cancer woman confused about an aries man?

its not that i enjoy watching him get jealous, im just saying it didnt bother me at first because i never really had a man that cared enough to get jealous at those kinds of things, i mean i can handle controlling and jealous, but when u start getting mad at the fact that i liked a guys status on fb, then its kind of scary :S

Posted by cancer1991girl
I am a cancer woman , and i was very attracted to this aries man at first.
he asked me out on a date a few times and each time i made up an excuse,
finally he told me to cut the crap & asked me out, i said yes this time.

Im not the type to rush into things, but the comfort i had with this man was unlike anything
i have ever felt before, he made me feel so cared for. He would ask to see me everyday,
majority of the time surprising me in the morning and taking me out for coffee.
I got the idea that he was a little bit controlling at first, but i kind of liked it
none of my ex's have ever gotten jealous if other men check me out.

Well finally one night he went out with his friends, and i didnt really mind
i mean i know i dont know the guy well but i didnt feel the need to keep him tied down
we got into a conversation about how he didnt want me going out without him,
and that night i got angry because i felt as though he was pulling out a double standard at me

anyways i ignored his text message that night and the next day in the morning he called me and
told me he was coming to pick me up and to get ready, so we met up and we were arguing a lot that day
but finally came to a conclusion and the rest of the day was amazing.

THIS IS WHERE THE CONFUSION HAPPENS, he texted me out of nowhere having a tantrum because i liked
a GUY FRIENDS status on facebook ( which btw had nothing to do with flirting), he said a lot of hurtful things to me, and i didnt know how to take it
so all i said was i cant believe ur actually mad at me , bye. and he replied with a "k bye" and the next thing u know he deleted me off bbm messanger
and BLOCKED ME ON FACEBOOK from even being able to see his page?
now its been 2 days since we talked & im just curious, will he make the first move to talk to me?
or should i just get on with my life and just realize it ended so soon because it wasnt meant to be?

How long did you date? This sounds a little unhealthy already

no this is typical "bipolar crazy" controlling, emotionally immature man trick...being you are a cancer and from my observation cancer women seem to to thrive off of being kept emotionally off balance and lured into/attracted to dark horse type men you'll probably remain in this way longer than you should.

Posted by cancer1991girl
we dated for 4 days! and now hes finally unblocked me on fb, and is constantly changing his profile pictures and adding random girls, is this a typical aries man trick? to try and make me jealous?

4 Days and he is already acting like this? trust the signs given to us in the beginning, it will get worse

You pissed him off so he's trying to piss you off by trying to do the same thing (making you jealous). Doesn't mean he wants you back though - just saving his own pride. If you do come back, he will probably make you pay for it even worse. I wouldn't even bother - Aries and Cancer generally aren't good together.

Posted by cancer1991girl
its not that i enjoy watching him get jealous, im just saying it didnt bother me at first because i never really had a man that cared enough to get jealous at those kinds of things, i mean i can handle controlling and jealous, but when u start getting mad at the fact that i liked a guys status on fb, then its kind of scary :S

i guess that lets you know he really likes and cares for you lets you know that he doesn't want any other guy taking is place i'm a cancer and i'm with an aries man i reeeeaaaallly love him and if someone calls or texts my phone he always has someting smart to say i don't like when he says the things he says because the only person i want is him.

Posted by bkbella86

Posted by cancer1991girl
I am a cancer woman , and i was very attracted to this aries man at first.
he asked me out on a date a few times and each time i made up an excuse,
finally he told me to cut the crap & asked me out, i said yes this time.

Im not the type to rush into things, but the comfort i had with this man was unlike anything
i have ever felt before, he made me feel so cared for. He would ask to see me everyday,
majority of the time surprising me in the morning and taking me out for coffee.
I got the idea that he was a little bit controlling at first, but i kind of liked it
none of my ex's have ever gotten jealous if other men check me out.

Well finally one night he went out with his friends, and i didnt really mind
i mean i know i dont know the guy well but i didnt feel the need to keep him tied down
we got into a conversation about how he didnt want me going out without him,
and that night i got angry because i felt as though he was pulling out a double standard at me

anyways i ignored his text message that night and the next day in the morning he called me and
told me he was coming to pick me up and to get ready, so we met up and we were arguing a lot that day
but finally came to a conclusion and the rest of the day was amazing.

THIS IS WHERE THE CONFUSION HAPPENS, he texted me out of nowhere having a tantrum because i liked
a GUY FRIENDS status on facebook ( which btw had nothing to do with flirting), he said a lot of hurtful things to me, and i didnt know how to take it
so all i said was i cant believe ur actually mad at me , bye. and he replied with a "k bye" and the next thing u know he deleted me off bbm messanger
and BLOCKED ME ON FACEBOOK from even being able to see his page?
now its been 2 days since we talked & im just curious, will he make the first move to talk to me?
or should i just get on with my life and just realize it ended so soon because it wasnt meant to be?

How long did you date? This sounds a little unhealthy already

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he's a little tooooooo possesive and craaaaaazy lolbs

have you tried talking to him asking him whats wrong? if he doesn't respond i'd just leave him alone for a while......

it sounds unhealthy from the start and very immature.How old are the
two of you? Let this guy go already & no offense but it seems like
alot of cancer women like it when their guy gets jealous but maybe
they don't mean to be this way? either way it's very wrong & very
bad for both people.Aries or not,this guy isn't normal.