DID I RUIN IT—

okay..... in my last thread from a couple days ago, i havent heard from my aries friend..... i finally cracked and messaged him on sunday..... he seemed in good spirits.... but wouldnt continue the conversation..... then later , after a couple more of my texts, he tells me he is feeling very very depressed, and stuck in a rut, and he will get out of it eventually.... i got very concerned.... and sent him a bunch fo messages to let him kno i am here for him, and all that.... he simply responds with: i wouldnt forget about you.

i said a couple more encouraging things, then wished him a goodnight...

now today... i found a shirt that reminded me of him.... so i took a picture of it and sent it to his phone.... he repsonded:
lmao... aww youve been thinking about me i see... that orange is alittle much lol...

i responded again... and nothing!

then hours later i asked if he had the day off, and nothing!

obviously, im going to drop it...

i just feel so helpless....and confused.
i hear aries lose interest fast...... is this one of those moments.??
or does he really just need space?


help 😢

Well, just speaking for myself here....I don't handle depressed very well, so I would rather crawl into a hole somewhere until I got through it all somehow and was back to my bright bouncy self.

We don't want anyone to know we are vulnerable and have soft centres.

Rams are supposed to be upbeat/tough - we feel like we are letting the side down if we don't appear to be soldiering on.

It does blow us away when someone shows us they care (which you have done - it really touches our hearts) and we do love our Bulls
Who said Aries lose interest fast? Only if you stomp all over our hearts for not reason.

Give him some time to compose himself. Wait till he feels like RAMbo again.

And feel free to come back and growl at me if I am wrong😉

well, im not his s/o lol

ive only known him for a few weeks.....

thats what worries me

lol thanks!!!

i decided to go for a walk, and once i came home i saw he messaged me online saying: hey, are u ok? thankyou for sending me that pic it was funny

lol but then he was offlineeeeee when i came back... tried texting him but no response lol grrrr

thankyou though, im not worried anymore.... i will just give space when needed 🙂

Posted by ImpressMe
Good for you! You're a bull so patience is something that comes natural, sometimes, lol.

I wish i had some earth in my chart. A Cap or Taurus would do me just fine.

You do NOT need any Taurus or Cap to be "patient".

You are an Aries - you are chilled, laid back, relaxed. Patient is just a word....we can do that stuff - we just call it another name.
You are sensational just the way you are and there will be a serious headbutting if anyone argues with me.