Want an aquarius guy who loves someone else.

Hey everyone. Im hoping some of you can shed some light on this situation. Ill try to keep it as short as possible! 🙂

I met an aquarius at my old job several months ago. He's 23. I really liked him initially and we got along great (im a libra if it matters).

We hung out one nite and he was so sweet to me and we ended up kissing but nothing else. He told me he was moving to Colorado in a month at that time so i tried to form whatever bond i could with him but he seemed weary i assume because he was moving. But still flirted with me and told me i could come see him anytime in Colorado.

That was in September/October, he moved in November i believe. During the time he was gone he would text me and tell me he missed me and send pics of himself. Then told me he was moving back. Believe he moved back in February/March.

At this time i wasn't really seeking a relationship with him but i did like him. He was texting me constantly to hang out almost everyday and i would make plans with him but then cancel because of school.

We finally hung out last week and things got hot and heavy quickly although i assumed maybe they would. I met his friends, we were talking and seeing eachother a lot more, and things were great.

I asked him if he was moving back to Colorado but he said it was over and done with. I know he wants to move somewhere else but he is getting a job here. Always on the go, lol.

Then last weds nite/thurs morn (2 days ago) we were spending time together and everything was great. We were kissing and suddenly he said his life was complicated. I thought he was referencing moving but he VERY hesitantly told me (i had to keep prying) that he was in love with someone in Colorado but she was with someone else.

I remained calm and tried to talk to him about it and i could tell he was really bothered. Even after he told me this though he still was kissing me and flirty. I didn't know what to think. He did say he felt guilty though and he acknowledged him bringing it up was rude and awkward.

His friend told me to just make him forget about the other girl because he obviously likes me.

He told me he didn't know what to do with his life but it wasn't his intention of staying here and was afraid of starting something new..but that he was thinking it might be good having these feelings. He knows i dont want FWB and if he did he prob would've asked me to stay the nite.

Then the nite ended kind of weird and he gave me a kiss on the fo

Well it cut me off but obviously this libra talks too much!

He gave me a kiss on the forehead and i left and he hasnt contacted me yet. figured id give him space.

Any advice here aquarius people? Or anyone for that matter? Probably seems like on the surface i should move on but feel something deeper.

Thanks! 🙂

Hmmm...I'd pass. If he's emotionally engaged elsewhere, all you are is his second choice. You don't want that.

Leeb I bring good news. I'm seeing a libra right now only i'm the female aqua. Little did I know when we worked together at my old job I was interested in a sag whom I spent so much time invested so much energy but it went nowhere because maybe I just wasn't as serious as him. I still have these memories but my friend helped me forget about it well in a way a sense to move on I never fully moved on because we had such good memories at the job. However he did convince me to get out more and explore possibilities. Turns out he liked me all along I didn't want to try anything new but he is still so patient even in the friendzone my story is kind of complicated if you want to know about it you can message me 🙂. Well back to it being emotionally involved somewhere else and still seeing the sag at work mr. libra hung out with me more while mr.sag got jealous and made me jealous and mr.leeb was still ever so patient not getting upset if i happened to sway in feelings. Well the sag is gone I think back once or twice but i'm working towards something new. Stick it out it may just work for you but you'll have to be patient being his friend and keeping his mind occupied, encouraging moments where he wants to be openly verbal or expressive verbally. Soon enough with time the old will fade and he will look forward to this newness and embrace it.

Well technically the friend zone but he's taken so I guess that makes us in the "seeing someone" stage 🙂

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Hmmm...I'd pass. If he's emotionally engaged elsewhere, all you are is his second choice. You don't want that.

I agree. If an Aquarius man tells you he's in love with someone else then BELIEVE HIM!

Not an aquarius, but my advice is just basic boy/girl advice.

No matter how cool, or sweet, or hot, or nice, or fun, or awesome you are, if his heart is somewhere else, it's not going to be with you until his heart is no longer elsewhere.

Beware, you are either the friend to help talk him through this, or the rebound girl he will be with until he gets over this.

Just be wise and don't set yourself up for heartbreak. I.e. don't sleep with him, don't kiss him, don't think about him romantically.

He's young and stupid. Like a typical young and stupid boy with raging hormones, he's drowning his sorrow about not getting that girl with you. You are a distraction and nothing more.