I've been having a physical relationship with an Aries male for the past 3 months. We have incredible sex (I'm a Leo female BTW). We've agreed just to be sex buddies from the get go, lol. We only hook up for sex, and chat online. But, the more we got to know each other the more we liked each other ,and seem to understand each other's nature. We both are outgoing, love to have a good time,and both of us are extremely open minded. We went out for a real date yesterday and I had fun. He kept staring at me the whole time, and wanted to know about my likes and dislikes. He was very inquisitive about my friends, work, past boyfriends etc...He also kept talking about himself and his work and accomplishments. I get the feeling he was trying to impress me. He was extremely attentive (good for us leos lol).
Basically, what I wanted to know is he interested in something more? I always let him initiate sex, I don't call him or chase him. I never hint that I want anything more, but I talk alot about how my freedom is important to me.
yes he probably does want more but im going to go on the limb here and say that he is probably not looking for love here i think he wants to make you his girlfriend just because you guys agreed not to be a couple....he wants what he cant have...but since you guys have been fuck buddies from the get go i doubt he will fell in love with you....right now he is no tin love with you but he is in lust with you and he does not see the difference yet.... do you want to go into relation ship based on that? at least thats my point of view if i was sexually active with a girl on regular bases ( not counting the first time in the heat of the moment) before there was a relationship i doubt i would be able to "love" the girl but thats just me.... do you know what his moon is?
some of my best relationships started exactly with sex. it takes about 6 months for the sex thing to come down between a couple. if there is something more than just sex then it's a relationship. even if you start a relationship with proper dates and such and then you start having sex eventually anyways. so, what's the difference when it start?
I agree with AG402. Right now you two are getting the physical satisfied. If you find that you two mentally and emotionally satisfy each other, then why not go further, at least give it a short trial run?
I'm gonna go with ariesgirl on this one. i had a aries b4, it started off just sex (plenty of it might i add!) and somehow we became so addicted to each other we could not go more than a day not seeing each other. we ended up becoming offical a month after we started, cuz i said 'um... ur not my bf', which made him freak (to think anyone else had a chance) and lay claim right there and then. honestly dont rule out the relationship just because you've had sex a lot, but dont take it seriously yet. let him come to u and if he keeps comming around and its like a lot of time goes by then start questioning it. keep having fun and dont trouble urself with these thoughts yet.
o yea and doesnt it take a guy more than 4 months to decide if they should enter a relationship? as opposed to women who takes half that time? just a thought
aries and leo are very very compatible...maybe you will eventually come to terms that you are made for each other..if you have great sex...great time together....great conversations, both have goals and accomplishments...what more could you ask for? Aries men are wonderful so you are a pretty lucky woman.
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Basically, what I wanted to know is he interested in something more? I always let him initiate sex, I don't call him or chase him. I never hint that I want anything more, but I talk alot about how my freedom is important to me.