tomorrow night?" Told him yes. Even more chit-chat.??

Is this the testing you all talk about? What? Is it safe to "assume" he is really interested?

Yes to the latter...no to testing...its just his thing.

Wow! Ok, thanks.
Let me clarify the I don't mind part - yes, I do mind, but in dealing with the military, I have become "used" to going no contact due to field time.

And I took the note thing as him just being silly.

Wow! Ok, thanks.
Let me clarify the I don't mind part - yes, I do mind, but in dealing with the military, I have become "used" to going no contact due to field time.

And I took the note thing as him just being silly.

He sounds interested, keep being you, Aqua like to hunt and them guessing, they love puzzles.
🙂

I keep in touch when I know I messed up and let go of someone wonderful, sometimes it takes me a million years to understand my emotions and by that time the person is out of the picture so I seek them out but yet still keep my distance if i'm still unable to voice my feelings due to fear of rejection. I love deeply but in the past I wasn't able to voice it so I would DO things to show it and this unfortunately didn't work for me.

I keep in touch because I care about the person and deep down hope to salvage the relationship in the near future.

I don't behave this way anymore but I used to... just an fyi

skin said: He sounds interested, keep being you, Aqua like to hunt and them guessing, they love puzzles.

yes we dooooo!! lol

I love my mind to be challenged, I looove to think it through, figure it, size it up and play with the situation, it keeps me on my toes.

hey starfish (:

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