Hi im new ! ... Anyway I have my eye on this cancer guy .. any successful aries/cancer relationships?
aries woman / cancer man
Posted by Iz1me
Hi im new ! ... Anyway I have my eye on this cancer guy .. any successful aries/cancer relationships?
I dated a Cancer, he was amazing! But, I always felt like my straight to the point spiciness hurt his feelings and his water tried to soften my fire. But one of the best men I have ever been with by far!
No! No no no no. My last ex is a cancer. Horrible horrible person for one thing. Anyway the problem with aries cancer combo is that aries want to bounce around and have fun and have playful arguments and be messy and truthful and passionate and cancers are extremely boring and vindictive people. They want to sit at home and hate confrontation and they take forever to tell you their secrets and to trust and for aries that just is frustrating as all cards are on the table from the get go. Cancers are also happy to take everything they need from you and then leave.
(This is just my experience)
My ex will also text me once a month even though he has a new girlfriend because he still wants to control my emotions and becomes very frustrated when he can't. They have strong connections to their past which is why he won't let me go. Which is hard because as an aries as soon as I am done with it I have moved on and I would just prefer to never hear from him again.
Oh yeah and the mood swings!!!!! That is the worst part of dating a cancer. You never ever know what mood they are in because of the changes in the moon. And they just suck the fun out of everything when they are in a bad mood and they want you to hang out with them in this mood but then take said mood out on you entirely.
Anyway. I would say steer clear. The attraction at first is very strong and the love will be there but the differences are a deal breaker.
That being said I have one best friend that is a male cancer and he is perfect and a female best friend also cancer who is perfect. I think aries and cancer make perfect friends but frustrating lovers.
(This is just my experience)
My ex will also text me once a month even though he has a new girlfriend because he still wants to control my emotions and becomes very frustrated when he can't. They have strong connections to their past which is why he won't let me go. Which is hard because as an aries as soon as I am done with it I have moved on and I would just prefer to never hear from him again.
Oh yeah and the mood swings!!!!! That is the worst part of dating a cancer. You never ever know what mood they are in because of the changes in the moon. And they just suck the fun out of everything when they are in a bad mood and they want you to hang out with them in this mood but then take said mood out on you entirely.
Anyway. I would say steer clear. The attraction at first is very strong and the love will be there but the differences are a deal breaker.
That being said I have one best friend that is a male cancer and he is perfect and a female best friend also cancer who is perfect. I think aries and cancer make perfect friends but frustrating lovers.
NO NO NO NO NO NONOOOOOOOOO!!!
Stay away!!!!
Caner men, and cancer people, in general are very manipulative and will blame you for everything and anything.
Stay away!!!!
Caner men, and cancer people, in general are very manipulative and will blame you for everything and anything.
Been dating one now for about 6-7 months now... things are definitely not easy to say the least. It's like an emotional roller coaster with his moonie cancerness lol. Mine is a Cancer with Taurus sun so super set in his ways. For this to work though there has to be an aspect of understanding in the relationship either synced moons or mercury. There are two major milestones to look out for in the Cancer/Aries relationship from experience/seen/read.
1. Watch out for being too insensitive. It's good to be yourself, but there is a fine line of abuse a Cancer will take from an Aries... you can not demand but you can not be a push over either. Cancers love a challenge both men and women.
2. They are sensitive but they are not babies. So make sure that if they get into their moody self or "disappear" do not accept that behavior from them. It's one thing if they retreat to their shell. Let them be if they retreat to their shell but if they start treating you badly like being mean for no reason or taking their moodiness out on you do NOT take it. Do NOT accept it. You have to show them that you are fine with or with out them and you will not hesitate to drop them if need be. I personally have never seen this "disappearing" act from Cancer men but have read it's prevalent... but to be honest I have read about this disappearing act in all men and I feel like its because the girl came on too strong or she was way too needy or most of the time a combination of both. Add demandingness of a blunt Aries you can really scare a man off.
Just know your boundaries and set them once you start getting serious. And never take their shit.
Our relationship isn't perfect it has it's ups and downs and usually because one or both of us is feeling insecure. But it is definitely more steady than some of the other relationships I have been in. And when it's good it's great. I say definitely worth a go because squared relationships like this gets you out of your comfort zone and makes you learn a lot about yourself.
Good Luck! 🙂
1. Watch out for being too insensitive. It's good to be yourself, but there is a fine line of abuse a Cancer will take from an Aries... you can not demand but you can not be a push over either. Cancers love a challenge both men and women.
2. They are sensitive but they are not babies. So make sure that if they get into their moody self or "disappear" do not accept that behavior from them. It's one thing if they retreat to their shell. Let them be if they retreat to their shell but if they start treating you badly like being mean for no reason or taking their moodiness out on you do NOT take it. Do NOT accept it. You have to show them that you are fine with or with out them and you will not hesitate to drop them if need be. I personally have never seen this "disappearing" act from Cancer men but have read it's prevalent... but to be honest I have read about this disappearing act in all men and I feel like its because the girl came on too strong or she was way too needy or most of the time a combination of both. Add demandingness of a blunt Aries you can really scare a man off.
Just know your boundaries and set them once you start getting serious. And never take their shit.
Our relationship isn't perfect it has it's ups and downs and usually because one or both of us is feeling insecure. But it is definitely more steady than some of the other relationships I have been in. And when it's good it's great. I say definitely worth a go because squared relationships like this gets you out of your comfort zone and makes you learn a lot about yourself.
Good Luck! 🙂
Posted by ariesgirl402
NO NO NO NO NO NONOOOOOOOOO!!!
Stay away!!!!
Caner men, and cancer people, in general are very manipulative and will blame you for everything and anything.
I use to think that... but now my perspective has change and it may be because I'm blinded by love but I feel they can only manipulate you if you let them manipulate you.
As for the blaming part I have found any sign is capable of that... water signs are more susceptible to that... air least... but I have sign it in all signs... I think that is just an unhappy human trait not a sign based trait.
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