mixed signals

I've been talkin to this aries guy through the net and his behavior perplexes me..he messages me out of nowhere sayin "hey babe, how u been" and when I respond he is gone.. I will not hear from him for a week so I'm thinkin he's prolly not that into me until I get a message from him sayin "I guess uve forgotten about me huh" like hello?! Weren't u the one who stopped the communication also he used to call me all the time and now he only send texts once in a while..I'm not so sure what his intention is, he Already texted me twice in different occasions assuming "I forgot about him" but in truth he's the one who stops the conversation short. Weird..I really don't know what this guys intention is, whether he's interested or what

I don't know if this will b helpful but my sister is an aries and she does the same thign to her friends all the time...she never makes any effort to get in touch with them then complains to me about how they never call over to see her. Its bizarro I cannot for the life of me get my head around it...but with a boy she MOST DEFINATLY WAS INTERESTED IN she acted pretty much the same she wudn really connect him at all..it could go weeks without connecting him but she really liked him....i no she loved hearin form him tho..mayb u shud reach out...

Estella, sorry, but it is evident you were plan B, C, or even worse.

Plan A likely called him just after he contacted you and off he went.

Wow, what an asshole. Now everything makes sense. I sure can't relate to the "plan a b or c " mentality that's why I never thought he would be in that game..I guess I was so stubborn to listen to aries' bad rep and I'm talking matter-of-factly per both of my sisters' experiences. One aries dude was so over the top romantic..showered my sister with attention and luxurious gifts, cooked her three course meals whenever they see each other, payed attention to every little thing she likes in casual conversations and then surprise her w/ it the next time they meet.. He also introduced her, bragged about her and put her on pedestal in front of his friends, drived 4 hours to see her 2 or 3 times a week...and then *voila* he disappeared after 3 weeks of dating without any explanation or phone call..she never heard of him ever since. She already left 2 messages unreturned. And top of that, she heard among her co-workers who knows him that he's getting married.. My other sister had this aries idiot literally on her beck and call..almost like her bitch lol..they weren't going out but he liked her so he tried to spend so much time with her as a "friend" following her around..doing anything she pleased. My sister got attached to him a year after so they eventually went out as a couple. My sister was like "he was such a devoted friend, I'm pretty sure he would be an amazing boyfriend" boy was she wrong.. this aries started to act obnoxiously rude and always seem "bored" around her. she noticed his behavior little by little until eventually when he began disrespecting my family in subtle ways then she dropped him. Now this aries dude is talking shit and began to kiss-and-tell about their sex life..so was it just a coincidence? That it just happened that they are all aries? Now..I would not think so lol

I feel u sexytaurus, that has happened to me too.. I miss you's out of nowhere, they say they'll call back but they won't..also thanks Pisces for the positive insight..I don't really wanna talk bull but it seems like they think the world revolves around them that they care if they're the one being ignored but if they don't feel like talking to u at the moment, the hell they care about you and then prolly talk to u again whenever they feel like it.. But f*ck it, I'm not a beck-and-call girl type and its a shame he doesn't know how to distinguish quality among women; for him put them all under the same category

Estella,

People are jerks in EVERY sign of the zodiac. I called your situation because it
has happened to me. Yes, twice with two other aries, once with a leo, and once with a gemini.

I am an aries, but also have alot of water in my chart so would not dream of behaving as your aries did.

People who have plans of A, B, C etc actually have very little confidence in themselves. If they did, they would not settle for second best and ONLY go after plan A until all resources were exhausted and they hit a wall. Then they would go after the next plan A that caught there eye and never look back!

That my friend, is what a truly confident aries would do!

That's sad if he really is insecure, ur prolly right..the first few times when we just started talking, he was coming on to me too strong.. Calling me his "baby" and then phoning me a few times every hour if I didn't pick up saying "watcha doin?" through text or "I called earlier and then u did not pick up? Why is that" or if I have to say I gotta go he's like "no, ur staying on the phone with me. Whatcha gotta do anyway?" it just won't click to me that he is insecure because he's gorgeous and he can get any girl he wants.so I've been keeping my distance since then coz I know if I text him or give him the slightest hint of interest, once again, he will charge full force. And I already told him that he is too aggressive coz we are not even goin out plus we've only talked a few times and he is acting like I have a leash already

Hmmm I do this all the time and I love my guy. but he doesn't seem to mind at all. I really enjoy my space and time to myself. I need time to think and reflect about I don't know lol. Most of the time I'm thinking about him anyway even when I don't see him. I text him more often with little hellos 'cause I'm not a big conversationalist. I'd rather see him than talk on the phone. But he's busy just like I am so its not so bad.

So maybe he just likes to chill on his own. I wouldn't be so quick to jump the gun on this if I were you and don't let other people's experiences influence yours. Talk to him when you can and trust your instincts.

all the aries people i know are not good at communicating,my mother is an aries and i always have to ring her she never rings me,but they likre to hear from you as long as its not too often,also when he sent a message how are you etc,then something else probably caught his attention,and he was off doing something else ,i think with an aries you have to wait in line till its your turn
aries people arent easy ,just do your own thing and keep busy,some ive known can stay away for months then come back like nothing had happened ,i think when they have got you,thats it your there when they need you.

i also think they are staying away to think about things and make themselves or situation better

Hmmm reflecting from this thread, it seems like these men have a serious case of ADD or something. Makes me wonder how someone can sustain a relationship by being too flighty..I thought this trait comes specifically from air signs but oh well.. I guess I just couldn't relate that's why I wouldn't be able to see from an arian perspective..I think I might have to stick w/ my own element and withdraw playing with fire lmao

maybe he's going through something and feels like he can't give you 100% but doesn't want to loose you completely. maybe he wants to feel like you still there and remember him. my suggestions is, don't pay too much attention to him and, at this point, don't take him as an instand bf material. if you want to you can be friends and see how it develops naturally. i'm pretty bad in keeping in touch with people and get upset why they don't call me all the time and i know it's stupid. if you want to feel him out on what's going on then invite him somewhere and spend some time talking in person and find out what's going on. that way you can get an initial feel about him and his intentions. if he digs being around you then don't loose him. if he acts kind of uncomfortable and makes uxcuses to leave then let it go and nothing will happen there. if aries like someone we'll be there with them. if we start making excuses then it's not a good sign. hope this helps. good luck.

Damn right taurus sis, its frustrating. Speaking of who, he messaged me again to see how I'm doin lol thanks ariesgirl, also to everyone else for the input...If you guys encounter any baffling behavior from Virgos, I'll be more than happy to provide some insight or explanation 🙂

Very quick here, My Aries experience: when we were on we were on. When we were off we were off. Calls and texting stopped! This was a Libra - Aries Combo. and Combo NOT!!!!