Aquarius09

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Using sex as a means to coercing people to do what you want is distasteful. It’s emotional blackmail. If she is looking to get married and have kids, this is not the way to get it. So wrong for so many reasons.

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Now consider the fact that he's sold her the dream of marriage and kids 'just not right now' so he can get at the kitty. Now she is closing shop to call him on his bluff after 2.5years of empty words.

Imo they deserve each other. They communicate in the same way lol

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No doubt! Completely agree. I didn’t know he was selling her dreams of marriage and kids. To be honest, there’s plenty of people, both genders included, who promise things which aren’t delivered even though they have the best of intentions. However, at the end of the day, you gotta have a deadline for yourself. My former employer kept promising me butter too and I gave them a year to do it. When they didn’t do it, I left. Can’t sit on people’s empty promises no matter what the situation is. You gotta have a cut off date for yourself, not cut off sex. LoL

Using sex as a means to coercing people to do what you want is distasteful. It’s emotional blackmail. If she is looking to get married and have kids, this is not the way to get it. So wrong for so many reasons.

Wow @ all the people with children taking offense to his opinion or preference. Don’t expect people who don’t have kids of their own to understand your situation/position. This is why I say singles with no kids should date alike and vice versa. It’s a matter of understanding and relating.

When my dad passed away, my mom later on dated this guy who was her age but he didn’t have kids of his own. The man just didn’t understand or could remotely understand a parents sentiments/responsibilities towards their kids. My mom’s priority was her kids and it took away from his time with her or it often did require him to take the backseat. He didn’t understand because he couldn’t relate. He threw tantrums and they broke up. My mom never expected him to pay for her kids. He couldn’t bear not getting my mom’s full attention. That’s fair enough but the dude has to date someone who is on the same page as him. Later on, my mom dated a guy who was a widower as well with kids and he totally understood my mom’s position. He didn’t complain or anything. He knew that kids come first.

I personally wouldn’t date single dads either. Not because I hate kids or that his kids would be my financial or emotional responsibility (because they wouldn’t be). I would date someone on the same boat as me and it’s not fair to me that I lose out on companionship while he tends to his kids. I understand kids come first and I respect parents who do that! Some of my gfs didn’t have kids but they are dating single dads and I hear the complaints.

I don’t care for social status as much as I want someone self-made who is on the same level as me financially and is financially responsible. I don’t want his debts and vice versa.
I don’t care how much schooling they did as that doesn’t make you smart. I do want someone who is aware, informed and knowledgeable and that doesn’t equal to schooling.

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My cap mum and an old acquaintance both have Aquarius venus. I'd say they are quite "weird". I mean the way they approach relationship is werd. They'd date anybody, don't care about looks, attracted to any kind of people, open-minded, they're quite hippies. Thy seem cold but are quite the opposite actually. Strangely, they are like Pisces venus in a way, they tend to fall for the "wrong" people. Often impossible or one-sided/unrequited love. Since venus rules over your fashion style too, they dress up as hippies lol. They like simple stuff and their freedom.

I’m gonna have to strongly disagree with this. I’m pretty superficial and have never liked anyone who wasn’t conventionally attractive or didn’t look good with me physically. I’m not aversive or discriminate on people’s idiosyncrasies, so that can be ascribed to Aquas liking weird people. I don’t even know about the hippie dressing and all. Can’t relate to any of that. My bestie is also Aqua venus and her dressing sense is pretty stylish and elegant too. Both our style s would be deemed lady like but nothing hippie about it.

Are you sure it's not your aquarius moon and mercury speaking ? It was just my pov about aqua venus. Those are the things I've noticed about them. Athough I agree, sometimes they dress up stylish, again it all depends of the others placement of your chart.

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I don’t think sense of dressing is reflective of Venus in Aqua. I think that is attributable to some other placement.

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So far I get the impression they are hard to please and pin down. Has higher standards than other venuses. Asexual tendencies or gives off that vibe?

Calm and collected. No emotional outbursts which also means no overly romantic gestures. Definitely high standards. Can move on quickly when the relationship does not seem to be heading for long term. Detached. Needs so much space. Logical than emotional.

Well said- I can’t even put into words how true this statement is of yours,

“Can move on quickly when the relationship does not seem to be heading for long term.“

For me as an Aqua Venus, the moment I realize there’s incompatibility that would kill the possibility of a future, I detach. I’m all about compromises and working on things, and I will discuss how to make things better so both people are happy. But, if I notice the patterns are not changing or stopping, I shut off my emotions and interest completely.

That's why we're the pickiest Venus. I have Aqua09's looks standards (8 or above) but also if they're lame, ignorant, or without character, I can't find them attractive no matter what they look like.

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My Cap bro is also Aqua venus and he never dated a woman below 8. However, for marriage, he married someone who is average looking (something that shocked my entire family) but she’s sensible and authentic. Also, she’s Aqua moon. I can date a guy who is average but his intellect and sensibility better be up to par. It’s looks + brains +friendship = bagging venus in Aqua. Hence, the pickiness.

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Posted by peachy06
My cap mum and an old acquaintance both have Aquarius venus. I'd say they are quite "weird". I mean the way they approach relationship is werd. They'd date anybody, don't care about looks, attracted to any kind of people, open-minded, they're quite hippies. Thy seem cold but are quite the opposite actually. Strangely, they are like Pisces venus in a way, they tend to fall for the "wrong" people. Often impossible or one-sided/unrequited love. Since venus rules over your fashion style too, they dress up as hippies lol. They like simple stuff and their freedom.

I’m gonna have to strongly disagree with this. I’m pretty superficial and have never liked anyone who wasn’t conventionally attractive or didn’t look good with me physically. I’m not aversive or discriminate on people’s idiosyncrasies, so that can be ascribed to Aquas liking weird people. I don’t even know about the hippie dressing and all. Can’t relate to any of that. My bestie is also Aqua venus and her dressing sense is pretty stylish and elegant too. Both our style s would be deemed lady like but nothing hippie about it.

Hippie is more Aqua than Aqua Venus. You're more of the intellectual, knowledgeable type Aqua that's often characteristic of the males than some of the dingbat hippie Aqua females pretending to be overly accepting but lack any true knowledge.

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LOL. Thanks, bud! That’s because I’m a man inside...lol or at least it feels that way.

Posted by peachy06
My cap mum and an old acquaintance both have Aquarius venus. I'd say they are quite "weird". I mean the way they approach relationship is werd. They'd date anybody, don't care about looks, attracted to any kind of people, open-minded, they're quite hippies. Thy seem cold but are quite the opposite actually. Strangely, they are like Pisces venus in a way, they tend to fall for the "wrong" people. Often impossible or one-sided/unrequited love. Since venus rules over your fashion style too, they dress up as hippies lol. They like simple stuff and their freedom.

I’m gonna have to strongly disagree with this. I’m pretty superficial and have never liked anyone who wasn’t conventionally attractive or didn’t look good with me physically. I’m not aversive or discriminate on people’s idiosyncrasies, so that can be ascribed to Aquas liking weird people. I don’t even know about the hippie dressing and all. Can’t relate to any of that. My bestie is also Aqua venus and her dressing sense is pretty stylish and elegant too. Both our style s would be deemed lady like but nothing hippie about it.

1. Almond oil with vitamin E to moisturize body skin, lips and eyelashes.
2. Argan oil for dark circles. I wipe eye make-up with this too. I find it helps lighten dark circles somewhat.
3. Squalane oil for facial skin. My face skin is very sensitive. All products make me clog or break out 😞

- I oil cleanse to wash face once at night.
- Drink 1.5 L of water, which is conducive to improving dark circles.
- I don’t drink or smoke and never have.
- I eat two meals a day
- Two teaspoons of cod liver oil
- one teaspoon of hemp seed oil every other day

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Posted by aquarius09
“Life threw a tsunami my way and I made Noah’s ark for myself”😎

“Sometimes people don’t know you because you don’t want to show them who you are.”

“There’s no substitute for a good nurturing mother.”

“Live your life in such a responsible, purposeful way that your legacy creates a ripple for generations to come. You will be known and remembered well, for those who are forgotten never lived.” I improvised this one on the spot just now.

Any more?😃

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I have a lot but can’t write them all here.

“Life threw a tsunami my way and I made Noah’s ark for myself”😎

“Sometimes people don’t know you because you don’t want to show them who you are.”

“There’s no substitute for a good nurturing mother.”

“Live your life in such a responsible, purposeful way that your legacy creates a ripple for generations to come. You will be known and remembered well, for those who are forgotten never lived.” I improvised this one on the spot just now.