What should i do?

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Virgo0505
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11 Years

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I'm having a long distance relationship with a Leo, im a virgo myself. Been together for 1.5 years now.
Recently he came over to visit, we fought a lot. I was being very confrontational and started raising questions like whether we're gonna have a future together etc. to him.
seems like he tries to avoid such topics as much as possible.
I even mentioned that i am willing to move to his country and live with him. But he saids we need to plan things out. .... meaning he doesnt want to
There is a huge age difference between us.
He just left and i feel like he wants to leave me for good this time. He doesnt text me as much, even when he does, you can tell he doesnt really want to talk.
What should i do
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Octoberbaby91
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11 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

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you should only ask a man that question once. He feels pressured and is backing off a little.

don't bring it up again let him come to you with things like this. you shouldn't pressure a man into those topics he is in the moment and you are thinking too far ahead. Give him time to catch up and he will see whether you are worth marrying or not.

give space and time men need that.
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FirstDecanTaurianWoman0428
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A connection must be mutual in order to have a long distance relationship. I can't do long distance relationship and I won't move anywhere unless there's a job lined up. That is along time to be with someone.

Remember the guidelines.. Remember your standards. Do you want to be strung along when the feeling isn't mutual. Remember the guidelines I said in the post awhile back..

It takes from day 1 - 1 year to get to know someone. Within that you gotta establish each other expectations and get to know them well. Cause anything can happen. Especially moving for a better job..


It take 2-3 years to move in temporary. And see if you are compatible this way. Living together changes everything.

If you beat 3 year mark. Then decide what the next step is. Usually moving in together permanently and maybe even engaged by this point.

The connection a part should be one that truly misses the other person.. I don't get that vibe from your situation. Yeah you want to know where things are. And he doesnt know what he wants. OR

He could have someone on the side..Or
Just felt long distance relationship won't work. See space is key in a relationship. But not when someone else isn't feeling it back whole heartedly..