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Yeah, I noticed the swap...hahahaha! I'm not interested in the guy anymore. I think I was interested in him for the wrong reasons. But the attraction was there, so I was just curious. Why aren't you married to your g-friend? You know, I was with this guy, and being w/ him made me realize how bad I want to be in a relationship. I'm not desperate, and although I certainly don't "need anyone" it would be nice to have someone.
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noooo it wouldn't be just nice to have someone it would be fukcing amazing, you'd be a whole new person! but you're right. it MUST! be for the right reasons, it has to be someone who's really special to you, not just a relationship.

"Why aren't you married to your g-friend?"
i need some time to answer that, maybe a lot of time, it's complicated.
it's to do with me though...

and you did notice the swap, great, that's really nice... can you imagine that this little thing means so much to me.... that's crazy... no seriously, you'd get a lot of these things from me, i shoot them off not really expecting anyone to notice, somehow i thought you would....
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This brings me back to the whole soulmate question. I am a hopeless romantic. I don't need the white horse or the knight in shining armor, but the knight...the knight would be great. A man who is strong, but sensitive. Powerful, but not dominating. Loving, but not naive. Someone who can put me in my place when I start whining for attention, but knows better than to try and control me. I want an equal, and I feel like I'm asking for too much. Also, I'm borderline obsessed with the idea. I'm not out looking for Mr. Right, don't care for Mr. Right Now, I just want to be found.
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truthseeker-

What you described above, is not what I consider a soul-mate. As a matter of fact, just sounds like a personal fantasy. Nice if you're looking for a boyfriend... however seems too generic if you want a "soul mate".

My theory is, a soul mate (or any mate), is not just the sum of the attributes of what you look for in a partner... more-so, someone who understands you- and the two of you can relate to on several emotional, mental, and spiritual levels (keep in mind when I say "spiritual"-- I do not mean religion- or God.. persay).

This person...this "soul mate" may or may not be loving OR powerful OR sensitive.. however you can see past that because the "person" is what interests you- not their surface personality.

I think it takes time to find such a person- months.. years..they may never become a "lover", but the are, at the very least, an eternal friend.
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I agree, STD. To further that, I believe that soul mates compliment who you are. They can fill in w/ strengths where you are lacking. I know that soul mates can be disguised as friends, family members, whomever. If that truly is the case, I have been fortunate to have two. But my stress is that I won't find a lover who is also a soul mate. I know that beggers can't be choosers, but anything less would be uneventful. I met this guy, and he was great. There was that connection and I learned so much from him, about myself (a lot of good things, too). It didn't work out. Maybe it wasn't meant to be, and that's fine. Since he really hurt me, and thus, I can't allow myself to see past his surface personality, does that mean he was never a soul mate? I want the connection that we had. I want someone who can open my mind and extend my happiness. I want to be able to see past the surface personality. I'm afraid it will never happen...that's the scary part. So then what?
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sorry ladies, i was absent... you must have noticed...

and i'm glad i wasn't there/here. STD you said things to truthseeker, that i never could have. seems she can relate to what you're saying 🙂 that's great! in other words right now you seem to be more important for her than me.... maybe i would've spoiled the magic of the moment.

truthseeker, let's get away! pets forum, fairyland




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Thanks, haffo. I've been trying to realize that "People aren't that hard as you take them.." People act a certain way for a certain reason. Whether it be fear, love, etc. Either way, I can't hold that against someone, and I'm really trying to learn not to hold grudges against folks who make mistakes. Especially since I make mistakes, too. Your posting meant a lot. I appreciate it!