I've talked in other posts about my Cap. He annoyed me because after spending the night and having a great time the next day I sent him a flirty txt and his response was "really, why is that?" So I was complaining to my sister about why I'm annoyed, and my nieces decide its a good idea to steal my cell phone and send a msg saying "Missing U". This makes me extremely uncomfortable. I guess because (1) his behavior already makes me feel uncomfortable and (2) It takes awhile before I can be emotionally invested in someone. It takes awhile for me to feel comfortable saying I miss you's and being vulnerable. I wasn't ready.
Of course he isn't either. His response to the txt was "Ahhh what are you doing" smh lol. So I'm trying to resist the urge to run like the dickens. I promised to help him with his term paper. That I will do. But after that I dont see myself being able to continue feeling like this. Its easier for me to say screw it than to deal with all the unknown crap.
Ok, Im really chunking dueces at this point. He asks me to help him with his term paper. I was only in town for the weekend he sent it to me Saturday night, I had sunday to go to church, drop my son off and head on an 8hr trip back to Oklahoma to be home for work on Monday. He asks me at 12 midnight about the paper and at the last minute tells me the paper is due monday night. So I promise to look at it that night when I get home and email him the revisions by the morning. I get home at 3:30 am. put my son in bed and work on his HORRIBLE essay (I mean horrible no sentence structure not enough info, I tried to solidify the arguments as much as I could and bad wordchoice) FOR 2 HOURS. I email it at 5AM and send him a txt to let him know I sent it then get in bed for an hr before I get up for work.
I do all this cause I hate to let people down so if I tell you I'm gonna do something, I do it. but I do like my efforts to be appreciated. Well...I never even heard back from him the whole day. I thought maybe it was just finals so I waited. this morning I get up, still nothing. No hey I got it, no hey thanks but I didnt like all the changes, not even a thanks for your help. So I'm LIVID. When I txt him I say "Soooo no I loved it I hated it not even a simple thank you for trying to help. You sho right." His asshole response is "Wow. I kept some of the changes. Thank You." Wow...really? Cause I have to ask for the damn Thank You? Naw I'm straight. I dont have to deal with this.
Of course he isn't either. His response to the txt was "Ahhh what are you doing" smh lol. So I'm trying to resist the urge to run like the dickens. I promised to help him with his term paper. That I will do. But after that I dont see myself being able to continue feeling like this. Its easier for me to say screw it than to deal with all the unknown crap.