How do you differenciate a Cancer from a Libra?

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Posted by bluemoon2
Libra males have a lazy charm to them and they charm people without really being aware of it. They can be detached. They go through periods of extreme indulgence in sexual behavior... (think John Mayer) to abstinence. They go from one extreme to another. Their energy vascillates.

yeah, there's some of this. Very charming, relaxed, and loves to check himself out in the mirror; but doesn't seem to be very picky with what he wears. I know that indecisiveness can give away a Libra easily, but I haven't seen this trait in him; he seems to take his time in choosing his words when speaking, though. He seems very diplomatic, likes discussing but doesn't seem to be looking for confrontation... Libra?

Leo males talk about themselves with a lot of pride. They have strength in adapting their conversations to fit what you are looking for. They can be beguiling.

Hm... I thought Leos were more about making themselves the main topic of any conversation... So, not quite a Leo a guess.

Cancer males are passionate about something in their life as it is an emotional escape for them. They are very damn good at it, too. Mike Tyson ... cancer boxer and look at the devastation he caused.

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He seems to be somewhat reserved, and give a lot of importance to family and home things... That's what's confusing me at the moment.