Aquarius09

Lots of acquaintances, but 2-3 close friends.

He’s a Pisces sun with libra moon? Looooooollllll! This is not forever after. The only reason he’s marrying her is because he’s older now and he’s never done marriage before. Gotta give into the novelty.

Virgos are the Frank Grimes (refer to the The Simpsons). They are that perfectionist, meticulously hardworking, diligent social workers who love working for social issues but not out of honour. It’s done for three reasons: secret accolades, acceptance from others and it’s their natural inclination to be that way. They like to work and improve their surrounding including the individuals in close proximity. The problem is that their workoholic and overthinking/neurotic self is abysmally boring and friendless, and as a result, they are jealous of and have meltdown on all the people living it up/have friends without doing half the work they put in to be accepted.

They will intervene in your business and micromanage you until you are miserable like them. Stay away. Never met a Virgo anything who wasn’t like this.

LOL! So accurate. Why can’t the dude to all the legwork 😌

Good observation. You’re onto something about this placement. I’m lately noticing a pattern of sexual sluggishness with Pisces moon as well. Let’s use four individuals.
The first two are very close to me.

1. Sun in Aqua, moon in Pisces and Mars in Sag - very sexual in thoughts (thinks about sex quite a bit) and words but fails in action. He can go days and months without it.

2. Sun in Aqua, moon in Pisces and mars in Pisces - he is straight prudish. He’s not sexual in thought or even words and zero on action too. His wife can count on her fingers how many times they did it. She thinks he’s closet gay.

3. Sun in Sag, moon Pisces and mars in Sag. This guy is my friend’s hubby. He went 7 months without sex when they were dating, which I find bizarre. Then, two years after they got married, his libido has apparently died. His wife consoles herself with the fact that he’s 10 yrs older than her (he’s 42) and maybe that’s why his libido has slowed down.

4. Gem sun, moon in Pisces and I don’t know his mars but his Taurus wife is full complaints about low sexual libido.

I feel this moon is asexual and will drain a strong sexual fire or earth mars.

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Online dating is for filter obsessed individuals, people looking to troll and kill time w/o making an effort, catfishes and no confidence to approach a person in real life.

I tried it once and those were my lazy days because I didn’t want to make an effort (winter lazy days) and all I saw was catfishes, people using pics from the time they were atttactive and marketable and people who wanted to talk more before meeting. It’s all flash without the substance. It’s perfect if you’re looking for a fling or something meaningless.

did you ever meet up with anyone when you tried it?

Sure did and I was livid. Got conned or deceived couple times.

What happened exactly? Snapchat and photoshop really did a dangerous thing making people attractive in their phones and computers but not in real life. The consequences gotta be painful

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They sure are if the first thing you are attracted to is looks, which we all are and online definitely is promoting that. Forget filters for a sec. Imagine using a pic from your early 20s when you had a lucious head of hair to when you’re in your early 30s and now you’re bald. This dude didn’t think that he had deceived. It was still him in the pic. I should’ve shown him when I was a teenager.

Even though I fall under millennial, I sure as hell don’t behave like one.

As someone already mentioned, millennials are delusional with their false sense of entitlement. The underlying reason for that is they were never disciplined properly and nor faced consequences for their poor behaviour. As a result, they feel entitled and view life as hunky dory. Issues that emerge from this is false sense of worth (they feel they deserve better in life without working for it) and can’t keep a job or a partner. Pure insanity.

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Online dating is for filter obsessed individuals, people looking to troll and kill time w/o making an effort, catfishes and no confidence to approach a person in real life.

I tried it once and those were my lazy days because I didn’t want to make an effort (winter lazy days) and all I saw was catfishes, people using pics from the time they were atttactive and marketable and people who wanted to talk more before meeting. It’s all flash without the substance. It’s perfect if you’re looking for a fling or something meaningless.

did you ever meet up with anyone when you tried it?

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Sure did and I was livid. Got conned or deceived couple times.

Online dating is for filter obsessed individuals, people looking to troll and kill time w/o making an effort, catfishes and no confidence to approach a person in real life.

I tried it once and those were my lazy days because I didn’t want to make an effort (winter lazy days) and all I saw was catfishes, people using pics from the time they were atttactive and marketable and people who wanted to talk more before meeting. It’s all flash without the substance. It’s perfect if you’re looking for a fling or something meaningless.

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Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batbutter crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.

He is a -

Water Bearer Sun
Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)
Goat Mercury
Goat Venus
Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.

With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!

Bloody hell, I was looking for a man, not a father.

Though in hindsight, that does explain some of his behaviours though. Thank you for writing, @aquarius09.

My pleasure. Here's a basic guidance:

If you want a father figure, get Capricorn dominant men
If you want a guy who is nurturing like a mother, get Cancer dominant. Remember they will be emotional, a minus to a nurturing and compassionate mother of a man.

If you want a friend in a partner, get an Aqua dominant.
If you want a passionate and intense (lose yourself kinda romantic partner), get a Scorpio dominant
If you want an exciting and adventurous guy, get Aries or Sag dominant.
If you want a romantic partner with a high sex drive, get a Taurus dominant - cheat risk though.
If you want someone to better you, like a life trainer, get a Virgo dominant. They will make you efficient will all the nagging and nitpicking they'll do. You WILL leave them but you will be leaving them as a better person. LOL

The ones I didn't mention have nothing of value to offer...ironically they are also the top 3 of the 4 delusional sign of the zodiac. If you are looking for a child to babysit, go for the ones I didn't mention.

True on the Cap dominant part.
I've actually been called to be like a father to them and I have to say it's not a very pleasant experience.

Thanks. Be mindful of the energy you exude and the paternalistic tendencies you have in order to channel them, so that women with daddy issues are not drawn to you or that one isn't perceiving you as that.

Yeah, but I don't think I did anything to warrant such a sentiment and statement.
Just helped or listened to her when she was sad and needed an ear. The only "odd" thing I ever did was inviting her to watching a movie at the cinema because I thought it would make her happy.
I honestly don't know how this would make one a father figure to someone.

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Is that ALL you did? If so, no that's not a daddy thing to do.

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Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batbutter crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.

He is a -

Water Bearer Sun
Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)
Goat Mercury
Goat Venus
Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.

With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!

Bloody hell, I was looking for a man, not a father.

Though in hindsight, that does explain some of his behaviours though. Thank you for writing, @aquarius09.

My pleasure. Here's a basic guidance:

If you want a father figure, get Capricorn dominant men
If you want a guy who is nurturing like a mother, get Cancer dominant. Remember they will be emotional, a minus to a nurturing and compassionate mother of a man.

If you want a friend in a partner, get an Aqua dominant.
If you want a passionate and intense (lose yourself kinda romantic partner), get a Scorpio dominant
If you want an exciting and adventurous guy, get Aries or Sag dominant.
If you want a romantic partner with a high sex drive, get a Taurus dominant - cheat risk though.
If you want someone to better you, like a life trainer, get a Virgo dominant. They will make you efficient will all the nagging and nitpicking they'll do. You WILL leave them but you will be leaving them as a better person. LOL

The ones I didn't mention have nothing of value to offer...ironically they are also the top 3 of the 4 delusional sign of the zodiac. If you are looking for a child to babysit, go for the ones I didn't mention.

True on the Cap dominant part.
I've actually been called to be like a father to them and I have to say it's not a very pleasant experience.

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Thanks. Be mindful of the energy you exude and the paternalistic tendencies you have in order to channel them, so that women with daddy issues are not drawn to you or that one isn't perceiving you as that.

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Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batbutter crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.

He is a -

Water Bearer Sun
Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)
Goat Mercury
Goat Venus
Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.

With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!

Bloody hell, I was looking for a man, not a father.

Though in hindsight, that does explain some of his behaviours though. Thank you for writing, @aquarius09.

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My pleasure. Here's a basic guidance:

If you want a father figure, get Capricorn dominant men
If you want a guy who is nurturing like a mother, get Cancer dominant. Remember they will be emotional, a minus to a nurturing and compassionate mother of a man.

If you want a friend in a partner, get an Aqua dominant.
If you want a passionate and intense (lose yourself kinda romantic partner), get a Scorpio dominant
If you want an exciting and adventurous guy, get Aries or Sag dominant.
If you want a romantic partner with a high sex drive, get a Taurus dominant - cheat risk though.
If you want someone to better you, like a life trainer, get a Virgo dominant. They will make you efficient will all the nagging and nitpicking they'll do. You WILL leave them but you will be leaving them as a better person. LOL

The ones I didn't mention have nothing of value to offer...ironically they are also the top 3 of the 4 delusional sign of the zodiac. If you are looking for a child to babysit, go for the ones I didn't mention.

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Okay, I read it and he sounds unhinged, insecure and immature. Emphasis on insecure though. Must be a water or fire based Aqua. I usually see this type of uncontrollable insecurity and vindictiveness come from the water based ones. List his placements.

My bro is an Aqua with moon and venus in Pisces and he behaves like this. He’s very controlling and insecure. A former friend of mine who I disposed overnight for having an uncontrollable vicious tantrum like your guy did on you was also Aqua with moon in Pisces and venus and mars in Aries. She was batbutter crazy but on the surface she was composed like an aqua sun, which is why I even bothered to befriend her.

He is a -

Water Bearer Sun
Merman Moon (probably Ram Moon)
Goat Mercury
Goat Venus
Goat Mars

Ironically @aquarius09, he was very passive aggressive in his way of controlling everything around him, including me. Yet, he himself hates being controlled in any way, even when he was not being controlled at all. The double standards were rife. He would never admitting to being jealous or controlling of another. On the surface, he would seem coolly detached, if not rational. However, if you know how to read him, you know it is a facade. He both hated and loved the fact that I could see through. It both brought him relief yet at the same time cause him to resent me, that I could see through it.

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With all that Capricorn, he’s very paternalistic and wants to be someone’s father. He’s a father- knows-best type of person. Good luck!

Nothing to do with Jan or Feb Aquas. It’s all about the element you have in dominance.

If you have a lot of Aqua like me, then you’re brutally honest, too objective/detached because you do lack emotions, can come across as an marker, philanthropist etc.

If you’re water or fire based, you’re the more emotional variant. Caring, compassionate, understanding, more attuned with their emotions yet all batbutter crazy things that come with Pisces or Aries influence will be seen like moodiness, passive aggression, wishy washy, no self-restraint and severely lacking in self-awareness.

Earth Aquas with Capricorn influence are the grounded ones. Good bunch to grab.

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We tend to be delusional about dating - most people here are telling you that you shouldn't want to be the 3rd choice, but in reality no one is ever the first choice unless you met the guy in grade school or wherever the guy first fell in love. Think of the 1st or 2nd girl in that scenario. What if they decided to come back for him but he was now with the 3rd girl and grew attached to her. Now those 2 are pissed and they are worried about the same thing, which, when it comes down to it, is "does he or did he ever really love me?" He could choose any of the 3, but whoever is chosen is going to be dissatisfied knowing he messed around with another girl. OR whoever he chose can learn to be happy with the fact that in the end he has ended up with her and wants to start a life with her. It's not about the past. It's about the future. OR if she really wants to be the first choice, she can date a virgin who just got out of high school.

There are people who think of dating as finding the perfect soul mate, but come on. Those people generally end up alone with their prudish beliefs. Don't be one of them.

The most honest and respectable post!

Alone. Being with an annoying person who you can’t stand let alone love is far worse than dying alone because you’re dying in annoyance as opposed to dying in peace.

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We have a problem with being loyal in a relationship even though we want loyalty because we feel we always gotta have a backup plan so we can always have female energy around. It for out emotional well being because we take breakups with ones with care about the absolute worst emotionally of any sign.

The reason for this is we derive alot of powerful energy that we thrive on from females. We can be masculine men, but need reassurance from females in order to truly shine.

A Cancer man's worst nightmare is not having a woman out there that admires him. It has nothing to do with being vain. We just feel out of sync if there isn't a female energy source being given to us.

Pathetic
Sad
user mentality

One of my cancer guy friend thrives on what high tide said. All the women he’s been with write an ode about him on social media. But he also dates batbutter crazy, so I’m not surprised that they start writing long winded poetry and ode to him in a short span of time. 🙄

Being admired is one thing using a person's time and energy to validate your existence another

Yes, this Cancer dude does have existential crisis as well. Also, being “admired” in a short span of time is not considered admiration either. It’s more infatuation.

So he never falls for them?

Sounds like a player

But aren’t Cancer men players? LMaO. They are the nice guys who aren’t decent. LOL.

All my Cancer guy friends, relatives, coworkers are undercover cheating hoes. Sooner or later they get caught. I had high hopes that one old Cancer friend would prove this wrong, but alas, he failed me as well. I recently found out through my bro that he’s cheating on his wife.

Thats too bad. I know some decent ones, but they're east African.

I guess since it's easy for them to engage women they easily get corrupted, but most of them i don't even hear anything about

The right guy will only deal with one woman out of respect for her and himself

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I suppose upbringing/nurture plays a huge role. The old Cancer friend who recently disappointed me by cheating on his wife is Kenyan indian. He was very attractive back in the days and had his supply and demand. He was a good guy. I guess the Taurus he married isn’t fulfilling him. When we were friends, he and I bonded over our love for wanting kids. I’m surprised that he has no kids after being with his girl for 15 yrs.