meangirl0715
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Why is this Aquarius man acting this way?
Ha! This sounds like my situation. If he didn't want to be around you he wouldn't.
Aquas don't get it sometimes. Just keep talking to him without expecting anything out of him.
Alot of it has to do with their comfortability I think.
Aquas don't get it sometimes. Just keep talking to him without expecting anything out of him.
Alot of it has to do with their comfortability I think.
Maybe he senses you like him and he doesn't like you like that and doesn't want to encourage you. Aquas don't like hurting people, so maybe he's avoiding you so he doesn't end up hurting you?
Not sure how they act when they are young. Us capricorns do the avoidance when we are yong and like someone out of fear of rejection, so there is that possibility since we're neighbor signs. Just don't know how young aquas are.
Not sure how they act when they are young. Us capricorns do the avoidance when we are yong and like someone out of fear of rejection, so there is that possibility since we're neighbor signs. Just don't know how young aquas are.
Posted by thisiscrap2
Ha! This sounds like my situation. If he didn't want to be around you he wouldn't.
Aquas don't get it sometimes. Just keep talking to him without expecting anything out of him.
Alot of it has to do with their comfortability I think.
You can try this. Stay confident - aquas like confidence.
This guy sounds very familiar. 🙂
I am a Aqua male and I can understand the situation you are in. Was he ever different from what he is now with you?
I am a Aqua male and I can understand the situation you are in. Was he ever different from what he is now with you?
If he's always been that way towards you, then I don't see enough evidence to suggest that he's this shy awkward guy who is secretly that into you.
But hey even if he showed interest once, but then never showed it again, I still don't feel that that is enough to officially consider him acting weird towards his crush.
But to be fair, whether he likes you or not, have you ever considered that you may wear your emotions & thoughts on your sleeves? Maybe your interest & intrigue in him is obvious & shows although you may not believe or see it. And if he's not that into you, him being awkward is his way of making sure he never gives you the wrong signals. Or it could be him sizing you up to see if the feelings are mutual...ya know, watching your prey like a hawk 1st..but that's only if there's something in you that he really likes
Honestly though...life is like really really short. Some men know what they want & go after what they want. And some men don't. If you're looking for love or for a guy who is a go-getter, this guy is not the one. How old are we, 5? If he's interested in you, he needs to say so. And if all of the signals point to him not being into you, then you need to accept that & not be so sensitive to his every word/action towards you.
A good rule of thumb (so that you don't over analyze this too death or constantly question how he feels about you) is that if a man wants you, he'll come after you. If he doesn't, he won't. The key isn't for a guy to simply like you. He needs to like you ENOUGH.
And if he likes you enough, but yet isn't confident or sucks at communicating his interest, then you're headed down a long road of mixed signals, miscommunication & misunderstanding. The whole, "I'm not really sure if he likes/wants me or not" thing gets really really old really really fast.
But hey even if he showed interest once, but then never showed it again, I still don't feel that that is enough to officially consider him acting weird towards his crush.
But to be fair, whether he likes you or not, have you ever considered that you may wear your emotions & thoughts on your sleeves? Maybe your interest & intrigue in him is obvious & shows although you may not believe or see it. And if he's not that into you, him being awkward is his way of making sure he never gives you the wrong signals. Or it could be him sizing you up to see if the feelings are mutual...ya know, watching your prey like a hawk 1st..but that's only if there's something in you that he really likes
Honestly though...life is like really really short. Some men know what they want & go after what they want. And some men don't. If you're looking for love or for a guy who is a go-getter, this guy is not the one. How old are we, 5? If he's interested in you, he needs to say so. And if all of the signals point to him not being into you, then you need to accept that & not be so sensitive to his every word/action towards you.
A good rule of thumb (so that you don't over analyze this too death or constantly question how he feels about you) is that if a man wants you, he'll come after you. If he doesn't, he won't. The key isn't for a guy to simply like you. He needs to like you ENOUGH.
And if he likes you enough, but yet isn't confident or sucks at communicating his interest, then you're headed down a long road of mixed signals, miscommunication & misunderstanding. The whole, "I'm not really sure if he likes/wants me or not" thing gets really really old really really fast.
Yes Aquas can have a slow pace at 1st in the name of observing & studying you to death b/c they finally found someone that intrigues them on a deeper level...however, we're not just gonna sit around all day & let something we truly want ENOUGH fly/pass us by.
At some point, an Aqua will make the decision about whether or not they have a real interest in you. And from there, they'll show it. If this guy has gone weeks & weeks without really showing you any real sign of interest, then it's safe to say that maybe there really wasn't any interest there to begin with.
A man being awkward does not = a man secretly likes you. The whole 'If he's mean to you then that means he really likes you' thing is a highschool mentality/myth. And if a man is awkward b/c he likes you, then that shy shit will eventually rub off once it hits him that if you're really a good catch overall, he better not be dumb enough to let you get away or purposely make you think that he's not into you.
At some point, an Aqua will make the decision about whether or not they have a real interest in you. And from there, they'll show it. If this guy has gone weeks & weeks without really showing you any real sign of interest, then it's safe to say that maybe there really wasn't any interest there to begin with.
A man being awkward does not = a man secretly likes you. The whole 'If he's mean to you then that means he really likes you' thing is a highschool mentality/myth. And if a man is awkward b/c he likes you, then that shy shit will eventually rub off once it hits him that if you're really a good catch overall, he better not be dumb enough to let you get away or purposely make you think that he's not into you.
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Ha! This sounds like my situation. If he didn't want to be around you he wouldn't.
Aquas don't get it sometimes. Just keep talking to him without expecting anything out of him.
Alot of it has to do with their comfortability I think.
You can try this. Stay confident - aquas like confidence.click to expand
They do. Everytime them aqua boys see me having a good time with someone else they wanna join in 😢
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