what will be the reaction?

Just think that...one aries guy and a leo girl.They connect magnetically...nobody wants to confess first but both of them know there is a connection.They ignore each other..then the leo girl confesses and tells her aries that she gets hurt when he ignores him.He seems happy to know that..(lol)He says sorry and starts flattering and paying minute attention to her.But now...she feels disconnected towards him..
why would that be? and if she starts ignoring him what would be his reaction ??
Please comment...

PL is right on the inconsistency.

''He says sorry and starts flattering and paying minute attention to her.''

He's just giving you what he thought you asked for. I think now it's your turn to ask him to say what HE wants, honestly. Ram may not be good with intimacy, but they are honest and very direct and you'll know if he's not being himself.

''unlike the ram, leo does not feel that showing intimacy is a sign of weakness''

The weakness is not always the factor - sometimes it is the independence. They just want to be sure their independence will not be compromised. Leo should understand this.

''she feels disconnected towards him..why would that be?''

The challenge is gone, you probably didn't think it would be this easy so it's a question of calling him on his sincerity on what he says to you.

''and if she starts ignoring him what would be his reaction ??''

He will notice! And sulk! because you confessed first remember? which can result in him calling you on this confession by throwing a temper tantrum, chasing after you harder or ignoring you right back. But he'll definitely notice.
You just want to do some more soul-searching on what you want sunnyn.

"because the flattery is insincere and feels forced and unnatural. in her mind, he pays attention and flatters because she him told she had feelings for her. not because he wants to do those things."
I absolutely agree with you PL!!! You have put it excellently..

"unlike the ram, leo does not feel that showing intimacy is a sign of weakness."

Absolutely...One needs loads of courage to show your weaknesses...(but we don't show it to everyone..)
I think sharing what you feel is very important in the relationship.It is the sign of confidence you have in yourself and trust you have in your companian.

"The challenge is gone, you probably didn't think it would be this easy so it's a question of calling him on his sincerity on what he says to you."
Completely agree Zena...

"He will notice! And sulk! "

That's exactly what he did...so I stopped ignoring him but I must say I surely feel a bit disconnected still.He has stopped paying extra attention to me but he is attentive and now he acts very confidently towards our relationship( maybe because I have confessed??)He invited me to his party and he put it politely like 'If you have time could you please come to my party?' But at the same time he seemed very positively confident that I would say 'yes'.Does that mean he has feelings for me too??He does not seem to put in words what he feels..he shows it with action I guess..they all wanted me to sing in the party .He wanted to listen to a perticular song but the other friend also put in his request..he simply said ' hell with his request just sing what I requested,you sing it beatifully.'Was he showing his authority?? and by saying that I sing that perticular song beautifully was he trying to show them that our replationship is close and he knows what song I sing beautifully—?....

SunnyN,

Aries generally operate by resisting when asked to do something, if he didn't feel something, he prob won't have flattered you when you confessed. They're too direct to flatter e.g. ''' hell with his request just sing what I requested,you sing it beatifully.'''


''But at the same time he seemed very positively confident that I would say 'yes'.''

You want him to sound like he's working for it like all girls do 😉 Aries appears very confident most of the times, so you'll be sensing this all the time. Also very decisive, so if he felt something, your confession helped rush him to the finish line - don't worry, he'll cool off - you know, like a kid with a new shiny toy (no offence sunny!). Maybe inject some mystery/turns for him to work out?

''Was he showing his authority??''

I always find that this subject comes up in a lot of Aries/Leo relationships as they are two signs that have to lead and get attention in separate ways. Maybe think on the other hand, was he just being a guy? Maybe thought he was sticking up for you? Could have meant anything...if this sort of thing bothers you, just ask him about his actions (make him think of his actions) - next time he will prob ask you before deciding for you.

''and by saying that I sing that perticular song beautifully was he trying to show them that our replationship is close and he knows what song I sing beautifully—?....''

Maybe showing you off - they like attention on them.

Try to make him think of his actions - that way you address your disconnected feelings, slow him down, get to know each other better, etc...this is just a generic Aries POV - handle with care pls!

Good luck.

He has moon in aries and venus in aries too...

"They ignore each other..then the leo girl confesses and tells her aries that she gets hurt when he ignores him.He seems happy to know that..(lol)He says sorry and starts flattering and paying minute attention to her.But now...she feels disconnected towards him..
why would that be? and if she starts ignoring him what would be his reaction ??"



Why would that be? Because she was just wanting attention, and not really the man = superficial attention to stroke the Lionesses ego.

Because if the connection was deep, sincere ... then there would be no need to "play" the push and pull game.

U wouldn't understand all the fire sign nuances P-A. This "disconnection" is a common thing - uber- politeness preys upon mystery which is an essential ingredient in any budding romance. Depth and sincerity comes with time.