Aries, do you like Aquarius'?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by fruity on Sunday, October 21, 2012 and has 13 replies.

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@fruity
13 Years

I know a lot of Aries, my mom is an Aries and I interact with them on a day to day basis. In the beginning we get along fine, Aries' are really friendly and outspoken. I'm not sure what I've done or what I didn't do but Aries' seem to not like me (not my mother of course, just the other Aries' I know). After a while they stop acknowledging me and we're no longer friendly.

I just want to know, what have your experiences with Aquarius' been like? Do you like them? Is there somethings you don't like about them? Be honest, as I know you brutally will.

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@impresssme
13 Years

Posted by champranger
Aquas are a bit too distant and too detached sometimes for a typical Aries I think.

ie sometimes I would say I got to go to sleep and say good night, I sometimes would get responses like "ok, bye", where as I'm hoping to be more like "good night" or "sweet dreams".

Agreed.

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@Archimedes
16 Years

Hi fruity,

I'm not an Aries sun, I'm an Aries moon, so maybe I can help you out. I like Aqua men, there are several in my life and they are the most enjoyable as friends and company. The whole "detachment" thing doesn't phase me very much.

If an Aries stop acknowledging you, they probably figured you were no longer interested in them and moved on, or you've done something disrespectful (in an Aries mind) and they are too hurt/angry to address it. Aries are very nice people and if you've hurt their pride/ego in someway or manipulated them and they figured it out....you can pretty much consider yourself non-existant to them. They won't look at you the same way again.

I hope this helped 🙂

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@fruity
13 Years

Posted by Archimedes
Hi fruity,

I'm not an Aries sun, I'm an Aries moon, so maybe I can help you out. I like Aqua men, there are several in my life and they are the most enjoyable as friends and company. The whole "detachment" thing doesn't phase me very much.

If an Aries stop acknowledging you, they probably figured you were no longer interested in them and moved on, or you've done something disrespectful (in an Aries mind) and they are too hurt/angry to address it. Aries are very nice people and if you've hurt their pride/ego in someway or manipulated them and they figured it out....you can pretty much consider yourself non-existant to them. They won't look at you the same way again.

I hope this helped 🙂

Omg, this does help a lot! Thank you, it does sort of make sense. I do get that feeling, especially from that one Aries, like I've done them wrong in some way. I honestly don't know what it is but I'm too intimidated to approach them about it. They have definately gone out of their way to ignore me. Now that I know I will forever be non-existant to them I guess there's not much I can do.

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@bkbella86
14 Years5,000+ PostsAries

I know a few aquarius people, my cousin and my stepfather and a friend of mine from hs were the closest to me. I don't find them to be detached though, I was super close with my cousin and my friend at one time. I was practically attached at the hip with both of them a certain points in my life. I had two big fallouts with my friend and it just wasn't the same anymore. I wrote about her In the aqua section before. My issue with her was that she was super critical and bossy. Always telling me what I'm doing wrong and how I should do things her way basically, had to move on from that. My cousin and I grew apart after she had two kids and moved away. I also know to other girls who are always inviting me out and trying to hang with me but I just can't see myself getting close to them at this point In my life. My manager is also one too. As well as my stepbrother, I can't trust him. We had issues but we too were very close At one point till he turned on me, no loyalty. I can't see myself
Dating one, and have only been pursued by two aquas. One whom was recent he had the nerve to ask me to sell coach bags for him, I died laughing. I can't put finger on why I don't bang with most aquas, I really have to think about it.

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@luxe
14 Years

Hmmm when it comes to Aquarius I've had nothing but good things to say. The women make great friends albeit aloof and a bit awkward... which i love! As for aqua men i turn them into neutered cats. Very fun and cuddly and "OMGZ BIFFLES" but they don't really act like men. Sorry if I'm stepping on a few toes this just from the 15 or so aquas i've had in my life for years. So it's a limited sample base. As for the distance you may be feeling it may be because aquarius has their own distorted sense of time. I can't explain it but with some of my friends they tend to phase in and out of my life and i accept it and know they will eventually comeback but i can see how that would hurt others. Emotional intimacy I've found is easier to establish with female aquas because the men just seem incapable of it. They are so deeply concerned with being fair and helpful with everyone they meet they somehow can't distinguish the difference between a close friend and someone they just met. Terrible for a relationship because you end up trying to have to prove why you are different from everyone else and should be treated differently from the other women in their lives... on a daily basis @_@. I hope this helps!

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@Chachacha
14 Years

I find myself attractive to Aqua men a lot because of their appearance and their different personality. Usually aquas seem boring they can be but their hyper sometimes as well. I don't become friends with them because i actually don't like them. They're way too detached. How do you expect to develope a connection if your so distant. I was sitting next to an aqua before and it just feels like he's miles away. I live with my mother and uncle who are both aquas and they don't seem to like my personality at all. Plus my sister is a taurus so all these calm grounded boring signs just gang up on me. Oh man They just love attacking the fire. Then they become scared of me and don't like me but they'll miss me a lot when im gone. =] i know aquas dont like loud up and down people.

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@Rammalot
13 YearsAries

Posted by champranger
Aquas are a bit too distant and too detached sometimes for a typical Aries I think.

ie sometimes I would say I got to go to sleep and say good night, I sometimes would get responses like "ok, bye", where as I'm hoping to be more like "good night" or "sweet dreams".

This.

At first they are ok then they just come across rude and not care.

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@Arian22
13 Years

I agree with the top posts! Let me say, my dad is an aqua, my mom is an aries and they are divorced, so think about that. Im an aries too! And I love them both, but my dad is totally detatched from our family, always has been, I never understood it, and it worries me being a male aries, I might not be disconnected but I might be too flighty to ever settle down. Also my dads best friend is an aqua, hes never been married. Something to think about. I think Aries and Aquas can be friends but not lovers, I have alot of Aqua friends, but yall have that God complex, and you already know Aries is King $ hit in the zodiac (or atleast to us we are) so its a power struggle there. Also I think Aries and Taurus are bad for relationships. Im not certain, but you typically dont wanna date signs close to you. Maybe that helps.

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@firewaterearthpiscesvenus
13 Years

I love Aquas. Some of them are kind of crazy...like Intergalactic wacky but, for the most part I have had good dealings with them.

You can't take their mad scientist/space cadet/Bond villain personas to seriously. Look past all of the subterfuge and they are pretty good souls.

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@bkbella86
14 Years5,000+ PostsAries

My aqua stepdad and cancer mom are breaking up as I type. My mom is over by my house while he moves his things out. I'm super sad over this, they have been together for 15 years. I can't believe this is it for them.