Aquarius09
aquarius09
joined January 29, 2011
Sun: Aqua Moon: Aqua Mercury: Aqua Venus: Aqua Mars: Sagittarius
Love is limerance to anagapesis.
All good things come to an end.
All good things come to an end.
Posted by Juliiette
How is that not respectful for a previous partner? When we are done he can move on the next day and get married i would even come if they invite me lmao. My feelings about it are irrelevant.
Oh really now? That sounds easier said than done. Has this happened to you?
Posted by RooSagicornPosted by aquarius09Posted by RooSagicorn
I married a rebound. It was not intentional.. that he was a rebound. There was 8 months between & how do you really know you’re ready to move on? Are you supposed to be in solitude until you deal with the emotions.. that could be forever. Truth is you figure it out later. You think you’re ready, but you’re not. Life is not black and white.
You're right that life isn't black and white. However, when you get close to someone, have intimacy with for a certain period of time, you are bound to get attached. If you don't get attached, then you're a narcissist. When something ends, there is a period of time where we feel sadness for the demise of either the person/the relationship.
For example, when your mom dies or abandons you, you cry over her loss. You don't go find another mommy to replace the previous one. Same goes for other family members we are close to. Why aren't these rebounders doing the same in the love department. click to expandclick to expand
It depends on what you mean by rebounders.. if you mean the people who I call bouncers.. because the bounce from relationship to relationship.. not really dealing with the last. They can never be alone. Or are you talking about when you’re in love with someone and the relationship ends, and you think you’re ready but you’re not really because you are in denial. The one I married.. well the relationship before was 3 years and we were supposed to get married. I cried my eyes out, I couldn’t function.. but after awhile I felt I was okay and I dated. I was not ready as it turned out. But I didn’t know that. It’s not always simple. And well sometimes you are young and stupid. Sometimes people full well know what they are walking into, but they want a relationship with you anyway. Sometimes it is too painful and you are in denial. Do you block yourself, and those emotions leak out later.
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That’s a good response. I never thought of the denial part. I guess it’s all very self-centred from whatever angle you look at it. One is looking at their own emotional state as opposed to whether it would be fair to the person they are using to get over the previous partner.
Posted by RooSagicorn
I married a rebound. It was not intentional.. that he was a rebound. There was 8 months between & how do you really know you’re ready to move on? Are you supposed to be in solitude until you deal with the emotions.. that could be forever. Truth is you figure it out later. You think you’re ready, but you’re not. Life is not black and white.
You're right that life isn't black and white. However, when you get close to someone, have intimacy with for a certain period of time, you are bound to get attached. If you don't get attached, then you're a narcissist. When something ends, there is a period of time where we feel sadness for the demise of either the person/the relationship.
For example, when your mom dies or abandons you, you cry over her loss. You don't go find another mommy to replace the previous one. Same goes for other family members we are close to. Why aren't these rebounders doing the same in the love department.
Posted by Arkansassy
So stupid..
Y'all act as if there is a set amount of time one must be alone before getting into another relationship.
If you're still crying and heartbroken after a month.. you might be the one uncomfortable with loneliness.
There isn't a set amount of time, but there is such a thing as cooling off. Serial dating/monogamy just spells disaster. Such a person sounds like they are incapable of loving and getting attached. Getting attached to someone necessitates a mourning period.
Posted by NevamorePosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialView
Rebound is so un-Aquarius
I don't know man..I've seen some severe moral deficiency from Aquas too :S click to expand
You're too honest lol click to expand
I know I hate THAT about myself. I want to be more dishonest and selfish but I just can't because the golden rule and fear of karma is ingrained on my soul.
NO DONT U treetrunkING DARE.
HONEST IS A GREAT WAY SINCE SOME PEOPLE ARE UNAWARE or DENIAL TAKING PERSONAL.
ofcouse its extreme of hearing the teuth because people are proecting their ego of getting hurt whereas they didnt realuzed theyre already hurt.
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Everything you mentioned is true, but you feel alone in a world full of deception and facade.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialView
Rebound is so un-Aquarius
I don't know man..I've seen some severe moral deficiency from Aquas too :S click to expand
You're too honest lol click to expand
I know I hate THAT about myself. I want to be more dishonest and selfish but I just can't because the golden rule and fear of karma is ingrained on my soul. click to expand
How's your YouTube videos progress? 😃 click to expand
I'd say not too good. To be fair, I haven't been actively promoting the channel nor am I consistent with making/uploading videos. This channel is more my side hobby gig. Full time work has been crazy. I'm also doing overtime. How's everything with you? click to expand
Yep it isn't easy. Unless you're talking about popular subjects like cosmetics instead of astrology lol
Nice to hear you back on track "working" again
I have never been this good heheh
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You've never been this good? What happened? Won the lottery? click to expand
Lol I wish
In general everything is in the right direction. Love and career wise. All good (: click to expand
I'm glad things are going good for you. This year is good for most Aquas it seems. My year is going good so far too. My family is booming with Aquarians. LOL. click to expand
Oh yeah the little Aqua sun Pisces moon (: click to expandclick to expand
No, he's an Aries moon.
My brother is Aqua with Pisces moon. My two close cousins are Aqua with Libra moon and Aqua with Sag moon.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialView
Rebound is so un-Aquarius
I don't know man..I've seen some severe moral deficiency from Aquas too :S click to expand
You're too honest lol click to expand
I know I hate THAT about myself. I want to be more dishonest and selfish but I just can't because the golden rule and fear of karma is ingrained on my soul. click to expand
How's your YouTube videos progress? 😃 click to expand
I'd say not too good. To be fair, I haven't been actively promoting the channel nor am I consistent with making/uploading videos. This channel is more my side hobby gig. Full time work has been crazy. I'm also doing overtime. How's everything with you? click to expand
Yep it isn't easy. Unless you're talking about popular subjects like cosmetics instead of astrology lol
Nice to hear you back on track "working" again
I have never been this good heheh
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You've never been this good? What happened? Won the lottery? click to expand
Lol I wish
In general everything is in the right direction. Love and career wise. All good (: click to expandclick to expand
I'm glad things are going good for you. This year is good for most Aquas it seems. My year is going good so far too. My family is booming with Aquarians. LOL.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialView
Rebound is so un-Aquarius
I don't know man..I've seen some severe moral deficiency from Aquas too :S click to expand
You're too honest lol click to expand
I know I hate THAT about myself. I want to be more dishonest and selfish but I just can't because the golden rule and fear of karma is ingrained on my soul. click to expand
How's your YouTube videos progress? 😃 click to expand
I'd say not too good. To be fair, I haven't been actively promoting the channel nor am I consistent with making/uploading videos. This channel is more my side hobby gig. Full time work has been crazy. I'm also doing overtime. How's everything with you? click to expand
Yep it isn't easy. Unless you're talking about popular subjects like cosmetics instead of astrology lol
Nice to hear you back on track "working" again
I have never been this good heheh
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Thanks. You have a good memory.
Yeah, it's hard to get viewers hooked unless you're validating their sign or stroking their ego. That's not the direction I want to take with my channel, so I know that getting subscribers will be difficult for me. If it becomes too much of a challenge, then I may just quit. Not worth it. click to expand
Yes I have. I hope you're not lmao jk
Yeah better focus on working or maybe start dating again? click to expand
I date sporadically. Unfortunately I don't like 95% of people romantically. The ones I ended up getting along famously were either married or people I didn't see myself long term with. click to expand
At least you don't give up. Keep searching (: click to expandclick to expand
I don't know if we would call it searching, but I kind of let things happen organically. I don't go looking. It just happens for me.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialView
Rebound is so un-Aquarius
I don't know man..I've seen some severe moral deficiency from Aquas too :S click to expand
You're too honest lol click to expand
I know I hate THAT about myself. I want to be more dishonest and selfish but I just can't because the golden rule and fear of karma is ingrained on my soul. click to expand
How's your YouTube videos progress? 😃 click to expand
I'd say not too good. To be fair, I haven't been actively promoting the channel nor am I consistent with making/uploading videos. This channel is more my side hobby gig. Full time work has been crazy. I'm also doing overtime. How's everything with you? click to expand
Yep it isn't easy. Unless you're talking about popular subjects like cosmetics instead of astrology lol
Nice to hear you back on track "working" again
I have never been this good heheh
click to expandclick to expand
You've never been this good? What happened? Won the lottery?
Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialView
Rebound is so un-Aquarius
I don't know man..I've seen some severe moral deficiency from Aquas too :S click to expand
You're too honest lol click to expand
I know I hate THAT about myself. I want to be more dishonest and selfish but I just can't because the golden rule and fear of karma is ingrained on my soul. click to expand
How's your YouTube videos progress? 😃 click to expand
I'd say not too good. To be fair, I haven't been actively promoting the channel nor am I consistent with making/uploading videos. This channel is more my side hobby gig. Full time work has been crazy. I'm also doing overtime. How's everything with you? click to expand
Yep it isn't easy. Unless you're talking about popular subjects like cosmetics instead of astrology lol
Nice to hear you back on track "working" again
I have never been this good heheh
click to expand
Thanks. You have a good memory.
Yeah, it's hard to get viewers hooked unless you're validating their sign or stroking their ego. That's not the direction I want to take with my channel, so I know that getting subscribers will be difficult for me. If it becomes too much of a challenge, then I may just quit. Not worth it. click to expand
Yes I have. I hope you're not lmao jk
Yeah better focus on working or maybe start dating again? click to expandclick to expand
I date sporadically. Unfortunately I don't like 95% of people romantically. The ones I ended up getting along famously were either married or people I didn't see myself long term with.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialView
Rebound is so un-Aquarius
I don't know man..I've seen some severe moral deficiency from Aquas too :S click to expand
You're too honest lol click to expand
I know I hate THAT about myself. I want to be more dishonest and selfish but I just can't because the golden rule and fear of karma is ingrained on my soul. click to expand
How's your YouTube videos progress? 😃 click to expand
I'd say not too good. To be fair, I haven't been actively promoting the channel nor am I consistent with making/uploading videos. This channel is more my side hobby gig. Full time work has been crazy. I'm also doing overtime. How's everything with you? click to expand
Yep it isn't easy. Unless you're talking about popular subjects like cosmetics instead of astrology lol
Nice to hear you back on track "working" again
I have never been this good heheh
click to expandclick to expand
Thanks. You have a good memory.
Yeah, it's hard to get viewers hooked unless you're validating their sign or stroking their ego. That's not the direction I want to take with my channel, so I know that getting subscribers will be difficult for me. If it becomes too much of a challenge, then I may just quit. Not worth it.
Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialView
Rebound is so un-Aquarius
I don't know man..I've seen some severe moral deficiency from Aquas too :S click to expand
You're too honest lol click to expand
I know I hate THAT about myself. I want to be more dishonest and selfish but I just can't because the golden rule and fear of karma is ingrained on my soul. click to expand
How's your YouTube videos progress? 😃 click to expandclick to expand
I'd say not too good. To be fair, I haven't been actively promoting the channel nor am I consistent with making/uploading videos.
This channel is more my side hobby gig. Full time work has been crazy. I'm also doing overtime. How's everything with you?
Posted by AerialViewPosted by aquarius09Posted by AerialView
Rebound is so un-Aquarius
I don't know man..I've seen some severe moral deficiency from Aquas too :S click to expand
You're too honest lol click to expandclick to expand
I know
I hate THAT about myself. I want to be more dishonest and selfish but I just can't because the golden rule and fear of karma is ingrained on my soul.
Posted by AerialView
Rebound is so un-Aquarius
I don't know man..I've seen some severe moral deficiency from Aquas too :S
Posted by C69
it’s disrespectful to the person you’re using as a rebound rather than your prev partner IMO
if you left them, there must have been a good reason and/or a lack of interest from your side, so you’re no good for them, cause you got nothing to give anyways
It’s disrespectful all around. Half the time when people are rebounding, the new party isn’t aware that they are the rebound. Sad.
Posted by STILLPosted by aquarius09
I get why people do it, but I don’t know why but when I hear about someone or see someone doing a rebound, I’m instantly put off by them because I find rebounds to be disrespectful to your previous partner, red flag and weak character all-in-one.
I have a friend who was dating a time bandit for 2 years. My gut feeling always revealed that he wasn’t as interested in my gf as she was into him. After two years of exclusive dating, when she asked to move in together, he bounced. It’s only been one month since the break-up and this dude is already with another chick. My gf was bawling her eyes today and I was so disgusted by this guy. He just replaced her in one month. Talk about making someone feel like they meant nothing to ya.
I'd also add that it's disrespectful to the next partner too. More times than not, they really aren't into that person, but just using them. People are just inconsiderate......real cold. click to expandclick to expand
Oh, it’s heartless!! I wouldn’t do that to my worst enemy. I agree with you that they may be using the person, but how does one manage to feign interest in the person they are using for something for one yr or more. It’s personally bafflesome to me because if I don’t genuinely like someone, and they have things that could benefit me, I still can’t bring myself to entertain them past 1 hour max and even that is professionally speaking (work environment).
Posted by Arielle83
Ppl don’t know they’re doing a rebound until they’re out of it.
It’s being used to someone being there, so when they’re gone, you crave the intimacy, and find the next person, because you believe you need to make up for time wasted with the failed relationship.
You give too much attention too soon and then when you step back, you realise you were just rebounding.
He won’t stay with the rebound.
If he does, then he’s an idiot.
Why would he or anyone be an idiot for staying with the rebound? I’ve seen people marry one of the rebounds or finding serious long term partners in their series of rebound. I think people who do rebounds hope to find the right one through their serial monogamy.
I get why people do it, but I don’t know why but when I hear about someone or see someone doing a rebound, I’m instantly put off by them because I find rebounds to be disrespectful to your previous partner, red flag and weak character all-in-one.
I have a friend who was dating a time bandit for 2 years. My gut feeling always revealed that he wasn’t as interested in my gf as she was into him. After two years of exclusive dating, when she asked to move in together, he bounced. It’s only been one month since the break-up and this dude is already with another chick. My gf was bawling her eyes today and I was so disgusted by this guy. He just replaced her in one month. Talk about making someone feel like they meant nothing to ya.
I have a friend who was dating a time bandit for 2 years. My gut feeling always revealed that he wasn’t as interested in my gf as she was into him. After two years of exclusive dating, when she asked to move in together, he bounced. It’s only been one month since the break-up and this dude is already with another chick. My gf was bawling her eyes today and I was so disgusted by this guy. He just replaced her in one month. Talk about making someone feel like they meant nothing to ya.
Aqua is a sign that can take it or leave it. They can do both. We don’t see sexual liberation as promiscuity. We see it as a function/urge and we do it. We don’t evaluate how our needs/going about fulfilling them is perceived by others or the society. My dilemma is that I don’t find myself romantically interested in half the people, but if I did, I’d probably be licentious (or so the society deems people who are liberal with sex).
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