now I am getting different, advice as to weither to apologize especially since i was right. Its just I could have been less harried and look less annoyed with them. but I feel really conflicted about the apology.
I am an Aries female and personally, I prefer to be around fun people who enjoy life. The moodiness of another effects my energy and just does not work for me. I am not saying that I will not be there for my friends who need help or may be hurting in someway - I am there ASAP. It is the people who are just moody or very insecure in their everyday moments of life that I tend to move away from.
I say to you, apologize to him if YOU FEEL that this is something that will truthfully make YOU feel good about yourself - not to "win" points from the other person.
devil is right, he might be afraid of rejection thats why he is little shy but he coul dbe sensing your moodines and that you are scared and he feels that he will have to try extra hard with you because you hold back so much....that throws me off my game a little, and dont apologize to him for every little bullshit it will just annoy him. instead walk up to him , talk with him, flirt a little, maybe give him a kiss on a cheek and just disaper for few days, he will come and seek you out if he really likes you and you better be prepared to go with the flow, so dont resist like you crabs tend to do
"and dont apologize to him for every little bullbutter it will just annoy him."
Actually that is what I find annoying about him because he is always apologetic. he has said sorry to me quite a few times for trivial situations. he has done the same with others like trying to explain himself and all I kept thinking was he needs to stop being so apologetic especially when he has done nothing wrong.
I seldom apologize to people and that tends to be right away as oppose to after the fact.
Maybe I should not as I really felt annoyed by them. I did not scream or told them off but my body language was shouting she is not happy.
If ya'll are young, he likes you A LOT! I can tell by the way you described his actions. He must think you're too good for him, and so he doesn't want to ask you out because he's afraid of rejection. I've been down that road myself before. Like it was said, you should approach him and start flirting. I love to flirt with girls, and if she comes to me first...it's definitely an ego booster. And THAT leaves me even more interested!
now I am getting different, advice as to weither to apologize especially since i was right. Its just I could have been less harried and look less annoyed with them. but I feel really conflicted about the apology.