Why did aquarius guy just suddenly stop contacting me?

Startinh see an aqua guy with venus in cap. We've known eachother for a month. Talking pretty much everyday for a month and he usually initiated. I haven't heard from him in a week. The weird thing is he still checks my snapchats and he told me he doesn't really use snapchat often. I was wondering we he suddenly stopped showing interest. Nothing went wrong between us, we've always have done a great time everytime we met( we've only been on 3 dates) do you guys think he's over me? Or is there more to this? I don't wanna contact him because I'm afraid he'll not respond or w.e and I'll just feel more hurt:/

Posted by bumboklatt
if nothing went wrong its most likely he's just withdrawing which is normal for us

if we get too much attention or not enough we withdraw from emotions/relationships

but its not cool when we have to initiate everything

like why does it have to be a game?

don't be afraid of him that's the worst you can do

maybe hit him up if you're thinking about him and give him time and space

Venus in Cap Aquas are really bad at romance and formalities

Thank you so much for your answer! The thing is when we did go on our dates he always kept them short and he'd act distant. So I'm just protectingoing myself because I really like him and I'm already feeling sad about it and I'll just feel worse if I message him and he won't respond or w.e. Btw I'm also an Aquarius with cap venus but I'm a girl...but I guess girl and guy aquas operate a bit different :/

Also, why would he need the space? Because emotions make him uncomfy?

Posted by bumboklatt

Posted by Huntertyga

Posted by bumboklatt
if nothing went wrong its most likely he's just withdrawing which is normal for us

if we get too much attention or not enough we withdraw from emotions/relationships

but its not cool when we have to initiate everything

like why does it have to be a game?

don't be afraid of him that's the worst you can do

maybe hit him up if you're thinking about him and give him time and space

Venus in Cap Aquas are really bad at romance and formalities

Thank you so much for your answer! The thing is when we did go on our dates he always kept them short and he'd act distant. So I'm just protectingoing myself because I really like him and I'm already feeling sad about it and I'll just feel worse if I message him and he won't respond or w.e. Btw I'm also an Aquarius with cap venus but I'm a girl...but I guess girl and guy aquas operate a bit different :/

o wow thats cool youre an Aqua/Cap venus too

Well I've never met a girl with those placements lol but I have them too

When I was dating I would initiate everything too then act distant too cause it takes me a lot to trust someone who is worth my time(emotionally)

it sounds like youre protecting yourself just like he is hahaha

someone's gotta start the talking. If he already did his part then maybe you should try starting things too?

i dont see the wrong in that. Sometimes I would lose interest if the girl didnt contact me cause DOING is everything to us

talk is cheap

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Nice to see another aqua/cap venus🙂

Ooooooh i understand but you'd get distant even if the girl was giving you attention? Doesn't that mean you don't actually want to hear from her cause that makes you more uncomfy?

I don't wanna make him feel uncomfy or as if I'm forcing things:/

Emotions do make me feel uncomfy but if I like someone and they give me that attention back I'd never distance🙂

Bumboklatt, thank you so so much for your feedback. You've helped alot!!! I think I'm gonna face my fear and send a message?

Famous Aquarian disappearing act. I'm Aqua sun and Cap Venus... I think he likes you and he doesn't want to get attached, I think his feelings are strong towards you so he's "disappeared" as Aquarians do a lot when they feel lots and can't express...

Posted by apogeelunar
Famous Aquarian disappearing act. I'm Aqua sun and Cap Venus... I think he likes you and he doesn't want to get attached, I think his feelings are strong towards you so he's "disappeared" as Aquarians do a lot when they feel lots and can't express...

Thank you for your feedback. So it's best to let him be and leave him alone at this time?

Really I have dated 2 Aquarius neither of them pulled a disappearing act unwarranted. I think he lost interest and has moved on. Op I think your guts are right; for whatever whacked out reason, he didn't see a future so he bailed. You may not have done anything wrong, he just lost interest or find someone else that has kept his attention. I am sure he will contact you again one day maybe soon.

Posted by Huntertyga
Startinh see an aqua guy with venus in cap. We've known eachother for a month. Talking pretty much everyday for a month and he usually initiated. I haven't heard from him in a week. The weird thing is he still checks my snapchats and he told me he doesn't really use snapchat often. I was wondering we he suddenly stopped showing interest. Nothing went wrong between us, we've always have done a great time everytime we met( we've only been on 3 dates) do you guys think he's over me? Or is there more to this? I don't wanna contact him because I'm afraid he'll not respond or w.e and I'll just feel more hurt:/

Something like this happened to me not long ago as well. Met an Aqua girl, had absolutely AMAZING chemistry, had the most fun-loving and satisfying first date you could possibly imagine (including sex)...and then three days later, just TOTALLY out of leftfield, she sends me a text asking me to "please not hate her" but she had decided to pursue another guy at work, despite her feeling that she had the most "wonderful, magical first date she had ever experienced." Why the sudden change— WTF knows. I still love Aquarius women, but many of them do have this "unpredictable" tendency that can really leave you feeling burned.

So I messaged him and he responded quick. He was actually away for a few weddings out of town.

Posted by Huntertyga
So I messaged him and he responded quick. He was actually away for a few weddings out of town.

So did he ask you out?

It's been a month of snapchat does he have a plane ticket to see you?

If you live close, it's labor day weekend did he make plans to see you tonight or tomorrow?

I've gone to many out of town events I called my lovers from that locations. That's what cell phones are for. Was he in the Appalachians?

I am glad he promptly responded I hope he made plans since he hasn't bothered to text or call despite being home after his excursions.

Posted by librawomen7
It's been a month of snapchat does he have a plane ticket to see you?

If you live close, it's labor day weekend did he make plans to see you tonight or tomorrow?

I've gone to many out of town events I called my lovers from that locations. That's what cell phones are for. Was he in the Appalachians?

I am glad he promptly responded I hope he made plans since he hasn't bothered to text or call despite being home after his excursions.

Thanks for your response! He Is actually still out of town. He didn't ask me out?