Will he come back..

You're crazy.

Posted by rockyroadicecream
You're crazy.

Lol. She's just young and in love. Why you want an admitted cheater back is beyond me, but he may be back. He'll come around, tell you want you want to hear, get you in the FWB zone without ever making any real commitment, and destroy what self esteem you have left in the process. You'll eventually leave jaded and untrusting making it hard for anyone else genuine that may come your way. This is the circle of dating life.

Just one time I want to see a young person take everyone's advice on here and break that cycle. Sadly OP, I don't have a feeling it will be you.

Posted by smokeandmirrors
In my humble opinion, happiness comes from within, not at the hands of someone else. I think you should let him breathe... If you truly loved him and if he found someone else that made him happy, him being happy would make you happy regardless if it wasn't you he decided to be with or not. You should focus on yourself. Be free. Be you. He's clearly hurt you before, why wait for him to hurt you again? Let it be. What's meant to be will be.

Happiness does come from within, but I don't think watching

someone you love, love someone else, is going to make

anyone happy.

Nor should it, initially-- that takes TIME.

@OP

As long as he knows you're waiting for him, he won't be concerned.

Go have some fun, and do NOT keep him in the loop-- he will begin

wonder-- let him.

And don't be so easy to get back... you're gorgeous, and you can

have anyone you want... and that ought to worry him (let it).


🙂

I agree with all these ladies!
Live your life and have some fun. If he comes back then he comes back. If not you'll be too busy to notice, because you're living.

I've had my experience with a couple of Aqua's and they both did the disappearing crap. Stop sitting at home thinking about it because I guarantee he isn't.

Best advice is what you're getting here.

that Leo part in you is probably thinking, "How dare he!!!? turning me down?? The Queen!!!?"

girl, you need to humble yourself and realize that there are men out there that are NOT worth a Thousand of you.

it's the opposite of Leo, YET the SAME as leo. (the you are too much worth it to put up with this crap!!)

Girl, you're not cut out to be with an aqua. No offense, but I don't think an aqua male is ever going to appreciate you or give you what you need. You need to be with a sign that embraces your dramatics and loves you for you and allows you to be crazy every now and again.

You're young. Our early loves are hard to get over and we tend to measure our feelings for other people by subconsiously comparing how we felt then to how we feel when we're with someone else.

I promise you will eventually find someone who fulfills you and doesn't fight you and conversation will rock along smoothly without all the tension or "long conversations" (of which I suspect were you trying to make things work and trying to force him to talk about his feelings). Belive me, I'm old. I promise that you will find a man who is perfect for you and complements you.

Relationships shouldn't be as hard as it is with the aquarius.

Posted by truecap
Girl, you're not cut out to be with an aqua. No offense, but I don't think an aqua male is ever going to appreciate you or give you what you need. You need to be with a sign that embraces your dramatics and loves you for you and allows you to be crazy every now and again.

You're young. Our early loves are hard to get over and we tend to measure our feelings for other people by subconsiously comparing how we felt then to how we feel when we're with someone else.

I promise you will eventually find someone who fulfills you and doesn't fight you and conversation will rock along smoothly without all the tension or "long conversations" (of which I suspect were you trying to make things work and trying to force him to talk about his feelings). Belive me, I'm old. I promise that you will find a man who is perfect for you and complements you.

Relationships shouldn't be as hard as it is with the aquarius.

And when you find this person that fits you, you will laugh at yourself for thinking the way you are now.

I promise!!! Been there, done that. I

I agree with all the above posters. In your other thread I was trying to make a point, and I'm not sure you got it. Don't make the mistakes I made. I'm old now too, and if I had it to do over, I would have done it differently. Don't be me.