And so my relationship melodrama 2012 continues lol. I had previous posts about how I had too many suitors and I was going to hang on for Mr. Aries. Then Mr. Aries announced he was moving and I decided to stay friends. Meanwhile someone I had kept in distant conversation for the past 3 months, but nothing serious. He called me the other day and I felt guilty because I had been ignoring his phone calls so I finally picked up had an in depth conversation. He is a scorpio. For some reason when I first met him I assumed he was a Gemini, but I now see his scorp traits. He reminds me vaguely of my first love, who was the elusive non-committed yet jealous and possessive type. But he hasnt shown those negative traits yet, its his sarcastic humor and claims of simplicity than I can see right through. I told him I think he likes to think he's a simple man, but he has more requirements than he lets on lol. He said that was hilarious then rattled off a five course menu he expected me to mainly prepare solo as a house warming gift. Sounds crazy but I think his quest for attention is kinda cute lol. Anyhoo, the conversation was on a deep level, we quizzed each other about past relationships etc. I finally agreed to go on a 'official' date. That night was incredible. At first he seemed really guarded. Then we had drinks in the parking lot and talked for about 2 hours about everything. Family issues, made fun of some guys in the parking lot, etc. By the time we started walking to the venue he was holding my hand the whole way and wouldn't let me go the rest of the night. We really connected. No we have not been intimate, just kissing and hugging. But he's SUPER sweet. well the next week he was telling me he was sick and his throat hurt. I was telling him he would probably have to go to the ER he told me he was there and after that I didnt hear from him. I txted him, no answer. I thought he was mad cause I didnt offer to come up there so I said whatever and put it out of my mind. Three days later his MOM calls me (never spoke to her before this) to tell me his throat had closed up and he was admitted in the hospital. I was freaked out that (1) he was really sick and I had thought the worst, i felt like an a-hole and (2) that he thought enough of me to have his mom call. The next day I went to visit him and brought a card. He was so happy to see me and introduced me to his mom and sister. we all talked for awhile it was really comfortable.
Then they left and he wanted me to stay for awhile so I did and helped the nurse take care of him and stuff. Well then he tells me "you know we getting married right? you've seen me at my worst so I cant let you go." I laughed it off and told him I wasnt paying him any attention until the sick spell wore off. But he kept telling me about how he had a near death experience and he wanted to make some changes in his life and he wanted me to be there with him on his journey. And then he kept saying that he was serious about the marriage thing. Before I left he said he wanted an answer. I told him he would have to ask me the right way first lol. I dunno it was weird. I'm not scared of him, he doesn't hide anything from me or seem like a typical secretive scorpio. I feel like we can be ourselves around eachother. I feel like he has already claimed me with no expectations of me resisting. And I'm not sure if I want to resist. I'm not saying I'm gonna walk down the isle with this guy next week, but maybe there's more to this...Just thought it was an interesting story
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well the next week he was telling me he was sick and his throat hurt. I was telling him he would probably have to go to the ER he told me he was there and after that I didnt hear from him. I txted him, no answer. I thought he was mad cause I didnt offer to come up there so I said whatever and put it out of my mind. Three days later his MOM calls me (never spoke to her before this) to tell me his throat had closed up and he was admitted in the hospital. I was freaked out that (1) he was really sick and I had thought the worst, i felt like an a-hole and (2) that he thought enough of me to have his mom call. The next day I went to visit him and brought a card. He was so happy to see me and introduced me to his mom and sister. we all talked for awhile it was really comfortable.