aries femme/libra guy

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HOW DOES ONE WIN A LIBRAN MAN OVER?

Honey,
Libra males are not hard to win over. They respond to confidence, class and audacity. Wear your best threads and catch his attention with a clever, engaging story or scenario...
Libra men are easy to catch but im not so sure about how easy to keep. Im a libra (female) and my attention is easy to get if the person is striking in some way, whether it be confidence, silence, an upfront attitide, clowny, creative, ingenious but just as easy to lose if they dont stimulate me intellectually or mentally.
I never go for loud abnoxious types and never for flashy show offs with lots of money (if they have money i dont mind, i just dont like people who show it).
I like people who are in touch with who they are and who are successful in what they do whether its washing dishers or as a rocket scientist, although i tend to go for the more free spirited and creative type.
Oh yeah, apparently librans hate business people, we're supposed to think they were put on the earth to do all the boring jobs!!!
Hope this helps, just be yourself and you cant go wrong. If you have to change for someone then its not meant to be because the act is hard to keep up for long periods of time.
Seeya,
The justice lover.

Thanks I appreciate it. Ironically you described some of our relationship. He is just hard to read sometimes and I hate to say it but he's a total businessperson...and so am I.

He can be sweet however.

Thank you again

I am an Aries Femme married to a Libra Male for almost 20yrs. I suppose what started out as an opposite attraction has slowly over time become more of a compition. He likes the flashy, the money, and is an intellectual. I am the carefree, impulsive, community minded,back to basics one. He is very jealous of all the contacs and people I've come to know. OH, I'm also in politics! He craves the lime light but I seemto get it. Even though he is very well known in his corporate world. I started out being the stay at home mom (which I believe is what he wanted) but as the kids grew up and I started to spread my wings he became resistant to my efforts. I guess what I am telling you is..... just be true to yourself. It is your life also. If he truly wants to be with you over the long haul he should be proud of you and most of all "respect" your place in life!!!
Good luck and hope this helps some.

Hi again-

I'm the aries femme who asked the intial question.
I have a question for the aries femme married to the libra guy..is are you two happy together?

Sometimes we do. Since I told him that I will not change (or cannot change) the way I communicate with him (which is VERY boiled down state) I cannot go on in this marrage. He sure has snapped too! LOL He wanted me to talk to him as an employee. I'm NOT corporate he is. But yes... we can get along sometime.

Oh no, sorry about the remark about the business people!!! I read it in a book somewhere, just goes to show how wrong the books are sometimes... Anyhow, I still stick to my conviction that libra males are not hard to win over, its just a matter of confidence.
Seeya,
ML.

This is the girl whoi asked the initial question- I don't think it going to happen but thats ok because I wouldn't want to sound as unhappy as that other aries woman.

I went out with a Libra for 3yrs. He was not hard to win over but hard to keep. They like vibrant and mysterious women (preferably beautiful in some way) who sweep them off their feet and into a land of dreams and ideals. They get disillusioned when the reality sets in. Of course that could be just him. Also he did seem to be obsessed with equality and couldn't embrace our differences - balancing the scales maybe...

I am an Aries who is currently somewhat dating a Libra. ("somewhat" dating due to his indecisiveness). This guy totally charms me, which I am not used to, and although it feels great, somehow it interferes with my independence, as deep down, i am scared to fall completely for this guy because i am scared of rejection, deep deep down. I am scared that i will lose my emotional independence. Is this crazy, or should i allow a Libra to teach me the things i should probably be taught, and vice versa??
As i said, we are somewhat dating, and his indeciciveness drives me bananas, but other times i am glad for it because i am not ready to commit now. Any one have any suggestions?

To the last two women who wrote in- I totally agree libra men are indecisive and incredibly idealsitic in their expectations of a significant others....careful with your heart! If you don't want to commit keep that attitude. I 've loved a couple of libra's and when my emtions became overwhelming they both ran for the hills despite the fact that I never really demanded anything substantial. Being independent I didn't need much.
Sadly I think I just lost someone who was a good friend.