@Dreamer16
11 Years
Aries men and possessiveness and jealousy
I'm an aries woman, by the way!
Well I know I'm a jealous person. But only for men I'm interested in. What I'm saying is he acts jealous but also tries to act as if he just likes me as a friend.
Hell yeah they get jealous ans it's hilarious because it's a trait that's not often seen. It usually comes in the form of smug arrogant taunts arising from the thought that someone actually got chosen over them or out did them. So, they try to steal your shine by subtlety or overtly turning the spotlight towards them.
The possessiveness comes in the form of them becoming clingy...as in overly territorial. It's subtle, but its usually them being around and paying more attention to your movements.
So you're saying they act that way towards just friends also, like no feelings involved? I'm an aries woman and unless I like the person I won't care who they talk to or feel jealous. I'm just trying to figure out the male aspect.
Well I do like him. That's the problem. But I can't tell if he likes me or not! And I don't mention men to make him jealous Bc honestly I didn't think he would be jealous of anything involving me anyway.
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Hell yeah they get jealous ans it's hilarious because it's a trait that's not often seen. It usually comes in the form of smug arrogant taunts arising from the thought that someone actually got chosen over them or out did them. So, they try to steal your shine by subtlety or overtly turning the spotlight towards them.The possessiveness comes in the form of them becoming clingy...as in overly territorial. It's subtle, but its usually them being around and paying more attention to your movements.
you betta preach
@Infinite8 and DMV:
I swear the shit is hilarious. I've seen both males and females do it and my Scorp bits picked it up immediately. I don't see why they do it because besides that, they are really great people! There's no purpose for it. I love hanging around them...when they're not doing that lol
Thank you all for your input ? it really sheds some light on things!!
Curiousram I know where you're coming from. I have friends but they all have "best friends" and I don't understand it most of the time because I know I'm a good friend. Maybe I just can't get that close. But it is upsetting. But I do like to spend time alone and maybe that's why also because I don't always want to hang out.
Yeah I can't help but be jealous. I have confidence in myself for the most part it's just the way I've always been!
no....from my experience my Aries guy friends are pretty laid back. Far from possessive.
Curious are you jealous with women you have feelings for or even just someone you're friends with?
Posted by beautifulsoul74
@Infinite8 and DMV:I swear the shit is hilarious. I've seen both males and females do it and my Scorp bits picked it up immediately. I don't see why they do it because besides that, they are really great people! There's no purpose for it. I love hanging around them...when they're not doing that lol
Imo, the men are more organic. My aries female friend does it and its so last year. Shes so much better when she doesnt try so hard. The charming side comes out.
Posted by Curiousram
Posted by biosynthesis
no....from my experience my Aries guy friends are pretty laid back. Far from possessive.
Yeah im not possessive at all, jealous yeah but not possessive hah. ive found this trait secretly in aquas
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yep, aquas are a fixed sign remember, they have the tendency to be possessive..but I do like aquarians as friends.
Posted by beautifulsoul74
Hell yeah they get jealous ans it's hilarious because it's a trait that's not often seen. It usually comes in the form of smug arrogant taunts arising from the thought that someone actually got chosen over them or out did them. So, they try to steal your shine by subtlety or overtly turning the spotlight towards them.The possessiveness comes in the form of them becoming clingy...as in overly territorial. It's subtle, but its usually them being around and paying more attention to your movements.
this.
Possessive, no.
Protective? All my Aries friends have that down to an art.
I am a poor Virgo in dire need of protectors, what can I say.
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Do aries men get possessive and jealous over a woman they think of as "just friends"? Because he won't talk about his feelings but I have a strong feeling he does like me, and he admits he's jealous over other men I happen to mention (I don't do it on purpose.) He's a sun in aries and cancer rising.