Aries women and Cancer Women

Hmmgh. I have a few Cancer girlfriends..but as much as I try to stay on base with them...we seem to lose connection and disagree on varities of topics. Especially in a conversation, when I start to speak on my part..they lose interest in what I'm saying...but when they are speaking I give full attention and real true honest advice. I thought maybe I was just being judgemental on one cancer female in particular. But it seems like most of the Cancer females that I know are the same way. Give me your opinons....

I confess that my mind drifts vey frequently though i am trying my best to listen to what people have to say. Thats why i chat on the net or make phone calls -with most of them-as they have my full attention then..most of the time🙂

Interesting,,,Actually April Baby, I'm a Cancer woman myself and have heard those things from people who didn't know me very well. But the people closest to me know and think differently. They know that I would do anything for them. Cancers tend to present a crabby, tough facade, but underneath they are softies...believe me....I have noticed that when I an caught up in a emotion or problem, I don't hear other peoples issues at that time..I mean, I hear them,,,But I can't deal with my own issues AND theirs at the same time,,,its not that I am being selfish, I just can't deal with both at the same time...too much for me to handle.

They just sound like B*tches if you ask me. I think it may just be coincidental that they happen to be Cancers...None of my Cancer friends are like that,,,Now if I don't feel like their is a genuine friendship between me and another person,,I rather not be there friend at all, because I feel like I am being fake by continuing a relationship with an individual that I don't respect or that I have issues with,,,Its this one girl,,who happens to be a Cancer woman, who insists on a friendship with me,,But I honestly do not like her,,,she is vindictive and conniving..she hasn't been with me, but I know that she is capable.

They just sound like B*tches if you ask me. I think it may just be coincidental that they happen to be Cancers...None of my Cancer friends are like that,,,Now if I don't feel like their is a genuine friendship between me and another person,,I rather not be there friend at all, because I feel like I am being fake by continuing a relationship with an individual that I don't respect or that I have issues with,,,Its this one girl,,who happens to be a Cancer woman, who insists on a friendship with me,,But I honestly do not like her,,,she is vindictive and conniving..she hasn't been with me, but I know that she is capable.

Oh...and my best friend is an Aries and so is my sister. Now I would have to we are completely diffrent, Where I would whine and mope about a certain situation...My sisiter and my best friend are pretty much don't obsess over a situation (romantic)...its like "it is what it is" with them. They just deal with their problems on a more internal level,,,and stay pretty level headed.

Seriously...April Baby...I can agree with you on that. I really dislike it when I listen to them while they are speaking in a courteous manner and give my full attention. Then, when it comes to my part in speaking they just kinda flow away or do something else...I find it offending when people do that. I'm just kinda like.. "Ummm..am I talking to a ghost here or what? Why am I even wasting my breath for??"
On the other hand, most of my siblings are Cancers. My two brothers and my baby sister are all Cancers. I love them to death..but sometimes they just say things to purposely offend me or hurt me..and when I'm really pissed off...nobody can really say much because I'll be like a speaker on blast..or if not...my calm words will wound them emotionally..and funny thing is they will be the ones crying first...but the thing is they always start something they either cannot handle or cannot win.
I know...although I have some cancer girlfriends...I'm not really close to them because of things like this..we can't talk to one another...just simply about anything..sucks..but oh well...sometimes we just come across our opposites huh? 😉