I am a Scorp involved in a realtionship with an Aries Male. I admit, I play hard to get. But for me, I do that subconsciously. The reason I do that is because I feel like instead of telling him what to do and who he can be with or not..you know being controlling, I want him to want to be with me. I adore him- he is the most special guy I have ever been with in my entire life.
So I play hard to get with him because I love him so much and I couldn't even imagine my life without him. I don't even ever remember much before he came into my. He makes me so happy.
So you people who say playing hard-to-get is bad, I completely disagree with you! It's better than controlling your partner Call me a rubix cube who is in love with my ram!
Thanks 66. I try not to but when I get my feelings hurt by him, I can't cry! I am usually so blunt that he knows when I am hurting, and I don't hurt that often when I am with him. We laugh together soooooo much, especially when it has been over 5 days since he took a shower..anyways =D Yea there are times when I am like WTF!?!?! And there are times when I am in his face so much I get sick of myself..but really the making up is what makes all the drama worth it.
If he asks me and I tell him he can be free to go hang out with his friends and stuff on a Friday night, he usually stays him. He almost does the opposite of what I tell him, so that is the only mind-game thing I really do.
Do all Ariens like to do the opposite just for the sake of doing the opposite? 🙂 Nah I think he just appreciates my not acting like a jealous lunatic all the time (even though that's often how I feel inside)!
sometimes I think we like to stir up stuff as it is exciting. We mean no harm by it we just love challenges! We love to play! think of kids and you think of an aries.....we never grow up.
But.....we are the most loyal, passionate, devoted partners that will fight for you and take care of you if those we love treat us with respect, honesty, love and allow us our freedom to be who we are.
......I'd have to say that Taureans are the most loyal when it comes to a partnership that we really like......but I guess aries can come close to that when they arnt being the big-headed inferior-making-everyone-else people. Not saying they are all like that......but I certainly know onw who is. GRRRR!
I am a scorpion with an Aries male. We have only been seeing each other for a while, but we are intense "behind doors" even though he isn't as intense as I like, do you think that Aries are lacking passion, the passion that scorpions have? Is it a good match in the bedroom?
I'm a sag involved with an Aries man. It is the best relationship I have ever experienced. Every aspect between us is wonderful, uplifting, loving, exciting and passionate.
I love his sensual playfulness which gets very intense and demanding. But, he is also VERY sensitive and giving to me. He is devoted and concerned for me in every way. AND we have so much fun.
He says he does things with me that he has never been able to do with another woman. He says he feels he can be himself with me without negative repercussions. I feel the same. My question is why would anyone want to hold anyone back from being their playful, loving self?
I was held back in my marriage with a Cap. Though things were predictable and stable, it was also boring, limiting, dull, negative and downright painful. And we stuck it out for way too long. No kudos or prizes in sticking it out in a bad relationship...REALLY! It's not worth it.
Does anyone have any experience dealing with this kind of relationship? Yes, I agree with many of the messages on this board that say Aries is passionate and very sharp. However, I also find my Aries male to be overly demanding, stubborn, extra sensitiv
So I play hard to get with him because I love him so much and I couldn't even imagine my life without him. I don't even ever remember much before he came into my. He makes me so happy.
So you people who say playing hard-to-get is bad, I completely disagree with you! It's better than controlling your partner
Call me a rubix cube who is in love with my ram!