IS THERE HOPE? HELP WITH ARIES MALE! PLEASE!

OK, so we met in May of 2014. I am SO in love with this guy. I'm a Capricorn females and although pretty girly and feminine, I tend to be bossy, headstrong, and have high expectations. Don't get me wrong, I know how to play my role as a woman, but I just can't deal with punk a $ $ men. Period. I need a guy who is a leader, a manly man, and just a person who has their stuff together. This guy is that. He's 28 and I'm 26. Birthdays are April 2nd and December 29. Ahhhhh so here's the main thing:

When we first started hanging out we would text each other almost every day. See each other about 3 times a week and go out pretty often. On our first date, he surprised me with a concert dinner. As excited as I was, from previous conversation, I knew better than to get too hooked. You see, I knew that this aries male was natural "CHARMER". I knew that he had done better things for previous females that he didn't even talk to or deal with anymore. His previous serious relationship which was a in 2008, ended because the female decided to randomly cut off all communication with him and get pregnant by another man. Obviously, he was very upset by this. He told me he was in love with this woman because of her ambition and drive and she had led him to believe that they were going to get married and everything. Then she up and decided to leave, no warning or anything. He told me he thought she had died, but because of social media, he knew he had been played. Because of this, he explained to me that he didn't want anything serious. I agreed and decided that we were just getting to know each other anyway. I myself was just finishing a relationship with someone as well so it was just ok at the time.

We dated pretty steadily for about three months before I began to feel like I wanted more from him, but I kept quiet because I didn't want to pressure him. We always had a good time when we were around each other We both are sapiosexuals so it was awesome to be able to just converse with each other and be stimulated. We definitely did do plenty of other things though. Restaurants every other day, movies, arcades and what not. You know the usual first stage dating spots I suppose. I forgot to mention earlier that we were engaging in sexual behavior but it was about July before that started. Either way, it was always BOMB so I was good regardless. He enjoyed it, and so did I, and of course I figured that we were connecting on a different level and sense everything else was good

why not? Fast forward to August. School starts back up, we work in different departments at an institutions of higher learning, so we see each other but we don't SEE each other all day every day. He does however live about 0.9 miles away from me. So we see each other often. He invites me over, but I tend to hit him up more than he hits me up. I brought this to him and he said he just hates seeming like he's being thirsty. He assured me that he had feelings for me, he liked me and he cared about me very much. I've always been the type to go for what I want so it bothered me but I tried not to let it get to me. I tend to not like being thirsty either, but I just like him SO much. In October, I decided to tell him that I was breaking down and wanted to be in a relationship with him. I did, and he pretty much told em that he wasn't ready and he didn't really want to go that route at the time. He told em that I should just enjoy the journey and not worry about the destination. I pretty much pouted about this and fell back a little bit, but continued dealing with him.

Fast forward to November. We end up going to this fundraiser gala for my sorority. He was my date and as always he treated me like royalty.Such a freaking gentleman. I rarely paid, or lifted a finger whenever we went out. It was a great time, we were dressed to impress. He made reservations for our hotel and when we got inside there was a bouquet of flowers for me. I was so excited. Later that evening, he decided to "pull the trigger" and asked me to be his girlfriend. I was so ecstatic. This is where is goes bad. The night he decided to ask me to be his girlfriend he also said lets evaluate everything in 30 days. The first few days were fine, but I didn't really feel like his girlfriend. We were continuing to do the same things, date , have sex, and take turns making dinner together once a week. Things were ok, but I did not feel like his "girlfriend".There wasn't much of a difference from what was going on at then than what was going on before. 20 days in. I'm back at his neck complaining. I told him that I didn't feel like his girlfriend. I admit, he had changed a lot for me. He was not very affectionate at all, but when i explained to him that I wanted him to be more affectionate, he did improve...a little. It definitely wasn't as much as I would've liked though. At this point this guy decides to tell me that he's not ready for a relationship and he doesn't want to be with me anymore. He say