I have a question about Aquarius males

This topic was created in the Aquarius forum by sunaina on Thursday, November 30, 2006 and has 24 replies.

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@sunaina
20 Years

I have this one Aquarius male friend who is the mediator/mutual friend of mine and a guy I like. This guy passes messages about me to my Aquarius friend (I get with the feeling) that he knows my Aquarius friend will share with me. However I think my Aquarius friend is getting a taste of the power he has in this situation and is manipulating both sides. Is this how Aquarius men play games? Are they big on manipulation and games?

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@Lady_M
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He may have an agenda of his own....or he can see the future between you and your friend and just know....

A little more detail on the manipulations would be excellent.

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@sunaina
20 Years

here's the thing my

Aquarius guy "friend" (Simon) was the one who started the whole that guy likes you thing
I never even realized it till he said something. He is good friends with the guy who likes me (let's call him Dave). However when Simon started to realize how much Dave was really into me I think Simon got jealous. I also think Simon is gay and just not out of the closet yet. I caught him checking out another guy but he pretends to like a girl in our class but I think it's a cover. He is super possesive of Dave. When he calls Dave on the weekends and Dave doesn't answer his phone then Simon freaks out and calls me saying is Dave with you. He gets restless till Dave calls him back. I don't know if Dave knows that Simon likes him like that or if Dave just talks to Simon so that he can hang out with me and pass messages back and forth through Simon

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@sunaina
20 Years

Either way I don't like that Simon is the mediator and I still say he has something up his sleeve. I just can't believe he is doing this to me (his friend). I know Aquarius is notorious for mind games. I just didn't think Aquarius' would do that sort of thing to their friend.

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@Lady_M
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Dont blame everything on a sun sign...he(Simon) is in love with "Dave"...thats the problem. Stop putting Simon in the picture and go directly to Dave. Maybe Dave and you should end the use of a mediator.

Like I said he (Simon) has his own agenda...

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@sunaina
20 Years

yes I am thinking about ending the mediator thing

I was suspicious at first because Simon was taking waaaaay too much interest in Dave & I but then I pushed that feeling away

then when I started to see how out of the way Simon went to help Dave & I get together I realized that this maybe a big game for Simon

I think I am just shocked

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@ladyvie
19 Years

Hmm perhaps Simon doesn't know how to deal with the fact that he's interested in you... It might explain the games and he might not even realize it. These things happen... Love Actually had a good subplot on that exact point. Just a thought.

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@Lady_M
20 Years10,000+ Posts

Although everyone born under the same Sun-sign shares some basic traits, the date you were born determines which type of Pisces, Aries - in fact any sign - you really are. Each sign is divided into three sections, 10 days per section - these are known as Decans. Find your Sun-sign and the date you were born in the table below - and then just click the link to discover the traits of your particular Sun-sign Decan!

1st Decan Aquarius ? 21st - 29th January
Ruled by Uranus you are the most free of free spirits, utterly taken up with life, humanity and the world. You shine at problem-solving, see money only as a means to an end. You make a spectacular lover for a partner as broadminded and freedom-respecting as yourself.

2nd Decan Aquarius ? 30th January - 8th February
Influenced by Mercury you are quick, mobile, eloquent, versatile and flexible in matters of work and the heart. You have charm and sex appeal aplenty, a spacious view of the world and are an exhilarating - if challenging - lover. Your ability to talk about fantasies makes your own bedtime stories completely irresistible.

3rd Decan Aquarius ? 9th - 18th February
Influenced by Venus you are less cerebral, less objective and more involved and still-centred than the pure Aquarian. Peace, calm and friendship sustain you. You are doubly idealistic, adoring, forgiving, a gentle lover with an artist's soul and you excel at creative endeavours.

(the ending dates are give and take really)

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@sunaina
20 Years

Lady M,

Simon is a Feb Aquarian. The fact that he is very emotional is NOT an Aqua thing either I think. I don't know where it comes from but I do thing it maybe a result of other stuff in the chart. Regardless yes I think he did use this situation to get closer to Dave because he knows Dave doesn't want to hang out with him outside of class if I am not invited. Now I think I know what I have to do. Thank you guys for your input