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All talk and thoughts and no actions is what Air energy is. LOL.

Cyberhugs,

Aqua stellium

That's why I need FIRE

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You got it! Fire is what propels air. This is why I stick to dating fire sign men or fire dominants.

All the Venus in Pisces men I know, irrespective of their sun, have been loyal and commit long-term. I don't find this placement problematic. A lil too idealistic and insensible in love, but loyal for sure.

All talk and thoughts and no actions is what Air energy is. LOL.

Cyberhugs,

Aqua stellium

I think that's more Gemini women than men. Gem men aren't a mess like them. Gem men are the soulmates to Aqua women. Every time I see a long lasting/standing union for Aqua women, the guy is almost always Gem sun. I, myself, get along quite well with Gem men.

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My father gave me this golden advice when I was 7 and I stuck by this: “if you ever have to pick between attention, affection and or self-respect, then pick self-respect for it will be everlasting and the most desirable trait not just for oneself but by others.” The point is never sacrifice self-respect for momentary pleasure.

How you attain it is by being true to yourself. Nobody can label you a thing unless you’re not confident in what you’re doing.

Your dad's a clever man.
I begin to understand that I don't really know who I am.

Baby steps, girl! Know thyself. What do you want? Once you figure it out, self respect wouldn’t be an issue.

I don't know!!!!! Or maybe I do but am afraid to ask for it and just accept a lot of things because I don't believe that for example a good guy will actually come to me and love me and treat me good and I will like him too. So fora long time now I've tried accepting a life without love, 'cause I just don't see it happening and I will be so dissapointed. But maybe I should start believing and hoping..

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The world runs on hope. Having said that, to get good, you gotta be good yourself. You can’t expect to get good if you’re lousy yourself because that’s what delusional and entitled is. I’ve often found people who hold self-deprecating sentiments like yourself to be guilty of bad behaviour. If you’re doing bad butter, cut it out and practice some self-restraint.

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My father gave me this golden advice when I was 7 and I stuck by this: “if you ever have to pick between attention, affection and or self-respect, then pick self-respect for it will be everlasting and the most desirable trait not just for oneself but by others.” The point is never sacrifice self-respect for momentary pleasure.

How you attain it is by being true to yourself. Nobody can label you a thing unless you’re not confident in what you’re doing.

Your dad's a clever man.
I begin to understand that I don't really know who I am.

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Baby steps, girl! Know thyself. What do you want? Once you figure it out, self respect wouldn’t be an issue.

I’m a Leo rising and I agree with what you’re saying. Nothing to do with looks but Leo risings have an energy/aura that people are drawn to.

My father gave me this golden advice when I was 7 and I stuck by this: “if you ever have to pick between attention, affection and or self-respect, then pick self-respect for it will be everlasting and the most desirable trait not just for oneself but by others.” The point is never sacrifice self-respect for momentary pleasure.

How you attain it is by being true to yourself. Nobody can label you a thing unless you’re not confident in what you’re doing.

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I feel like Virgo Venus people always try to find some problems in others because they love taking care of people and doing practical butter for them, that's why they always find problems in their partners and nag and complain about your problems, so they feel better once they "fix you" and make you better, what they don't realise that they don't accept person as the person is and that makes them extremely selfish and that nagging doesn't help.... Virgo Venus is prob one of the most complicated placements out there, i'm glad i have Leo there, it's kinda easy for me....
They see so much problems in themselves and are so insecure, so they feel kinda validated once they point out your problems and things like that, so you'd listen to them what to do, because you know" they are smart" the inteligence needs to be appreciated

Spot on! In contrast to conventional astrology, this placement isn’t picky. Far from it actually. They seek out problematic individuals that need fixing or improvement. Virgo energy is all about serving and social work, so they wanna improve a broken person. They say you should be happy if a Venus in Virgo picked you, but it’s actually an insult because you need fixing is why they picked you. I’ve dated two Venus in Virgo and both tried to “fix” me or help poor ol’ me. LOL.
The issue is that they have poor self-esteem and a colossal inferiority complex, which gets projected on their partner. By criticizing their partner, they feel better that they aren’t alone in their imperfection. In fact I think they are dealing with their own insecurities through the proxy of their partner’s issues.

I definitely do not fall under inferiority complex category.

Are you attracted to train wrecks or people who pick you?

10 years ago because I partied a lot and too lazy to pick or want commitment. I just wanted to get laid and party, but those types latched on and I’d tell them they’re going nowhere in life and need a job.

LMAO @ nowhere in life and need a job. Isn’t that cold yet hypocritical to date a loser and then criticize them? It’s analogous to a dude dating a slut and then criticizing her for being one.

Anyone who dates a loser and then criticizes them has self-esteem issues and there is an inferiority complex involved because you’re choosing to date losers so you can feel superior and criticize them.

Nope it really wasn’t that serious.

Casual relationships and then one needing constant advice and help so you just go blunt cuz you’re sick of seeing the obvious.

A party scene of casual relationships doesn’t give much responsibility.

The sex was good and I don’t get attached.

Maybe it was more of a dating non commitals because I didn’t want a commitment

You sound exactly like that dude I mentioned a while back who happens to share the OP’s chart to the T. The only difference is that he dates committals or people become commits with him. Is there a way to get you attached?

Respect over time.

He prob goes in open, but women who just need a bf, are desperate, and that is a red flag.

The idea of meeting someone and dating and just because x amount of dates in, does not mean you deserve a commitment.

That’s what a lot of women seem to think they deserve. A couple months in and they think he’s THEIRS.

There are billions of ppl in the world, why would someone just adjust and compromise so quick to let some stranger become important? Then because the man isn’t at that level, the chick sabotages by acting crazy.

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But I think it’s how women are programmed. They get attached after sex and expect a solid commitment whereas most guys are untouched by sex. See, I don’t sleep with a dude in the beginning at all because I wanna stay level-headed and assess him for what he brings to the table aside from good sex. The extraction of sex from the equation really keeps me detached and sensible <~said like a true Aqua nerd. 🤓

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I feel like Virgo Venus people always try to find some problems in others because they love taking care of people and doing practical butter for them, that's why they always find problems in their partners and nag and complain about your problems, so they feel better once they "fix you" and make you better, what they don't realise that they don't accept person as the person is and that makes them extremely selfish and that nagging doesn't help.... Virgo Venus is prob one of the most complicated placements out there, i'm glad i have Leo there, it's kinda easy for me....
They see so much problems in themselves and are so insecure, so they feel kinda validated once they point out your problems and things like that, so you'd listen to them what to do, because you know" they are smart" the inteligence needs to be appreciated

Spot on! In contrast to conventional astrology, this placement isn’t picky. Far from it actually. They seek out problematic individuals that need fixing or improvement. Virgo energy is all about serving and social work, so they wanna improve a broken person. They say you should be happy if a Venus in Virgo picked you, but it’s actually an insult because you need fixing is why they picked you. I’ve dated two Venus in Virgo and both tried to “fix” me or help poor ol’ me. LOL.
The issue is that they have poor self-esteem and a colossal inferiority complex, which gets projected on their partner. By criticizing their partner, they feel better that they aren’t alone in their imperfection. In fact I think they are dealing with their own insecurities through the proxy of their partner’s issues.

I definitely do not fall under inferiority complex category.

Are you attracted to train wrecks or people who pick you?

10 years ago because I partied a lot and too lazy to pick or want commitment. I just wanted to get laid and party, but those types latched on and I’d tell them they’re going nowhere in life and need a job.

LMAO @ nowhere in life and need a job. Isn’t that cold yet hypocritical to date a loser and then criticize them? It’s analogous to a dude dating a slut and then criticizing her for being one.

Anyone who dates a loser and then criticizes them has self-esteem issues and there is an inferiority complex involved because you’re choosing to date losers so you can feel superior and criticize them.

Nope it really wasn’t that serious.

Casual relationships and then one needing constant advice and help so you just go blunt cuz you’re sick of seeing the obvious.

A party scene of casual relationships doesn’t give much responsibility.

The sex was good and I don’t get attached.

Maybe it was more of a dating non commitals because I didn’t want a commitment

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You sound exactly like that dude I mentioned a while back who happens to share the OP’s chart to the T. The only difference is that he dates committals or people become commits with him. Is there a way to get you attached?

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I feel like Virgo Venus people always try to find some problems in others because they love taking care of people and doing practical butter for them, that's why they always find problems in their partners and nag and complain about your problems, so they feel better once they "fix you" and make you better, what they don't realise that they don't accept person as the person is and that makes them extremely selfish and that nagging doesn't help.... Virgo Venus is prob one of the most complicated placements out there, i'm glad i have Leo there, it's kinda easy for me....
They see so much problems in themselves and are so insecure, so they feel kinda validated once they point out your problems and things like that, so you'd listen to them what to do, because you know" they are smart" the inteligence needs to be appreciated

Spot on! In contrast to conventional astrology, this placement isn’t picky. Far from it actually. They seek out problematic individuals that need fixing or improvement. Virgo energy is all about serving and social work, so they wanna improve a broken person. They say you should be happy if a Venus in Virgo picked you, but it’s actually an insult because you need fixing is why they picked you. I’ve dated two Venus in Virgo and both tried to “fix” me or help poor ol’ me. LOL.
The issue is that they have poor self-esteem and a colossal inferiority complex, which gets projected on their partner. By criticizing their partner, they feel better that they aren’t alone in their imperfection. In fact I think they are dealing with their own insecurities through the proxy of their partner’s issues.

I definitely do not fall under inferiority complex category.

Are you attracted to train wrecks or people who pick you?

10 years ago because I partied a lot and too lazy to pick or want commitment. I just wanted to get laid and party, but those types latched on and I’d tell them they’re going nowhere in life and need a job.

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LMAO @ nowhere in life and need a job. Isn’t that cold yet hypocritical to date a loser and then criticize them? It’s analogous to a dude dating a slut and then criticizing her for being one.

Anyone who dates a loser and then criticizes them has self-esteem issues and there is an inferiority complex involved because you’re choosing to date losers so you can feel superior and criticize them.

Posted by Arielle83

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Posted by Raakac
I feel like Virgo Venus people always try to find some problems in others because they love taking care of people and doing practical butter for them, that's why they always find problems in their partners and nag and complain about your problems, so they feel better once they "fix you" and make you better, what they don't realise that they don't accept person as the person is and that makes them extremely selfish and that nagging doesn't help.... Virgo Venus is prob one of the most complicated placements out there, i'm glad i have Leo there, it's kinda easy for me....
They see so much problems in themselves and are so insecure, so they feel kinda validated once they point out your problems and things like that, so you'd listen to them what to do, because you know" they are smart" the inteligence needs to be appreciated

Spot on! In contrast to conventional astrology, this placement isn’t picky. Far from it actually. They seek out problematic individuals that need fixing or improvement. Virgo energy is all about serving and social work, so they wanna improve a broken person. They say you should be happy if a Venus in Virgo picked you, but it’s actually an insult because you need fixing is why they picked you. I’ve dated two Venus in Virgo and both tried to “fix” me or help poor ol’ me. LOL.
The issue is that they have poor self-esteem and a colossal inferiority complex, which gets projected on their partner. By criticizing their partner, they feel better that they aren’t alone in their imperfection. In fact I think they are dealing with their own insecurities through the proxy of their partner’s issues.

I definitely do not fall under inferiority complex category.

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Are you attracted to train wrecks or people who pick you?

Posted by Raakac
I feel like Virgo Venus people always try to find some problems in others because they love taking care of people and doing practical butter for them, that's why they always find problems in their partners and nag and complain about your problems, so they feel better once they "fix you" and make you better, what they don't realise that they don't accept person as the person is and that makes them extremely selfish and that nagging doesn't help.... Virgo Venus is prob one of the most complicated placements out there, i'm glad i have Leo there, it's kinda easy for me....
They see so much problems in themselves and are so insecure, so they feel kinda validated once they point out your problems and things like that, so you'd listen to them what to do, because you know" they are smart" the inteligence needs to be appreciated

Spot on! In contrast to conventional astrology, this placement isn’t picky. Far from it actually. They seek out problematic individuals that need fixing or improvement. Virgo energy is all about serving and social work, so they wanna improve a broken person. They say you should be happy if a Venus in Virgo picked you, but it’s actually an insult because you need fixing is why they picked you. I’ve dated two Venus in Virgo and both tried to “fix” me or help poor ol’ me. LOL.
The issue is that they have poor self-esteem and a colossal inferiority complex, which gets projected on their partner. By criticizing their partner, they feel better that they aren’t alone in their imperfection. In fact I think they are dealing with their own insecurities through the proxy of their partner’s issues.

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Ugh.. my ex was libra sun, aqua moon with virgo venus and he was like that too! In the beginning he admired me and my ways. But soon he began to critize me although he himself was faaaaaaar, faaaaaaaaar - ehm did I say far? - faaaaaaaaaaar away from being perfect! When I tried to discuss it he always felt attacked eventhough I talked as calm and rational as possible. He wanted a perfect gf and have a „perfect“ relationship aka no discussions, no talking about real problems but living in his surreal bubble of his own reality. Ew

That might be their way of loving but his naggin was fueled by insecurities and jealousy and not because he tried to help me grow! Huge turn off!

But my ex leo affaire was leo venus and virgo mars - now that was pleasant and AWESOME!

My libra ex with venus and mars in Virgo was the exact same. His criticism was fueled by his inferiority complex and jealousy next to me because he was behind in everything. Good thing I didn’t know anything about astrology back then. I told him to watch his mouth because he’s not going to like it if I start nitpicking. They can dish it but can’t take it.

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Aries moon is the best for Aqua moon. I tried all three as I'm attracted to these energies.

Leo moons are very talkative and ostentatious. Aqua moon like their conversations to be succinct and to the point. Leo moons need flattery to survive and Aquas moons are not one to fawn over people. Too high maintenance for us.

Sag moons are bossy and controlling. That's not going to work out with a fixed stubborn sign like Aqua moon.

Aries moon just doesn't want to be dictated to, and Aqua moon is fine with that. They are always on the go, very active and provide the lazy Aqua moon with the push/action to make their dreams materialize. I'm currently with an Aries moon.

I’m pretty sure I read somewhere that Aries moons tend to be drawn to aqua moons and I have to say ime that’s true. Aqua moons are one of my favourite moons.

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The love is mutual. Aries sun men are cool too. Can't say the same for Aries sun women though. I have never seen a more severe and disgusting jealousy than one exhibited by Aries sun women. They are the types to hate/be jealous of someone but yet stalk them or keep them in their life. I find that mind boggling. Why keep tabs on people you are envious of or you can't stand?

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Most likely to be physical abusers too. On every date after with a libra, id ask their view on hitting women and all of them had said they had hit a ex, but always made out it was their fault for it. Like they deserved it.

LMAO!! Hilarious! Never known a Libra to hit. I dated one libra and he never hit me and he couldn't even bring himself to. They are the softest guys who just come on strong and then disappear because they have buyers remorse quite a bit.

Aries moon is the best for Aqua moon. I tried all three as I'm attracted to these energies.

Leo moons are very talkative and ostentatious. Aqua moon like their conversations to be succinct and to the point. Leo moons need flattery to survive and Aquas moons are not one to fawn over people. Too high maintenance for us.

Sag moons are bossy and controlling. That's not going to work out with a fixed stubborn sign like Aqua moon.

Aries moon just doesn't want to be dictated to, and Aqua moon is fine with that. They are always on the go, very active and provide the lazy Aqua moon with the push/action to make their dreams materialize. I'm currently with an Aries moon.