ARIES & CANCER - I foresee huge problems

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by dragoneyes on Monday, May 30, 2011 and has 8 replies.

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@dragoneyes
15 Years

I'm an Aries woman, in love with a Cancer man who I work with. There is a new young girl that started to work with us, and I'm all of the sudden having feelings of jealousy and insecurity, which is not common for me. I think I'm feeling this way because I'm unsure if this cancer man is in love with me, or just playing and having a good time. How will a cancer man act when he is in love? What are the signs of a cancer man in love?

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@BeoWulf
19 Years500+ Posts

I think it's going to be hard. Aries women are like a hurricane when in love. They move fast & strong. I think you should just bang this guy & move on. Give him that hot, rough and fiery love-making that Aries women are known for....and then look for another fire or air sign who will mesh well with you. Cancer dudes are all about emotions & family. They will love you a lot but will become frustrated at the fact that Aries doesn't feel as emotionally deep as him.

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15 YearsAries

Posted by dragoneyes
I'm an Aries woman, in love with a Cancer man who I work with. There is a new young girl that started to work with us, and I'm all of the sudden having feelings of jealousy and insecurity, which is not common for me. I think I'm feeling this way because I'm unsure if this cancer man is in love with me, or just playing and having a good time. How will a cancer man act when he is in love? What are the signs of a cancer man in love?

I'm an Aries female in deep like of a cancer male.. we've been seeing each other for a few weeks and started calling each other s.o.'s about a week ago, so I might not be the best advice giver on this relationship 😄

But our relationship is pretty amazing so far. Keep in mind, he has an Aries moon and everything else in Leo, so that plays a huge role too. My advice would be to try and be his friend first, a good way to do this is to give him the opportunity to help you out (say you need a ride to the mechanics, or help with something.. and let him offer to help, if he does, then he's interested in you). Then be friends with him, give him a lot of security, but let your own feelings develop and be sure you like him too. If he feels right (takes a while), he'll make his move.

My cancer and I were in the friend stage for two months. If you can't wait that long for yours, your not the type of aries that's compatible with cancer, so either just give him a fuck or move on.. I love everything about mine. He's the first person I've ever been completely honest and myself with, and I never get tired of having him around. This might change in the future, but it's so good right now I'd be hard-pressed to say it isn't worth it.

The biggest challenge is to let him make the moves. We're only incompatible when the Aries is impatient, but honestly, I love the challenge of trying to hold back. It's one of my favorite parts of the relationship, actually.

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@dragoneyes
15 Years

Thank you all. I have learned to be patient with him, and not to force him for an answer. I let everything happen on his time. He always initiates contact, and he stares at me a lot. I'm feeling insecure because I'm not sure if he has real feelings for me. He will never say it, but there is signs that makes me think that he does have feelings for me. Like the stares, and he seeks me out, chats to me. Always try to get my attention. Hangs out whenever he is not too busy with work.This is all good signs, but I need reassuarnce, and just dont want to ask him, because he will not be direct with me. We started out as friends, and it has developed into something more, but no sex, just sexual convos. Some days it feels like he is stalking me the way he stares and is everywhere I am. I think I feel this way because he is literally taking forever to show and tell me that he has feelings for me.Maybe I'm not picking up on the indirect signs from his side. I just need some guidance on what to look out for?

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@kristalaries
15 Years

I am Aries and had relation with a Cancer guy..we're in a "break" now I don't know for how long LOL it's in his terms...
But I am dating again and I find myself getting along well with an Aries guy 🙂
I still love & long for Mr.Cancer though..Cancers always touch my heart

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@krebbsmann
13 Years500+ Posts

Havent had an aries gf yet but my mom is one and shes a fun person .... And we get along like a house on fire. We rarely have disagreements and i would certainly like an arian to date if they are anything like my mom. Fun people!