Aqua man guide. please i cant understand him!

Hey all!!!!

i have been a friend for this aqua man for almost a 3 years now. he is not in a relationship but he once loved a girl but they broke up and he is not into her that much anymore.

the thing is.... he keeps telling me that he likes me, and he is attracted to me and we do have a good time together. he calls me and text me, we are really good friends but then he told me i can see a future with u! then i asked him u mean like you want us to be in a relationship? then he said i am not ready yet and he changed the subject!

and now i am starting to like me even more i mean i want to be his girl u know?

but i think he is too scared to move to a new level

HELP

what should i do?

@busyeyes88 Great! i am being supportive and just being a good friend around him and have told me that i will never be in a relationship with one unless its 100% from the heart.

@tiziani stringing me along to what?

Posted by Vixen2

Posted by tiziani
But he's an Aquarius so the rules are different.

Oh how true this statement is...

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Yah I don't get it. When people say Aquas are slow into commitment, it means we are SLOW into committing, not "I'm just not ready yet". We definitely don't tell people how we can see something with them and then back pedal, that's way too wishy washy for the sign itself.

It's usually marriage that Aquas pussy foot around, not being lovers, partners or boy/girlfriends

its so hard to understand him

he dont like it when i like other guys

and he disappear then come back

and when he is back he is so sweet and everything and keep telling me that he would choose me over any girl yet he does not want a relationship with anyone yet

Posted by aquaLOVE88
its so hard to understand him

he dont like it when i like other guys

and he disappear then come back

and when he is back he is so sweet and everything and keep telling me that he would choose me over any girl yet he does not want a relationship with anyone yet

It's not hard to understand. It's not a sign thing, it is a "This is a boy not a man" problem. Why should you put your life on hold while he runs off to find a "safe space" for his feelings? You'll end up suffering for this guy over nothing as he does not hold you in the same regard.

This is typical aqua man behaviour. And also typical man behaviour if you may. A man gets caught up in the moment and proclaims his feelings, then it scares him and runs and regroups. It's like an elastic. Aqua men are notorious for it. I don't get the comments in an astrology thread "its not a sign thing". why are you here then?

Look, aqua is the sign of friendship, depending on other placements as well things change. I was in a long term with an aqua, things just fell into place. I was into another aqua man and it was totally different and he behaved like a classic aquarian male. I would pull away he'd come forward, I'd move forward he moved back. it was an exercise in frustration.

if you want to be with this guy, you need to just be chill and go with the flow, focus on the friendship aspect. When he freaks out and says he's not "ready" just say cool, i enjoy you're friendship and we can just be that. He'll relax and come closer. Depends on your level of patience and time you want to invest. If you have both it can be a slow but rewarding process. If you have neither, move on.

He's into, but he still needs to deal with his commitment demons. Clues are what went wrong in his last relationship? Those are probably the things he's scared of happening again. Don't be those things.

Thank you all for helping

i will go with the flow and will see what will happen

Don't listen to his words. Pay attention to his actions. Aquarius men are more action than talk when it comes to their interest in people. My experience: I was with a guy for 3 months who told me to pay attention to actions not words. I didn't realize it was his way of letting me know that he was showing me how he felt. I walked away from him because I couldn't hang on anymore. It hurt and drove me insane. Well to him we were together and I had no idea because he neved told me until I exploded. Had I known I would not have left. He has now been single for over 3 years and I was the last relationship/person he loved. We are seeing eachother again so the process started again with much more understanding and parience on my end.