Yet another aaarrghhh! Aqua men post....

Before this guy, I never dated an Aqua man...and after this, I'm in no hurry to again, lol. He contacted me on a dating site. We hit it off like no other (I am an Aqua as well). Agreeing to keep commitment out of the picture, we talk and hang out for about two weeks. Everything's great. He goes out of town to visit friends for a week, and it begins. During that time, he wouldn't respond to one single text from me. I didn't call him because, well, he was with friends and all. After a couple of days I quit trying. Happened to drive by his house a week later and he was home, so I stop by on my way to work to say hello. We sit and chat for a bit, again, everything's great. I didn't mention any "why didn't you answer my texts" talk because like any other aqua I don't do drama. I just chalked it up to he was with friends and since there's no commitment anyway, well, whatever.

When I went to leave, he walked me out to my car, we talked the whole time. When I got to my car we said our goodbyes, and he went to hug me like he always did...only this time I got "the look". I know you girls out there know what I mean..that piercing straight through you "I want to kiss you" look. Its an unmistakable look. He held that look for the 3 or 4 seconds it took him to get about 6 inches from my face, then all of a sudden he snaps out of it, turns his head to the side and makes it look like any other hug before. I didn't press the issue for obvious reasons. Two days later I'm getting the silent treatment again. I finally texted him asking why does he keep getting silent on me..only worded in a non-intrusive way.

He answers "sorry i've been so quiet lately..i've had a lot on my mind the past few days. and to be quite honest, i was introduced to someone while i was out of town and we've been talking. not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, just being open and honest."

now that's completely fine by me, i hadn't exactly fallen in love with him. what i don't get is his body language the whole time we've known each other says he's completely into me, plus that look i got...so why didn't he tell me about her like a week before when obviously i've been trying to contact him? oh well. just sharing my oh-so-fun experience with ya.

no more aquas for me. actually moved up and am now dating a gemini.... 🙂

Be careful with Gemini's!!!! I cannot stress that enough. Be leery very leery.