Relationship with an Aqarius Male

I've been seeing an Aquarius man for the last four months (things are great!). He has told me several times that he cares for me and likes me a lot, however, today he referred to me as his "friend" yet his actions and words scream much more than friends. He brought up the "what are we" conversation with me a month ago, and it caught me off guard so I blurted out, "You tell me." It was laughed off at that time and hasn't been brought up again since. I know he keeps trying to "read" me and I keep telling him to just ask (why is that so hard lol) if he would like to know something? I guess I'm a little confused by the "friend" statement. I do believe he cares for me by the way he treats me and his actions. Should I just be patient or bring up the "what are we" conversation again? Advice please!

Thanks!

Ohhh, the exact same thing is going on with me (also libra) and an aqua guy, has been for a while now, Zzzz!! But you know, the whole trying to define what is going on has started to bore me to death, so now I— starting to gradually pull away. It's great! We still text everyday and see each other a couple of times a week, but we're not together..fine! His actions also scream "BF", but he just doesnt want any kind of reference to it. SHould add myfeelkings have totally changed over the last 2 weeks though. Initially I was on fire for the guy, and now, well lets just say the fire has died down...a LOT!

So don stress about it, just do what you're going to do, and then one day BAM, he has taken so long you won't even want it that way anyway! Thats why Libran fickleness comes in sooo handy sometimes 🙂

eek, so many typos, sorry!!

then why question it? if his actions scream louder then that all should matter. Here is another thing you dont know if he chose that word just so he doesn't look desparate or pushy.

Just ask him "do you see me just as a friend?"

Since he's already brought it up, I would talk to him about it. He probably only introduced you as friend because he doesn't know what you are either! lol! So, yeah, have the conversation. Or you can just call him that in a light hearted way and see how he reacts. I wasn't sure with mine until he started referring to me as his gf and calling him by bf. We never really had that conversation. (although, we did have a passive conversation about being exclusive).

You're right Candi. I shouldn't question it. I guess I didn't expect him to refer to me as his friend because I've never had a friend quite like him. 😉

We have been intimate to a point (kissing, hugging, lots of snuggling, hand holding). I asked him today if we could talk later about us and he is supposed to call me tonight. I suddenly feel really nervous, but I'd rather know either way.

I hope it goes well for you!! I am sooo off the Aqua that when I saw him last night, i just got the creeps. Like seriously, if my mind wasn't sure of how I felt, i now know 100% thats its over for me. He's such a selfish, LYING, weak man, I can never believe what got me in the first place, ewwww!!

Quote him last week: "Oh, you know its the Easter holidays and I wont be able to see you because i have an insane amount of uni work to get through and no money". But only last night he says he spent Saturday in another town with a girl from his course, and they had an expensive lunch together (he even kindly showed me a photo of what he ate)!!!!

Yes, you define the words" prick, bastard and arseholeeee". I'm so happy to be out of there 🙂

Oh, but they are just "friends". Also while im ranting!! Maybe 2 weeks ago now, he was staying over at mine and at 2am his fone starts ringing and he goes out of the room to take the call. He says he has to leave there and then and that he will fone me the next day to tell me what happened. Hell, i though someone had died. Turns out it was that little bitch. She had too much to drink and needed him to go over. I tell you, I am soooooooo angry (at myself), i just want to screeaaaam. But i wont 🙂

I'm sorry Sola. That would piss me off, too!

Hopefully she was disappointed in his wore out performance in bed!!!! 😛

Hehehe, I know they didn't sleep together, but i dont even give a crap. It's not just those things, it turns out he is just an insult to everything I stand for. Respect, honesty, hard work. He is a spoiled, selfish, lazy man. She can have him.

Posted by uberlibra
We have been intimate to a point (kissing, hugging, lots of snuggling, hand holding). I asked him today if we could talk later about us and he is supposed to call me tonight. I suddenly feel really nervous, but I'd rather know either way.

Omg just tell him you want to be exclusive!!! If you are being intimate with him in the above way ^^^ then he probably wants something exclusive as well. At least I would if I was being this affectionate with someone.

Good luck!