Help! Need advice from you Aqua out there. I'm a Pisces woman and have known this aquarius male now for 4 years. We grew up in the same town, same school and know a lot of the same people. However, he's younger than me though (he's 28, I'm 35). We met through a friend, and became friends ourselves (he had a girlfriend at the time). There always seemed to be a connection between us....in the beginning we'd grab drinks, catch up, talk life, dating, etc. when I was in town (I live in a different state). We always had fun and kept in contact from time to time. When we'd leave, there was always a drawn out pause, then a awkward hug good-bye. His relationship eventually ended (she did a number on him and left him for a sugar daddy), and over the last 2 years we've progressively gotten closer, seeing each other more and more, doing what most would consider "date" things.... bonfires in the country, apple picking, dinners/movies, long walks after dinner, sunset kayaking, cooking class, etc. And over the last year, we've gone on several weekend trips together. I've always suggested/planned them, but he's always been onboard. He came to visit me for 5 days, we met in Chicago one weekend, had a winter snowmobile trip, he met me out west for 5 days, and we went on a ski trip over New Year's together. All of this, just the two of us. Everyone always asked if we're dating but he never answers the question though, and through it all, he has never once tried anything romantically with me! Seriously, not even a kiss. Now, I'm a total wuss myself and have not put the moves on him either....I want him to initiate so I know he's interested and wants me. I know 100% though that he's not gay. He does flirt with me, gives long hugs good-bye now, is always taunting/joking around with me, trying to get me riled up, punching me in the arm (his so called affection), and wrestles with me like a 12 year old boy. But then he'll turn around and joke about all his "Tinder matches", obviously trying to make me jealous. If it bothers me (which it does) I try not to let it show. Funny thing is, I've seen him get a little jealous too when I talk about dating, although he certainly tries to hide it. He is endearing and sweet at times and will open up to the point where I can't shut him up, but then will go mia and enjoy his silence to the point you can't hardly get a word out of him. He always sends these cryptic, vague messages that keep you wondering that maybe he really is interested, sayi
