Aries Male...Leo Female Dilema

I figured that I'd jump in feet first since I'm a newbie and this being my first post and all.

I'll try to keep this short and sweet. I've read a number of the posts in here and it seems like you people really know what you're talking about with your life experiences and all that. I'm hoping that I can get some of that experience from some of you to help me in my journey.


I met this Leo woman back in December. It was a weird situation to begin with and not your conventional one at that. She moved to Canada from Greece in search of a better life. Considering she came with nothing and had nobody here other than myself, things worked out better than she had hoped for. She was staying at my place and eventually a relationship bloomed between us. She left back for Greece at the end of February. At first she was all gun-ho about coming back to Canada and working on our relationship further. We're trying to keep this relationship going but it's getting more and more difficult as each day passes. The last week or so she's been distant. I've tried bringing up the question of when she's coming back but ignores it and any other questions I ask when she makes some comments.
She's said that she doesn't believe she wants to come back but her words/comments after the fact say differently. I believe she's scared/confused. I want to go to Greece and see her but am worried that it would be a wasted trip. We clicked right from the get go and it was effortless being with her.

I'm hoping someone out there can relate.

Hey Iggster; welcome 🙂

Maybe she feels that once she is back home with her friends and family etc she has realised how much she misses them possibly? Maybe that is what is making it hard for her to come back?

If she is feeling that kind of pressure, you may be making it worse by asking her if/when she is coming back. You need to support her but also be light about it.

Do you know anything about her background? Do you ask after her family etc? Idk.. Just a suggestion .

It might also be worth posting on the Leo forum as you can get a Leo woman's perspective on the situation.
🙂

Hello Ariesgirl74 🙂

Thanks for replying! I might take you up on that offer and post in the Leo section. Might have been a better section to post in from the beginning.

You could be right that I may be pressuring her but at the same time I don't think I have been. I've only brought it up once or twice and that's all. But I do see your point with family and friends. She did mention that they're all there for her.

As for family background, her parents and sister are divorced. So I'm also wondering how big of a role that is playing in all of this. I haven't brought that topic up because it's a touchy one to do so via text/phone call. Something like that should be discussed face to face.

I can't explain why I want her so much. Like I said, we clicked right from the get go and the relationship was effortless. I've never had that type of connection to that level before and I'm gonna be honest, I don't want to let it go. But I may have to let her go.