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sumthing_phishy
@sumthing_phishy
19 Years

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hey pattylaindia!

this is my take on aqua men.... my brother is one and my ex is a capricorn with aqua rising/mars. i didn't know my ex was an aqua rising/mars until after we broke up if i knew before i would have never dated him. i thought he was normal (capricorn sun), but slowly realized he wasn't. these guys are more than different they can be very diabolical so watch out!

at best aquas can be quirky at worst they can be boarderline psycopathic. i won't even let my brother come to my house when he visits. i've seen him do some ridiculous stuff to women and then try to manipulate me into his little schemes....HA! my ex was the same way, the manipulation, the fake sincerity (think Paris Hilton), the mind games...sometimes i would just sit back and watch him...i just wanted to see how far he would go to keep up his fake world...i learned a lot and i will share it with you...heh heh

"I tried and tested the game of "play it cool and detach" with myaqua.">

yawn....this all sounds nice if you want to live like this for the rest of your life...

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sumthing_phishy
@sumthing_phishy
19 Years

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here is what i have learned about aquas:

1 - they have a god complex and everyone around them are like little characters in their personal SIMS game that they can manipulate at will

2- they like to feel like they are popular and liked. rest assure they will have lots of aquaintances. BUT very little if any real friends. and they will change them ever so often so that no one figures them out.

3 - they live in their own world and you are just visiting, if you get too close or start to figure them out they will try to run out with their mind games or you will leave out of frustration. they will never kick you out.

5 - they have a better understanding of the world than most people. they know that life comes in cycles and that even if they do the worst thing, it doesn't mean that something bad will happen to them and if something bad does happen, so what, life goes on...

4- it's not that they don't like confrontation it's just they don't like to get caught. when you do catch them they will try to manipulate you back into their lives with their fake sincerity. don't fall for it, it's just that they know once you leave they have to find a replacement....the motto it's cheaper to keep her applies here. however they won't do anything overtly kind to keep you.

5 - they like to be worshiped or at least feel like they are. they like to keep serveral questionable relationships with women going at the same time. in fact their greatest fantasy is to have these women at the same event (unbeknowst to them) as they pass effortlessly though the room. unfortunately most can't pull this off in real life and end up with some dramatic scene that they had wished never happened...

6- after every blow up they will re-arrange their life so that you won't catch them again...rest assure they will never change their behavior...not for you anyway.

7- they're sensitive about their own feelings not yours!

8- the best way to deal with an aqua man like the one above is to keep him on the side...he will never know, he is too busy with his own schemes..and if he finds out?...who cares.

i hope this helps🙂



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pattylaindia
@pattylaindia
18 Years

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ummm..... so aquas can be compare to a staring contest. They can have several girls going at the same time and whoever stays or (stares) the longest wins them.

They can warm up #one, leave them hot and bother,
go to #two, leave them hot and bother,
go to #three, leave them hot and bother...
and so on... time passes by, a few of them drops from the race.... whoever hold on the longests wins.

Then, the is thats how aquas take their time to be "friends" first?
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pattylaindia
@pattylaindia
18 Years

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prime,

how am i looking at this wrong?
I can see a pattern, I am not saying that aquas are playing all the girls all at the same time. I can see a pattern, a cyclical pattern of months. Yes, its one girl at a time, but one after the other.

I can just see that just by talking to the 2 aquas I am "seeing". They both have talked to me about their past relationships. I have read thread about how aqua, like to go tap their ex while being involve with someone new. This is madningly fascinating!!! (i think i just made up a word)
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