Signs an Aries Is Into U?

So I've been dating an Aries male for about 2 months now. I am 33 and he is 40. I was completely drawn in by his charm and personality. You Aries males are good! I've actually never fallen for anyone so quickly. He drew me in completely and now we are not on the same page. I am such a girly girl and he is such a man lol. Thus a lot of our disconnect at times but making up has been increadibly fun. It seems like we were going full steam ahead, at his direction, but then it was like he got scared and pulled back and my feelings were completely hurt. Their are days where he seems very into me -vulnerable and insecure even, by his own admission, but then he quickly bounces back and he's back to being the Alpha male that he is. I do feel like I have to play a game of "chase" - allowing him to chase me and be in control. Times when I try to address his insecurities by letting him know that I am interested in him as well, maybe too much, because he pulls back. For this relationship to be only 2 months it has been quite exhausting but when we are on the same page its awesome.

He has been very clear that he likes me and he's interested in me so I guess thats good but sometimes his actions don't always go with his words. Frustrating for me since I like both of those to match at the same time.

Are their any signs I can look for that I'm either in danger with this Aries man or we're all good? I appreciate your opinions and advice.

If an Aries likes you, you'll know. They'll tell you point blank. Then write their name on your forehead so everyone knows you belong to them. Then he will need space, you need to ignore him and when he comes running back full force again he will love the chase to get you back. Don't follow him, don't beg him. Let him free. The second he feels he has won you over he will be bored. You have to play the game and keep things interesting.

Posted by Ariess
Then write their name on your forehead so everyone knows you belong to them.

This is about right, haha!!!!

Posted by seraph
You get knocked upside the head and get dragged inside.

🙂 I just pinched that one


.........and stop taking pictures of my door

Posted by JLwhittaker
Aries are direct. If they like you they you let you know, they are not afraid. If they don't like you they won't even know you like him/her

I always thought this was the case with me (being an Aries), I felt like I did everything possible but TELL the person I liked them. They questioned me all the time and said "Well you never said it/told me"...I guess "signs" or "hints" or certain actions don't matter, you have to just come right out and be like Yo, what's up, I like you, so yeah...

Doing everything YOU think that shows a semblance of like...forget it, some people can't see that, just use your words.