Crush on aries

I had a huge crush on Aries man. I am Aquarius girl. I was 18 and he was 22. We talked and became friends. But it fizzled out in less than a year. I still secretly like him a lot. What should I do. He never calls or texts me. Its been 5years now

🙂 thats really sweet.

I m trying to get over him. But sometimes I feel like there can be no one like him. He's very very handsome, very hardworking and funny too...gosh sigh!

Aires are gods gift to the world. Mmmm.. where is yur venus and mars? I find that my virgo placements makes it hard for me to forget people that I have the most connection with. Platonically or romantically. Pisces moon dont help either.

Signed,

Leo Sun, Pisces Moon.

I miss his presence

I wish I had the gutsss🙂)!!!!!
Actually our families are involved in this situation. And I can't hurt them anymore.

Aries sun, aries moon guy here... I like an aquarius girl and in my point of view I can tell you some good points you can imporve and some things that you should never do with an aries man. We are drawn by aquarius women logical nature, intelligence and independence. They have an aura of "always right" without needing to argue (and if they do they are flawless most of the time) wich we find outrageous and at the same time attractive. It gives you credibility and value in our eyes. The girl I liked was so attracted to me that I could see she almost losed herself, but she just wont give up to my pressure (because aries can be the hottest sign when they want this). Example: we started to passionally kiss and even if she liked it a lot she stoped me after a brief time just for me to press forward again and get another round. To spice us up just force a short pause in the time that we get started. That is making us angry and impatient. And this is a feeling that we like... Especially in bed. To make him intrested in you you have to first win his admiration, because this thing my lady will raise you above all other girls that passed him by. Because usually if a women wins our admiration we pursue her untill the grave. Show him you are intelligent, show him you have a lot of power of will, show him you have a dream and a vision and a lot of bold ideas and plans. But do not exagerate with your ideas and plans, because once you have our attention we will start to tell you about OUR ideas and plans for future and this is the crucial point (at least for me) in a relationship. I want to see that you understand my vision and you quietly admire it. But first you understand it, because we have big dreams, our succeses stands in the ideea that we will allways do the hardest job and succed where no one else can. We want to be the best and we search for opportunities to show this mentality. So once you opened him up, talking about your ideas, do your best to understand him, and even make suggestions (not to change somenting!! just for what he could add). Be a little bit critic but in a constructive and objective way. You aquarius are so good at it. If you manage to have one conversation where you make him to show off in a sincere way telling his biggest dreams and you are receptive and you seem to offer good objective support and objective quiet admiration (you dont have to tell it loud, just pay attention with your every fiber) he will get intrested in you. Then flex your independence muscle and find some reasons to ignore him for a while, but be carefull, bo it just a little bit and every time find something to apologise. We dont like to be ignored, and if you over do it we will get angry and just go somewhere else to find consolation sex or whatever... You get the idea. Reply to his messages a little bit delayed sometimes BUT ALLWAYS REPLY. DO NEVER LET HIS MESSAGES UNANSWERED. Do this and have fun. He will fall very fast for this kind of women.

And if you want to call him, just do it. We cant undersand games and a very ubtle approach will often get unnoticed. Just call him, and try to find out about his plans for places to go for near future and say that maby you could met somewhere there. When you met him try to shine with all your presence and dress sexy but decent in the same way. You aquarius can be very original, just find something that catches the eye. Good luck with him and i repeat DONT IGNORE HIM. You can do this just as the ultimate punishment. In any other case he will just go angry and leave you.

Hey aceofspades....I see here that you can totally relate to my situation here. Its so great to hear something from an aries man point of view!

But its just that he has already left me. We had a fight and since then I haven't talked to him. As u said im head over heels for him. Also, he had discussed his career plans with me. I was very supportive. Today he is very successful and achieved a lot in his business. I can't tell you how proud I am. If anything I would like to congratulate him on his success. He is clever and hard working.

And regarding my not calling him...I am dying to speak to him once. But the problem is that I don't think he would want to speak to me anymore. It was him who stopped talking. So I'm sure he had good reason. Also, I don't want to force anything on him.

seriously feel you should text him.I'm an aries dating an Aquarius male and he always over thinks situations even though everything is fine and I think you're over thinking you're relationship with him especially since it ended on a sour note but the fact that you're still thinking about him means you should text him . Even if he doesn't reply at least you know you tried and can finally move on or not you'll never be able to focus on making new relationship with others since he'll be in your mind.

Although if he does reply it does mean that you mean something to him (cause aries usually don't bother textin people who don't interest them)& you'll be forever thankful that you took a chance in this

He probably didn't text or call after the whole fight cause he needed to cool off for a while but days turn into weeks then momths since there was no reply from you he might have thought it was over between the two of you .(my opinion of what might have happen)Remember aries men need's the women to do the chasing while aries women are the opposite .So you should be the one to start something for something to happen.

Sorry if I'm harsh but it's only the honest truth from me.

Posted by skyeop

Posted by Heartstone
Remember aries men need's the women to do the chasing while aries women are the opposite .So you should be the one to start something for something to happen.

I thought Aries men like to me the one chasing? What would it mean if an Aries man didn't necessarily chase you - like suggest a date, but says and does things to impress someone and if the woman asks him if he wants to hang out and talk, he is always enthusiastic and says yes?

click to expand

It means like aries men prefer knowing that the girl liking him and is trying to get his attention and if he did ask her out it would mean she has spark an interest and has a chance to truly obtain his love but could end up becoming only list if not careful .if the women ask him out and always says yes it's because he's intrigued that she is always wanting to do something instead of always lazing around but she needs to make sure to not always make the plans or he'll feel like she's trying to control everything. Let him choose sometimes but never let him dominate her ,be equals .

I meant lust not list

Posted by skyeop

Posted by Heartstone
Remember aries men need's the women to do the chasing while aries women are the opposite .So you should be the one to start something for something to happen.

I thought Aries men like to me the one chasing? What would it mean if an Aries man didn't necessarily chase you - like suggest a date, but says and does things to impress someone and if the woman asks him if he wants to hang out and talk, he is always enthusiastic and says yes?

click to expand

Not true Aries women want to be chased too, rarely happens tho. I'm starting to get a complex behind it honestly 😢