Aquarius09

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Posted by aquarius09

Posted by Black-Mamba

Posted by aquarius09
Excessive energy, ambitious, driven, egoistic, fragile ego, chivalrous, quick to anger but equally quick in abatement, impulsive thinker. That’s all I got.

sounds empty headed

Are you looking for an intellectual? Because that’s not his chart.

I'm looking for a foundation. A stable one. Yes an intellectual on some level?

why don't you see him as an intellectual? too naive?

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Taurus moons are naive and gullible. Accomplished but through hard work of actualizing their goals. Aries mercs are too impulsive and rash for thinking straight in moments that warrant logic. They are quick on their feet though and kinesthetic learners. Aries makes it big through taking risk, which sometimes doesn’t work in their favour. That won’t go down well with Cancer since you’re risk averse.

I was recently talking to a Virgo dude with Taurus moon and Taurus merc. The man was a male equivalent of a bimbo. I ghosted.

You guys have great synastry just based off the sun and moon. Also, Gem is the best match for Aquas. Not sharing this hobby shouldn’t be a dealbreaker. It can be frustrating because, as a venus in Aqua, you seek your partner to be your best friend and travel with him. You need to compromise or work out a solution. Two years is good time with someone which shouldn’t be overlooked for not sharing one similar hobby of travelling.

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Posted by aquarius09
Excessive energy, ambitious, driven, egoistic, fragile ego, chivalrous, quick to anger but equally quick in abatement, impulsive thinker. That’s all I got.

sounds empty headed

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Are you looking for an intellectual? Because that’s not his chart.

Posted by Aquarelle

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Personally I have never been attracted to Sag males. The Aqua women who are attracted to Sagittarius energy probably have a mars in Sag or other aspects in Sag that form some attraction to Sagittarius energy.

Hmm. You’re onto something with that. Both my bestie and I are attracted to Sag men and we both have Sag mars.

Yes, that could explain something when it comes to attraction. Personally I only have experienced the Moon-Mars connection, with me being the moon person ( I have moon in Sagittarius). It's pretty hot.

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My bestie is Aqua sun with moon and mars in Sag and she likes Sag men. I think our soulmate in Gems 😍 She’s happily married to a Gem. I have seen countless Aqua men and women ending up with Gem. This pair works effortlessly.

Posted by Aquarelle
Personally I have never been attracted to Sag males. The Aqua women who are attracted to Sagittarius energy probably have a mars in Sag or other aspects in Sag that form some attraction to Sagittarius energy.

Hmm. You’re onto something with that. Both my bestie and I are attracted to Sag men and we both have Sag mars.

Excessive energy, ambitious, driven, egoistic, fragile ego, chivalrous, quick to anger but equally quick in abatement, impulsive thinker. That’s all I got.

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To be fair that's alot of water - we should feel sorry for him

it's hard to live in this world as a man with that much water. I'd be a drug addict too

Yeah, I don’t blame him either.

Wow! What a train wreck! There could a Joker movie made on him with the motto - refined auditor by day, crackhead at night.

Posted by Aquarelle
I read your story and wondered if you were a Pisces...then came to the last line and read that you are.

She may like you, or she may just see you as a friend who happens to like some of the same things as her. She may also not have liked you in the beginning but now that she sees more of you, she may start to like you. I like to be friends before lovers, and she might be the same.

I know its difficult, but the only way to know for sure is to just ask her. Pisces can seem elusive to Aquarius, we like things verbalised.

Btw, are you ok with her being weird about emotions? Because that won't change. Are you emotional yourself?

I co-sign this. Btw I find it so cute that you made a list of all the things you admire about her. 😍 That was a total water sign thing. My cancer guy friends did that too.

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Virgo is the most annoying sign out of all the earth signs with the traits associated with them: neurotic, controlling, critical. Yes, there is a good aspect that comes from it but no self-respecting, positive individual with redeeming qualities will put up with a Virgo dominant person. Dating them is akin to dating someone who is physically and mentally disabled while you’re neither of the two.

My sister, ex and couple other people I know who are Virgo dominants have their good traits like servicing people, cleanliness, organized but these good traits are soo minuscule when it comes to their annoying traits. Their bad traits is fixing people, criticizing (yes, they do that out of love but go fix yourself when you’re the least perfect person to begin with), imposing their opinions because they know best, overthinking that they aren’t good enough and seeking constant self-assurance is far more mentally exhausting and consuming for anyone to put up with them. This is why Virgos are either single or divorced. The married ones are usually dating Cancers or Pisces who enjoy their controlling abusive ways. This is why they date down, because they can’t get someone who has butter going for them. LOL

You gave a comment above this one that had to do with the general topic but this one... Hmm

Virgos are supposedly known for unsolicited and unwanted advice but don’t you think that this essay was a bit unnecessary to type😐🤨

I am not giving advice. LOL. I’m sharing my opinion on Virgos in a thread about them, which I find to be relevant to the topic as to why they date down. I don’t think it was unnecessary and if you didn’t like reading it, you can keep scrolling.

I read all of the comments because I wanted to know everyones opinion on the topic. As I said, you made a comment before that long winded headass essay you decided to tap away at that actually contributed to the topic. Your unwanted opinion filled with generalized statements is completely unnecessary and honestly has nothing to do about whether Virgo women date up or down which is why it’s unnecessary. This thread isn’t a “Virgos 101” thread or “what do you generally think about Virgo women” thread luv. Perhaps you should look at page 2 or 3 of the Virgo forum for one of those threads

If you can’t find one of those threads about virgos, how about you make your own and u can talk about how much u hate us there. And u best believe I’m gonna be right there typing and reading the comments in that one too xx 😘

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Obviously my truth has ruffled your feathers. LOL. Guess who’s not sorry? Hahah

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Signs that date up = fire and air dominant. God complex, their other assets (intelligence, wit, social skills) makes them entitled or they aren’t self-critical like the below.

Signs that date down = earth and water dominant because they are self-critical and self-doubting. Most times these individuals don’t even know or find themselves attractive even though they are conventionally attractive.

This is wrong assumption on so many levels that idk where even to begin🤣 I have always dated down. Have always turned down good looking guys and have always been attracted more to average looking guys who are fun and intelligent. And I prefer to be better looking than a guy so...yeah I got that complex (whatever one might think of it), he can't be prettier then me. No exception ever made on this rule lol this is also true for other Sags that I know, just one exception is one that is married to Aries guy. They are the only couple where he's better looking that her that I know of. Also all Virgos that I know are 99% of the time with someone who's better looking. Same goes for Tauruses and same for Pisces.

That was a great long post except you didn’t look at the word usage of “dominant”. I’m not talking about just sun sign.

So if not everyone in my examples is dominat in that element it means nothing? Fine, I'll go back to first part - I am fire sign, I am fire dominant and I NEVER date up. And I am definitelly self critical and well aware of mt shortcomings. Just don't feel like wearing my weaknesses on my sleeve or being pathetic about my shortcomings

Dating below so you can be the better looking one? As if this isn’t a fire dominant thing to do. It’s strategic when fire downgrades. Mind you, you have a motivation behind that while water and earth dominants are not doing that purposely. LOL. They just hard on themselves.

My Aqua cousin who is fire (Sag) dominant has always dated below so the dude can put her on a pedestal and spoil her. She owns it too and, again, it’s strategic on her part.

Really, you think I'm that shallow to need someone putting me on pedestal for my looks? That will eventually expire as we all got to get old at some point. Nope, I don't need any pedestal or someone to cater me. Only thing I need regarding looks is my own inner feeling of lookwise superiority which has exactly 0 expectations from the other side from that. I would feel bad if a man would be better looking than me cause well...it's not acceptable in my eyes. Guys that have put me on pedestal were left in friend zone though, so that's exactly the opposite of what I look from someone. Don't care how one may see my views at it, in my eyes woman is supposed to be prettier than a man. Call it whatever you like. That does not mean that man is supposed to be her servant or whatever you're insinuating that your cousin does. And yeah, my 2 Aqua friends and my Aqua cousin dated bellow so that they can be on pedestal as well, no Sag energy in them at all. They're very much spoiled by their husbands and believe men serve for that purpose, to cater their every need...

Whatever your motivation may be for you dating below, I frankly don’t care. My point is simple - that it’s strategic. It’s not found in self-doubt or inferiority complex. Mind you, people have various strategic reasons for dating below ranging from wanting to be put on a pedestal or to be better looking amongst their crowd etc. There was a chick I knew in high school who admitted to being friends with other chicks that weren’t conventionally attactive so that she could stand out amongst the friends. Again, people have various reasons but it’s different when you date down for strategic ulterior motives vs. when you’re critical about your looks, self-doubting about your worth.

Fascinating. You think you know me better than I know myself to say why I do something that I do. That's just hilarious man🤣 sorry to burst your bubble Mr.KnowItAll but you're as far away from truth as one can possibly be regarding me. You don't know me so that's perfectly fine. But don't give yourself the right to tell me how I am cause - YOU DON'T KNOW ME.
And there is no strategy in better connecting with men that I find more appealing and interesting for their charms and witts. It's called personal preference. Those men often happen to be more in the rank of average looking and so be it. My standards of beauty are pretty high so if I'd actually go for who I find extremely good looking that would be pretty difficult mission to accomplish so I'm fine doing things my way

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Okay, you didn’t comprehend a single thing I just said to you. Like I said, I don’t care for your motivations and you clearly think I do. This conversation is over.

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Virgo is the most annoying sign out of all the earth signs with the traits associated with them: neurotic, controlling, critical. Yes, there is a good aspect that comes from it but no self-respecting, positive individual with redeeming qualities will put up with a Virgo dominant person. Dating them is akin to dating someone who is physically and mentally disabled while you’re neither of the two.

My sister, ex and couple other people I know who are Virgo dominants have their good traits like servicing people, cleanliness, organized but these good traits are soo minuscule when it comes to their annoying traits. Their bad traits is fixing people, criticizing (yes, they do that out of love but go fix yourself when you’re the least perfect person to begin with), imposing their opinions because they know best, overthinking that they aren’t good enough and seeking constant self-assurance is far more mentally exhausting and consuming for anyone to put up with them. This is why Virgos are either single or divorced. The married ones are usually dating Cancers or Pisces who enjoy their controlling abusive ways. This is why they date down, because they can’t get someone who has butter going for them. LOL

And for this reason is why I don't want a Virgo lady. My Virgo mom is everything to what you described a Virgo to be. And I know plenty other Virgos who are like what you described. If a Virgo lady was ever in to me and we texting each other back and forth all happy and butter, the minute I find out she a Virgo the happiness will end and she won't hear back from me anymore.

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Trust me, children of Virgo mothers have plenty to say. My Virgo cousin and sister’s kids complain too. After seeing so many Virgos possessing these traits, my brothers, who weren’t believers of astrology are now believers, and actively avoid them too as do I. Every time I find out my boss is a Virgo anything, a part of me dies because I know it’s gonna be a condescending ride. LOL.

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Posted by aquarius09
Signs that date up = fire and air dominant. God complex, their other assets (intelligence, wit, social skills) makes them entitled or they aren’t self-critical like the below.

Signs that date down = earth and water dominant because they are self-critical and self-doubting. Most times these individuals don’t even know or find themselves attractive even though they are conventionally attractive.

I'm fire dominant and I don't date up nor do I date down. I date who I have an emotional bond with...some have been hot and some not so hot....but all of them I've connected with emotionally. Sorry to burst your bubble. 🤷🏼‍♀️

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That’s great it doesn’t apply to you. What I said isn’t written in stone.

Posted by Sunsetvirgo

Posted by aquarius09
Virgo is the most annoying sign out of all the earth signs with the traits associated with them: neurotic, controlling, critical. Yes, there is a good aspect that comes from it but no self-respecting, positive individual with redeeming qualities will put up with a Virgo dominant person. Dating them is akin to dating someone who is physically and mentally disabled while you’re neither of the two.

My sister, ex and couple other people I know who are Virgo dominants have their good traits like servicing people, cleanliness, organized but these good traits are soo minuscule when it comes to their annoying traits. Their bad traits is fixing people, criticizing (yes, they do that out of love but go fix yourself when you’re the least perfect person to begin with), imposing their opinions because they know best, overthinking that they aren’t good enough and seeking constant self-assurance is far more mentally exhausting and consuming for anyone to put up with them. This is why Virgos are either single or divorced. The married ones are usually dating Cancers or Pisces who enjoy their controlling abusive ways. This is why they date down, because they can’t get someone who has butter going for them. LOL

You gave a comment above this one that had to do with the general topic but this one... Hmm

Virgos are supposedly known for unsolicited and unwanted advice but don’t you think that this essay was a bit unnecessary to type😐🤨

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I am not giving advice. LOL. I’m sharing my opinion on Virgos in a thread about them, which I find to be relevant to the topic as to why they date down. I don’t think it was unnecessary and if you didn’t like reading it, you can keep scrolling.