Aloof Aquarian

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by CYAN on Wednesday, July 25, 2012 and has 15 replies.

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@CYAN
18 Years

This goes for all males...But pair it with an Aquarian male and I can really see this making sense.

In intimate relationships, they are not very intimate. Aquarius males are great with the future and progressive thinking, but not so good the past. This is because 99% of Aquarius males have a paternal (father) situation where their father was absent from home a lot, abusive, alcoholic or a drug addict, commonly known for having sexual affairs and a cold, empty marriage with the mother, and as a result the Aquarius male never received guidance and instruction on being a warm and loving man in general and especially not with a woman. They feel —different??, sometimes to the point of weirdness and other times to the point of egoism (superiority). At the base of it is deep insecurity and fear at not being competent, loved and not being accepted. He grows up feeling inside that he cannot express himself in an intimate loving relationship with another individual??_so he opts for focusing on the masses.

http://healuniv.blogspot.com/2008/12/aquarius-male.html

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@truecap
14 Years10,000+ Posts

Surely, not almost every man born in late January/early February had fathers like this.

Curious, Aqua men, how about some input? How was your relationship with your father?

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@Aqualad
14 YearsAquarius

Posted by ArticleL

Posted by truecap
Surely, not almost every man born in late January/early February had fathers like this.

Agreed this is not the same as two legs but then again theres this other universe Aqua might be in it.

-Giggles-

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I think would be surprised If you ask every male aqua you know about their father.

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@Aqualad
14 YearsAquarius

My father is an alcoholic aries who is very controlling and burst into anger a lot. We butt heads all the time and while growing up we have gone through many periods of not talking to each other. The longest being almost most a whole year not talking to each other just saying the little things like hello and good morning which were usually just mummers.

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@ArticleL
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Aqualad

Posted by ArticleL

Posted by truecap
Surely, not almost every man born in late January/early February had fathers like this.

Agreed this is not the same as two legs but then again theres this other universe Aqua might be in it.

-Giggles-

I think would be surprised If you ask every male aqua you know about their father.

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Even if I asked everyone it doesn't encompass most btw they do have there dads. Unless they all of a sudden left brb.

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@Aqualad
14 YearsAquarius

Posted by ArticleL

Posted by Aqualad

Posted by ArticleL

Posted by truecap
Surely, not almost every man born in late January/early February had fathers like this.

Agreed this is not the same as two legs but then again theres this other universe Aqua might be in it.

-Giggles-

I think would be surprised If you ask every male aqua you know about their father.

Even if I asked everyone it doesn't encompass most btw they do have there dads. Unless they all of a sudden left brb.

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True all I am saying is that it does seem to be a common theme strangely. It's just eye opening if you choose to investigate it that's all.

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@lisabethur8
14 Years50,000+ Posts

naw. Remember the author states "UNEVOLVED" and in every star sign or placement whatever, there's always going to be an unevolved.

We could go through archives of famous/celebrities of sun sign only male aquarians and i wouldnt be surprised that some do have good parenting. Some don't. And we can break it down and do the moon aquarians too. Then we can further that and go into the Mars and Venus. And if that don't beat all, there's the other 11 zodiac signs and i'm sure we'll find fathers that are not around/absent.
Case in point: my ex Pisces's father was never around (distant)
Every astrologer has opinions and all those people who clamour around posting are usually people deep in confusion and suffering over their male lover to be. or something like that.

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@ArticleL
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by Aqualad

Posted by ArticleL

Posted by Aqualad

Posted by ArticleL

Posted by truecap
Surely, not almost every man born in late January/early February had fathers like this.

Agreed this is not the same as two legs but then again theres this other universe Aqua might be in it.

-Giggles-

I think would be surprised If you ask every male aqua you know about their father.

Even if I asked everyone it doesn't encompass most btw they do have there dads. Unless they all of a sudden left brb.

True all I am saying is that it does seem to be a common theme strangely. It's just eye opening if you choose to investigate it that's all.

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Gotcha also for you to investigate most fathers are not there in this society then present. Same with marriages.

@Lisa, Love your Avi me stealing.

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@CYAN
18 Years

Im still exploring same lover within confines, thank you very much lisabeth.

Always looking for different points of view and perspective; something I dont see here all the time. So i post things i have not read about before. Im not protesting anything, im presenting if that is alright with you.

I still suffer ie. (ego) but im learning so much and there is little confusion when you are dealing with things head on.

This wasnt the best info i found out there but I had never seen any astrologer say this before as a reason for Aquarian male approach to love. I admit it was not a bit unfounded.

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@CookiePusher
18 Years

My dad was in the military so he was rarely home as a young child and as I grew older we never got a close relationship, until recently much after I finished high school and such.

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@CookiePusher
18 Years

I never knew a man was suppose to be anything other than Rambo or Mr. No-Tears until recently when me and dad started getting along.