IS THIS NORMAL?

This topic was created in the Aries forum by Lil.ladie.taurus on Friday, July 29, 2011 and has 12 replies.

Is It Normal for Aries Men to Fall Hard and Disappear

Aries men can fall quickly and intensely but may also disappear suddenly due to their impulsive nature. This behavior can be common but varies individually. It's important to communicate openly and give him space. Trust your instincts and avoid overanalyzing his actions. Patience and understanding are key in navigating early stages with Aries signs.

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@Lil.ladie.taurus
19 Years500+ Posts

is it normal for an aries man to fall head over heals for a girl, and spend hours on the phone talking to them for days... and then dissapear??

Should i worry? ( its only been a day with no response lol)

i usually only dealt with water signs before, so im used to them texting everyday.

should i wait for him to contact me?

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@aires4u
15 Years

This is normal for an aries male i am an aries myself and ive also dated an aries male. My ex did the same thing but i learned that if i want him to keep coming around i had to leave him alone and let him contact me. Once i stopped going after him he pretty much became a stalker. The reason they do this is because they like to chase because its a challenge they like to go after what they cant have. And aries people also like their freedom. Let them have their space and they're be all yours. If you keep contacting him and he doesnt respond he'll feel as if you will smutter him in a relationship. Just because he isnt in contact with you doesnt mean he stopped having those feelings for you. Usually if you give them space they will fall for you even more because you give them the chance to actually miss and think about how much they like you.

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@aires4u
15 Years

This is normal for an Aries male i am an Aries myself and i've also dated an Aries male. My ex did the same thing but i learned that if i want him to keep coming around i had to leave him alone and let him contact me. Once i stopped going after him he pretty much became a stalker. The reason they do this is because they like to chase because its a challenge they like to go after what they cant have. And Aries people also like their freedom. Let them have their space and they're be all yours. If you keep contacting him and he doesn't respond he'll feel as if you will smutter him in a relationship. Just because he isn't in contact with you doesn't mean he stopped having those feelings for you. Usually if you give them space they will fall for you even more because you give them the chance to actually miss and think about how much they like you.

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@Lil.ladie.taurus
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THANKS LADIES.... 12 hours later and he responded to my message..... but i think im just going to leave it for the day lol

i feel much better now thanks... lol
no need to always be at his attention 😛

this could be a new side to meee

( if i can keep it up )

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@Lil.ladie.taurus
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LOL im dyingggg.....i responded to his message on fb this morning.... but thats just sooo blaahh... i wanna texttt lol

think i'll go start my day instead.... it is saturday afterall *sigh

oh to be a smitten kitten

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@Anon310
15 YearsTaurus

OOh girl chill a bit with the clingyness...no guy likes that! I will say the Aries I dealt with was different. For like 3 months straight we would talk every.single.day. Like even if it was like a brief 2 min phone convo. We are good friends now, I'm glad I didn't give into him though because I know once they get what they want they get bored with ya. lol but yea give him some space and let him chase you they love that.

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@Lil.ladie.taurus
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Yeah i cant do it lol....

im not built that way... espciacially with an aries man... i just posted a new topic : HONESTY

and man... i cnat help it..

im fine not tlaking to him all dya, but once he message me.... and then stops... i cant handle it... its a tease!

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@Anon310
15 YearsTaurus

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
Yeah i cant do it lol....

im not built that way... espciacially with an aries man... i just posted a new topic : HONESTY

and man... i cnat help it..

im fine not tlaking to him all dya, but once he message me.... and then stops... i cant handle it... its a tease!

Well I honestly think it's in your best interest to TRY not being so hard up for his attention or you'll drive him away because he'll think you're smothering him...Aries=Fire which means like a fire they like to move freely...notice when a fire is contained (or essentially smothered) it goes out. Just sayin...

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@Lil.ladie.taurus
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Posted by michellemabelle

Posted by Lil.ladie.taurus
lol thankss!!

ive been fighting with my phone today not to text.

😛

gotta learn patience!!

Thing is to trust that whatever your feeling hes probably feeling it too so wait for him to express the feeling first. Then youll feel loved and pursued and attractive

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funniest thing... the other day.... i wiated all day and i caved and sent him a text saying i missed him lol.... AND HE SENT THE SAME THING AT THE SAME TIME lol