Posted by starlord
There is a cap guy, much younger than me, who wants to be my fwb.
He has already said to me himself, that he can't give me what I want (a relationship with somebody who's basically mildly obsessed with me😄). He knows, no guy has ever given me an orgasm. And he has plenty of other opportunities.
Why does he want me as his fwb? What does it say about him?
Not anything like he secretly loves me, but how he is as a person? Why go for somebody, he knows will in at least one way be dissatiafied? Would it be a turn on, to know this and then still have the woman have sex with him? Like extreme ego boosting?
Posted by fishcrabscale2
People with stellium that is different from your sun sign, can you relate more to the description of the stellium or the sun?
Posted by ubuntu888
Update : Virgo guy messaged me saying he cannot continue with this thing of ours because he doesn't think he can meet my expectations, he said I'm expecting over and above what he's capable of giving (he even Said that he will not be able to call and text everyday like I want him to) and me saying I don't wanna bring someone around my daughter who isn't in it for the long haul is putting too much pressure on him. He said also that he feels like I'm only considering him as a partner because things never worked out with my baby's father. He said he feels like he is my second choice and I never would have thought twice about him had i been with my baby's father. based on all those reasons he cannot be with me and he hopes that I can understand that. I'm very saddened by this I must say cause my feelings for him were genuine this time, had I dated him back then it probably wouldn't have worked out cause I would have taken him to granted. Now I'm more mature and open minded and was genuinely trying to build something with him. But I guess I was too late. anyways thanks for listening and for all the advices guys, I appreciate your time. I on the other hand wish i could turn back time and choose him but i can't so I'm just gonna let things be and let my losses be my losses.
Posted by Cancerlady17Posted by TaurusBull1977
Since you do not want to be given the advice to move on.....
Throw yourself at him.
Tell his current girlfriend to F% ck off and that you have NO intentions of being friend-zoned or remaining in the friendship category.
Tell her that you want to be in HER position.
Isn't that YOUR truth?
His current girlfriend is pissed off not because she's threatened by you or his emotions for you, but because you want HER man!
You're not friend-zoned....You're Plan B zoned. If things do not work out with the love of his life, he can always settle for you if she bails. This is why he keeps you around.
I don't know too much about Cancers, but what I DO know about the men, they are quite unapologetic about their emotions. They FEEL, FEEL,FEEL.
....And their Cardinal tails push forward.
You're a Cancer, you tell me.
I’m not looking for sarcasm either. Not everything is black and white. And she’s not “the love of his life” they’ve been together a couple months and she’s mean to him.. he complains about her to me as a friend. He’s never slept with me, I’m not his side chick. I understand if I need to move on, but I don’t want a thread of “move on”, I’m looking for possible other answers as to why someone might be behaving this way.click to expand
Posted by FlashlightVrgn
To call or message you back? If someone takes over five hours regularly, does that upset you?
Posted by GemCurioPosted by LostinmyMind11
Probably not but apparently virguys lead double lives...so maybe? But still doubt it...
That's so unfair. Virgos do not live double lives. This guy is just chasing his heart and at the same time trying to be a gentleman which makes no sense to me. At some point it will come to a head, and unless there are children involved I just don't see him staying where's he is at. You know we are very particular about what comes out of our mouths...click to expand
Posted by siscapricornqueen
as for the "holes" in the story:
The time frame: I met him in November he came over every week till February..(it was so beautiful)
February he disappeared nobody saw him again until June
Now hes been coming over his brothers house across the street since June every week. (sitting outside on the porch for hours staring at my house, sometimes in his brothers window looking into my window.)
The search I did on found his background, mugshots, last known addresses birth date and this WOMAN. So I ran her background and it showed HIM. I used about 5 different sites and they linked them together every time. I payed $ 20 for the first one hoping it would give me accuracy. Then I found her on Facebook and shes with some other man not him (I felt so stupid, I had already cussed his brother out.)
Yes I have my own townhouse, I was married for the last 5 years got a divorce literally 2 months before I met this MAN. Yes I have a son by my ex husband. he is 2 years old.