GeminiSoul
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Questions about Aqua man
despite your suns matching...
in love...mars and venus NEED to match. you guys conflict in that. your a gemini yes. but your highly influenced by characteristics of cancer signs more.you will find that you are more emotional than any other gemini.
Your emotional needs and temperaments are quite different, and this creates frustration for both of you, or at least discomfort at times.
Cancer is inwardly tender and sympathetic, and has a great yearning for closeness, and a sense of belonging or security. A very sensitive and feeling person, Cancer can be quite moody. Feelings of nostalgia, longing, melancholy, crabbiness, and worry or anxiety are a part of Cancer's emotional nature. Sagittarius, on the other hand, is cheerful and upbeat most of the time, and is frequently impatient with Cancer's moods and insecurities. Sagittarius may try to intellectualize or philosophize Cancer out of feeling moody. Rather than accepting Cancer's feelings, Sagittarius will either ignore them entirely or try to lighten them up. But in either case, Cancer ends up feeling misunderstood or simply not accepted.
Also, Cancer has a strong concern with, and attachment to, the past, while Sagittarius is forward-looking and concerned more with the future. Cancer is domestic and needs a strong, secure home base, while Sagittarius yearns for the new and unfamiliar. Sagittarius is more adventurous and more willing to uproot and change residences in pursuit of growth and opportunities, and Sagittarius doesn't want to be completely possessed or tied down. Freedom, mobility, and a certain degree of independence are essential for Sagittarius, who may feel dragged down by Cancer's neediness, emotionality, and need for roots.
Furthermore, Sagittarius is naturally quite candid, frank, and rather tactless. Sagittarius doesn't take everything as personally as Cancer does, and often hurts Cancer's feelings unintentionally. Sagittarius may feel that natural self-expression must be inhibited in order to accommodate Cancer's oversensitivity, and this can be frustrating.
Positively, Cancer can benefit from Sagittarius's humor and optimism, and Sagittarius may learn to acknowledge and accept innermost feelings more fully as a result of being with Cancer. But over all it will be tough because
fire moons like the sag are risk takers and are inspired by passion and quick impulses. but your moon suggests that you crave deep connections and are very nuturing...that is hard to bala
in love...mars and venus NEED to match. you guys conflict in that. your a gemini yes. but your highly influenced by characteristics of cancer signs more.you will find that you are more emotional than any other gemini.
Your emotional needs and temperaments are quite different, and this creates frustration for both of you, or at least discomfort at times.
Cancer is inwardly tender and sympathetic, and has a great yearning for closeness, and a sense of belonging or security. A very sensitive and feeling person, Cancer can be quite moody. Feelings of nostalgia, longing, melancholy, crabbiness, and worry or anxiety are a part of Cancer's emotional nature. Sagittarius, on the other hand, is cheerful and upbeat most of the time, and is frequently impatient with Cancer's moods and insecurities. Sagittarius may try to intellectualize or philosophize Cancer out of feeling moody. Rather than accepting Cancer's feelings, Sagittarius will either ignore them entirely or try to lighten them up. But in either case, Cancer ends up feeling misunderstood or simply not accepted.
Also, Cancer has a strong concern with, and attachment to, the past, while Sagittarius is forward-looking and concerned more with the future. Cancer is domestic and needs a strong, secure home base, while Sagittarius yearns for the new and unfamiliar. Sagittarius is more adventurous and more willing to uproot and change residences in pursuit of growth and opportunities, and Sagittarius doesn't want to be completely possessed or tied down. Freedom, mobility, and a certain degree of independence are essential for Sagittarius, who may feel dragged down by Cancer's neediness, emotionality, and need for roots.
Furthermore, Sagittarius is naturally quite candid, frank, and rather tactless. Sagittarius doesn't take everything as personally as Cancer does, and often hurts Cancer's feelings unintentionally. Sagittarius may feel that natural self-expression must be inhibited in order to accommodate Cancer's oversensitivity, and this can be frustrating.
Positively, Cancer can benefit from Sagittarius's humor and optimism, and Sagittarius may learn to acknowledge and accept innermost feelings more fully as a result of being with Cancer. But over all it will be tough because
fire moons like the sag are risk takers and are inspired by passion and quick impulses. but your moon suggests that you crave deep connections and are very nuturing...that is hard to bala
2) your rising signs:
your a cancer again and he is a aqua. his nature will be NATUALLY cool, distant and aloof, not deep enought in conversations, fickle etc etc..but he in his own way is loving, caring, loyal and giving.
3) mars and venus= no bueno!
mars is the planet of desires: you desire things from the cancer sign than a gemini and he is once again an aries.
venus is love-same.read here for love compatibility from your rising,moon, love
http://ariesandcancer.com/<BR>
hope that was too tedious to read!
i know dating a aqua liek that can be rough he has more aqua in him due his placements of planets. what it seems is that your questioning his desire to be with you and his desire to love you. what you should ask youself instead is "does he have the capacity to LOVE ME THE WAY I NEED AND WANT?" (meaning do you guys share the same values! that is love..2 people that share the same values)..
his desire is valid and sound. he can say he loves and likes and wants to be with you and can love you in the way HE KNOWS what he think love is. that will reflect how it will be expressed...love to aqua= mental connection, light heartedness, talks and talks, not to ovely dovey, for love isn't about emotions its a meeting of the minds. Those are values and things he goes by and it isn't necessarily wrong . it doesnt mean its not love* but it simply means you guys will not agree on a lot of things. that takes hard work COURAGE cuz..trust me girl...i know..its hard. but you should try to see it in this light:
he asked you to be exclusive.which means its a big deal...aquas love freedom for that to happen he means business withyou.
he talks and talks and has a variety of interest. boredom will never set in...you just gotta learn to let go and relax those thoughts..keep it simple if you like each each other then just enjoy it. if not then stay away.
i have a hard time with my gem bf. but i try my best to accept the way he loves and thinks. and when i do that i realize he DOES love and care.
so ACCEPT ..and live and let live. and understand the other side. and have your lover do the same.
this combination will be hard work..really hard but if you want it...regardless of zodiacs...it can be achieved. with patience , hope, and determination and desire...any relationship no matter if its a scorpio with aqua can be maintained.
good luck!
your a cancer again and he is a aqua. his nature will be NATUALLY cool, distant and aloof, not deep enought in conversations, fickle etc etc..but he in his own way is loving, caring, loyal and giving.
3) mars and venus= no bueno!
mars is the planet of desires: you desire things from the cancer sign than a gemini and he is once again an aries.
venus is love-same.read here for love compatibility from your rising,moon, love
http://ariesandcancer.com/<BR>
hope that was too tedious to read!
i know dating a aqua liek that can be rough he has more aqua in him due his placements of planets. what it seems is that your questioning his desire to be with you and his desire to love you. what you should ask youself instead is "does he have the capacity to LOVE ME THE WAY I NEED AND WANT?" (meaning do you guys share the same values! that is love..2 people that share the same values)..
his desire is valid and sound. he can say he loves and likes and wants to be with you and can love you in the way HE KNOWS what he think love is. that will reflect how it will be expressed...love to aqua= mental connection, light heartedness, talks and talks, not to ovely dovey, for love isn't about emotions its a meeting of the minds. Those are values and things he goes by and it isn't necessarily wrong . it doesnt mean its not love* but it simply means you guys will not agree on a lot of things. that takes hard work COURAGE cuz..trust me girl...i know..its hard. but you should try to see it in this light:
he asked you to be exclusive.which means its a big deal...aquas love freedom for that to happen he means business withyou.
he talks and talks and has a variety of interest. boredom will never set in...you just gotta learn to let go and relax those thoughts..keep it simple if you like each each other then just enjoy it. if not then stay away.
i have a hard time with my gem bf. but i try my best to accept the way he loves and thinks. and when i do that i realize he DOES love and care.
so ACCEPT ..and live and let live. and understand the other side. and have your lover do the same.
this combination will be hard work..really hard but if you want it...regardless of zodiacs...it can be achieved. with patience , hope, and determination and desire...any relationship no matter if its a scorpio with aqua can be maintained.
good luck!
candi3bb -- Thank you for your reply. Your explanation was very insightful 🙂!
From my understanding aquarius is like person who puts a lot of thought into things and likes to do them properly. This is why they dont rush. Most people rush saying your pefect this will work and your the one. Then they run into a commitment and end up with someone incompatible.
The fact aquarius want to be sure is a sign that they are taking it seriously and not being flippant or reckless about it. If someone puts a lot of work and thought into something its a sign of how important it is to them. This iw hat hes doing with you so he is serious about developing with you and progressing..you need to ask yourself why the desperation to rush if you are going to spend the rest of your lives together? Aquarius dont understand this rushing business. It perplexes them
Another feature of aquariius is that they are very selective about who they open up to. They choose a person to share their private life with and that person is very privelidged because they only do this rarely and open up rarely. So this is why your guy is perplexed that after giving you his heart which he would share with noone and letting you into his private world you are not realising that he regards you as special and important to him and that he feels a close bond with you.
The fact aquarius want to be sure is a sign that they are taking it seriously and not being flippant or reckless about it. If someone puts a lot of work and thought into something its a sign of how important it is to them. This iw hat hes doing with you so he is serious about developing with you and progressing..you need to ask yourself why the desperation to rush if you are going to spend the rest of your lives together? Aquarius dont understand this rushing business. It perplexes them
Another feature of aquariius is that they are very selective about who they open up to. They choose a person to share their private life with and that person is very privelidged because they only do this rarely and open up rarely. So this is why your guy is perplexed that after giving you his heart which he would share with noone and letting you into his private world you are not realising that he regards you as special and important to him and that he feels a close bond with you.
Posted by GeminiSoul
candi3bb -- Thank you for your reply. Your explanation was very insightful 🙂!
so what is the new 411? anything work out?
Posted by michellemabelle
From my understanding aquarius is like person who puts a lot of thought into things and likes to do them properly. This is why they dont rush. Most people rush saying your pefect this will work and your the one. Then they run into a commitment and end up with someone incompatible.
The fact aquarius want to be sure is a sign that they are taking it seriously and not being flippant or reckless about it. If someone puts a lot of work and thought into something its a sign of how important it is to them. This iw hat hes doing with you so he is serious about developing with you and progressing..you need to ask yourself why the desperation to rush if you are going to spend the rest of your lives together? Aquarius dont understand this rushing business. It perplexes them
Another feature of aquariius is that they are very selective about who they open up to. They choose a person to share their private life with and that person is very privelidged because they only do this rarely and open up rarely. So this is why your guy is perplexed that after giving you his heart which he would share with noone and letting you into his private world you are not realising that he regards you as special and important to him and that he feels a close bond with you.
this soudns more of a capricorn trait...to me
michellemabelle -- Thank you, what you explained made a lot of sense.
candi3bb -- Thanks for asking, but nothing new just the usual lol.
Will take it slow, and see what happens 🙂!
candi3bb -- Thanks for asking, but nothing new just the usual lol.
Will take it slow, and see what happens 🙂!
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