Cancer Female dating a Libra Male

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Montage26 on Friday, May 7, 2010 and has 10 replies.

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@Montage26
16 Years

I am recently dating a Libra. I am known for being moody but I just can't understand this man's hot and cold with me. He is super sweet and sexy and attentive and then will snap and tell me he is busy. I over analyze everything, am I doing so now? Everything I have read about Cancer & Libra relationships says STAY AWAY!

Advice?

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@Cancer_babygirl
16 YearsCancer

>>>OMG...I just recently ended things with my libra, things were so hot and cold in the beginning. He was so loving one day then the next really distant. As a cancer lol i looked at him like i challenged because that's what cancers do lol...but in the end fellow cancer...i got tired of the moods of a libra male...which was weird considering im a cancer and we can be exremely moody lol ...but then the clingyness and insecurities came from my libra...OMG... so frustrating!...I wished we wouldve just stayed friends from the beginning...honestly cancer you will eventually spaz out..hope i helped...sorry so long 😉

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@spica
19 Years5,000+ Posts

Yes, I think the Cancer female would do best with a Cancer male.
The Cancer female needs so much nurturing and gives so much nurturing that the Libra male will reject and cannot match up.

Unless your Libra male is a waterboy (lotsa cancer placements), I would advise going away before you get too attached because you're the one going to have mopey months.

Cancer can try Leo, Cancer, for the Air signs, I've seen Aquarius male frequently matched with Cancer femmes.

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@prettyladii
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Tiny ( Cancer) and T.I. aka TIP (Libra) are this couple. I wouldn't recommend it I don't think Libra will ever fulfill the Cancer unless if theres a lot of Earth or Water. Not to mention its a higher chance of him being a h0e.

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@mr.crabby
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

It would have worked with my Miss Libra if we had talked more about how we felt about each other. We crabbies don't need that much chatter, but they do. They don't understand, they don't get it when you feel a certain way. It can be harsh and painful sometimes, but there can be a healthy does of attraction and fun. We'll always care more about them more than they do about us. but you'll have to live with that.

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@Montage26
16 Years

And I did end up spazing out! I stopped him in mid conversation the other day and just said, "I am sorry, but I can no longer stand the sound of your voice, I don't think this is going to work out".

I just couldn't take it anymore! He was so consumed with his own ego and his own thoughts. It was like I didn't even exist, I was there to listen to him talk at me and then we would have naked time.

What a weirdo! Lets learn from our mistakes and follow the zodiac's warnings! Cancers and Libras should just not mix!

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@Lux
16 Years

I had a relationship with a Libra years ago...there was a strong attraction in the beginning, but it fizzled out within a few months. He always seemed sort of mean and thought I was "crazy" if I was in one of those typical Cancer moods. In the end it was the worst relationship I ever had. Do you have other compatible signs in your charts? I agree with spica that it could work out if he has other water signs in his chart, but in general I don't think this is a good combination (clearly there are always exceptions). I once wrote down every guy I ever liked - crushed on - dated, whatever and found that many of them were Libras. They must have something we lunar ladies like!

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@prettyladii
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Air/water is usually a disaster, but I find Libras have a strong attraction to all 3 water signs especially on yahoo answers all day long you hear about Libra asking about Scorpio, Cancer or Pisces. Pisces the most though. I think it's the mystery, the depth, and the challenge of unraveling all the layers and conquering one.

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@prettyladii
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Meant to add... most Air signs don't have the patience past the challenge phase, to really unravel a water sign and get to their core, and u cant get to step 3 if you haven't finished step 2.. but I can see potential with Aquarius. I wonder why they don't work with water much cause they have far more depth than the other 2.

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@CancVenusGem
16 Years

Yeah, Libras are so hot and cold...Don't know whats on their mind. I really wish I could figure my libra guy out.. He diseappears a lot on me. One day he says he loves me and iI don't appreciate him, next day he will say that we are only friends.. wass up with that?? I am really trying to ignore him and move on, but he wont let me go either.. I am just so confused 😢

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@mr.crabby
20 Years1,000+ PostsCancer

Posted by prettyladii
Meant to add... most Air signs don't have the patience past the challenge phase, to really unravel a water sign and get to their core, and u cant get to step 3 if you haven't finished step 2.. but I can see potential with Aquarius. I wonder why they don't work with water much cause they have far more depth than the other 2.

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