aries on the way out

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Breyanna
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17 Years

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I've dated a aries man for several years off and on. we have two children. Our last child recently was born. we have had our ups and downs and in and outs of love sessions. we have had problems with mother of his other child. three weeks after having his son we get into a argument which is one of many. I ask him to leave. I have done this several times. he tells me he doesn't want to go and that I'm forcing him to abandon his kids. But I no longer can handle his lack of support.He just doesn't do enough. I'm a virgo. He decides to go but not empty handed. he takes my money before leaving. I haven't heard from him since and now this women he has a child by has been calling playing on my phone. she is aware he took my money from me also and laughed at me once she knew. I feel he had her do this. That is really cold? I mean can aries be so cold to strike back like this when hurt by someone? I know he wants be here with the baby and daughter but he don't understand he needs to do more on his behalf as a father.
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Breyanna
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17 Years

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Roxi, I can't believe he would do such a thing to his children. he act as if he didn't want to leave and that I had hurt him so much. I was going to pursue charges. He is such a messed up person. What the treetrunk is up with his ex calling me and playing games.I feel bad for the kids especially his son. Roxi what did you do in your situation with your aries. Did he give your money back or ever get it together to there for his children. I'v heard aries are great fathers and lovers.
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peacelovehappiness
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17 Years

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Roxi-

your Aries is the kind of guy I fantasize about making miserable.

What a fckucking a $ $ hole. What damn nerve!!! Let me tell you something. You have to fight fire with fire. No less. This guy is a d!ck...plain and simple. The only way to kill an a $ $ hole Aries male is to give it to him the way he likes to give it to others.

Think about it...you're a Scorp....you can strategize your way to victory....in the end at least.

go sister
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Breyanna
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17 Years

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Starfish I couldn't agree more about them being "me" men. everthing is help me to do this or what about me. Self- centered is a understatement. I have tried to support him in everything and it seems he needs more and more. its never enough. I hate this for my kids. Of course it will take time to get over this and him. inspite of the way they are why do we(women) fall so hard for them.

Roxi, I also can relate to the intervening thing when it comes to the kids. I ohonestly was praying for marriage with this man. I feel he feels he has done nothing wrong to due the no contact. would of thouhe would of least brpught it back. Not a word even to see or hear how the kids are. He may be gone out they lives for good anyway due to the shame which I hopefully kills him ( guilt). I don't even think I could pretend to be cordial for the kids sake.
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ariesfire1980
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I don't think you can classify all aries people on the basis of one bad relationship. If what you say is true (which I question because with relationships with a history of many years and multiple kids there is always complexity and valid gripes on both sides...as I'm sure his side of the story doesn't paint you as the victim you portray, and I'm not implying anything more in saying that both parties probably have done their share of crappy things), it doesn't sound like there is any trust left or much of anything left of a relationship and you should get out of it....but I recommend making peace with him because if you share kids, then you have to consider the best interests of the children before those of your own and ahead of any issues you have with the father. Children with two loving parents are better adjusted and do better in life....I would keep that in mind and try to make some element of peace with the guy so you can work out some sort of shared visitation that can be conducted in a civil manner and demonstrates that both parents love the child and can get along even though they are no longer together.
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piscesdork
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I've heard other aries horror stories like this...but they're not all bad. My dad is an aries and would drop everything at anytime to do things for my mother and i.
He is definitely not selfish....except with spending time with his family - the more the better.
But boy....the temper! In my "rebel" teenage years i would run for my life when i saw his blood boil. I'd lock myself in a closet even though he'd never lay a hand it me!
Cracks me up now and i'll tease him about it...but damn scary back then! ha!
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Breyanna
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17 Years

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ariesfire, that may be true when in a relationship of many years there are valid gripes. The thing is they are words which may hurt more than a lick. However, it is directed towards him..... get it..... actions in reference to lashing out at the individual....not in the effect of our children. I know we would have to find a happy medium for the children sake but he could at least apologize and make an attempt to say he was wrong. At least a confession of not only hurting me but our children. I don't agree with the way he retaliated...

He should've been a father first and a lover second.....Then the games he played between two women with his children wasn't much help either....always have her in the wings just in a case...

I didn't deserve this no matter the gripes...when a relationship ends... you mourn like normal people and move on and continue with your obligations...


Atlantic Myst, he had a child by this woman first...for some reason she has just been a thorn in my side since I had children by him..