Posted by PhoenixStormPosted by DMV
Give your energy to those who treat you like front row tickets and backstage passes w/ personal meet n greet with Beyoncé
Not some dude who treats you like a old navy tshirt he can use to clean up water on the floor
This is such a self-centered way of thinking though. What if dude is on his way into the MD office to have a biopsy done to find out if he has cancer? You’ve never had a bad day or a pissy mood where you responded in a way that could have left a bad taste in someone’s mouth?click to expand
Posted by AriesJo
Love this question, so thank you for posting
Go to the gym
Pick up a new hobby
Go out and meet new people
Re-watch a favourite movie
Hang out by myself, maybe go to the cinema by myself or a bar.. and realise i don't actually need anyone else to be happy
Love myself - go to a spa day, get a massage, treat myself
Get a new hair cut, buy some new clothes, shoes, re-invent myself
Visit the sunbeds and get tan.. ok i know is not good for health or skin, but good for vitamin d which makes you feel good
The major thing though... and this is shown in the movie Indecent Proposal.. and then copied by 500 days of Summer. How did the main character overcome the loss of his girlfriend? In both film, the main character found what they were really passionate about, and got stuck into that
(both cases architecture, it's like 500 days couldn't even think of another profession lol)
My first step is to actually watch Indecent Proposal, and remind myself how it's done. The main character at the end has so much confidence, even though he's lost her... makes me realise that no matter how old you get, or whatever you lose, you can still have confidence. People that never lose anything, cannot show this confidence.
Posted by ChessmessPosted by DMV
Yeah, you may have to take the bull by the horns with this guy.
His Gemini moon needs excitement and fast responses.
The problem is, he keeps finding more funnier things to do than hang with you. Sounds harsh but Gemini moons are bored easily and love some good chaos.
You gotta make him feel alive
He wasn’t lying about seeing the picture late. Algorithms and a real life can make you miss all the social media life.
Last year things were great.
We would hang out, talk for hours, send flirty messages, I would catch him staring at me when he thought I was not looking....but this year, he has turned into a flake. Always canceling....Even before covid.
So I figured he’s sending me a hint - he’s not interested. So I moved on.
But maybe that’s not the case?
I’ve done things to tell him I like him and when I do, he disappears for weeks.click to expand
Posted by Chessmess
I have a scorpio friend who recently broke up with her bf.
She started dating again (covid 19 dates) and has met a few guys but there's one guy that she really, really likes. He seems to be perfect for her. He's older, has a steady job and loves to pamper her.
What I don't understand is that she asked the guy to take a break so she could think things through (I think she got scared since this guy seems too good to be true) but the funny thing is that the next day, she calls him up saying she wants to get back together but he tells her that a day is not enough and if she wanted to take this break, she should take it because he wants her to focus on herself.
He seems to be serious about her but I am confused as to why she asked him for a break and less than 24 hours, she wants to get back together with him?
I know she's afraid to get hurt and she has the right to take things slow, take breaks, etc
Any idea why she suddenly changed her mind? Trying to understand ... She seems really bummed out. She really likes this guy.
she's a scorpio with Venus in libra