So I??ve posted before on this Aries guy I??ve been seeing, but wow this guy is so weird. I am unable to read him and have no idea where I stand. Two weekends ago he is opening up to and telling me how he is very interested in me, he's just scared blah blah blah, then we move into the following week and nada absolutely nothing. I don't mind if people are busy, because I'm really busy as well and I am not the clingy type, but this guy makes absolutely no effort. The weekend he opened up he told me that he doesn't like to chase people and actually prefers to be chased (I thought Aries preferred the chase), I am not sure if this is because of his childhood so he desires the need of feeling wanted??_( I know he felt kinda rejected from his father etc.. ) but I just can't bring myself to chase him. I mean I??ll text him, just to see how he is etc??_ , but at some point I feel like the guy needs to make a little effort and initiate contact etc??_ we hung out for about 30 min Saturday, but that was because I text him said hey what are you up to and then eventually threw out an invite. While we were hanging out he said something to me about how much time did I think I would need with him a week, I said I don't know maybe see you 2-3 times a week, he did some calculations and said that means you wouldn't see me _____ hours , I was like ok that's cool I'm not very needy, but he looked appalled by my response, so I said why how much time do you need, he never responded. I also told him, that he makes me very confused because I have no idea where I stand with him and he is just so inconsistent, he looked appalled again and said something along the line like he doesn't put himself out there and date and how could I not tell. I looked at him dumbfounded and said really?! During that time I was thinking: well you make no effort, you never ask me out, you never call me, you never initiate anything, I feel like I am doing all the work and I'm a woman and feel like he should be doing the as much if not equal to all the work I am doing. I don't know if the guy is really that shy, insecure, scared or what, but it's pushing me away because I feel like this is all some game. I feel like if the guy wanted to see me he??d ask. I get that people are scared of rejection, but I think this is a bit extreme. Is this typical with Aries? I have met a few Aries recently that have said they are timid until they feel comfortable, but I think this guy knows I?
