GigglyAqua
@GigglyAqua
18 Years
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I'm and aqua, and love attention. I thought I was suppose to be distant. Don't get me wrong, I do but just an equal balance I would say. Anyway, me and my ex are just hanging out again, he's leaving to the navy, I want comfort in someone there, and so whatever, there he is. He told me how much he missed me and told me the ball was in my court. I told him we'd play things by ear and that he was on MY team. Basically, we've hung out for the past two weeks, and texted and talked like crazy. Since earlier this week, he's been stand-offish. I don't believe I should confront him, (that makes me emotional) and since he's leaving to the navy in about 5 months, I'm not going to seem needy. So do I just let it ride out? Ignore him? Be indifferent and treat him as I would a friend? Or should I keep trying with the lines of communication?
oh and I want to make sure, whatever it is he is trying to do...I'll be the one to determine the outcome of the relationship. Meaning, I can take him or leave him (something I also told him in the beginning since I figured I'd be honest.) He's not emotional, so he was completely fine til this week.