why doesn't he look at me very long?

okay... im friends with benefits with an aqua man.. he seems to be kinda nervous but i think hes confortable in bed with me. im the same way with him i think. but ill look strait at him when i talk to him.. hell look into my eyes then look away at sumthin else kinda fast. he didnt do it as bad as last time but why does he do it?

he also asks about my guy friends sumtimes when talk about them, likehe wants to know who they are or what they are to me or what i did with them. i told him that if
i moved back into town close to him that if it would be okay if i messed around wit other guys while i still messed with him and he said "ooorr maybe ill just be your favorite" i could be wrong but does me like me more than i think he does? or is he just flirting and tryin to mess with me or sumthin?

You are in the most retarded relationship setup. Dodgy as.

Yes, I believe he likes you more than he might be letting on. As for the eye thing, I find it uncomfortable and a bit too "close" to hold eye contact and need to break it as soon as possible. I just feel too vulnerable and open.

Well yeah, think about it, how intimate eye to eye contact is when you are emotionally involved with someone. Also, you should remember that work relationships are less emotional so holding eye contact doesn't have the same emotional vulnerability there that it does in personal one on one relationships.

It's not as difficult to hold eye contact at work compared to with someone I care about, because when I feel emotionally attached to someone, I feel as if they can see into my soul and that vulnerability isn't always easy. Taking our eyes off people is a way to deal with this feeling.

Sorry you get annoyed but that's just how he is, it's just one of those things that people have to learn to accept. I don't like to make universal statements about us Aquarians but I think this is one of those things that are almost all across the board with Aquarian men.

He's thinking/taking in everything about you. I do it all the time.

The eye contact thing is usually when were discussing ourselves...I can never hold a gaze when im talking seriously about myself...too personal.

Other than that, im good for looking people directly in the eyes...control issues. 🙂

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Sweetie..if the Aqua is in any way shape or form trying to AVOID you....

WE WANT YOU BADLY!!!!

*huggles the person I love to death to death in my MIND*

okay so ive been told that he wants me real bad by some friends.. but how do i get it out of him? how can i get him to admit it? i dont wanna make him uncomfortable unless it doesnt push him away. i live in Indiana.. and hes in WV but im from that town and only lived away from WV for 6 months now amd im thinkin about moving back to WV with my friends and all.. but he would make another reason for me to move back if i knew that he liked me.. and to be honest.. i didnt go after him lookin for a relationship but the sex is so good i dont wanna give it up*blush* and after my friends told me that he likes me i considerd getting to know him better but not with out him admitting that he likes me first.

you need to use extreme caution, my aqua did the same thing to me, we were friends with benefits worked together, over the course of two and a half years he finally came around and admitted he had feelings for me, once if fell for him and finally gave in and admitted i felt the same about him he closed shop and ran.

ooops
*once I fell for him*