Break ups?

How do you deal?

Although i dont care if i get reected or not i do someties get realy bad wih brekups.
Im black or white and never grey so either it really desnt bther me or i put a gun to my head. But only once hve i been broken up with and even thouh i do it i feel an empty hole after a year or so and get really upset. It like it taes e time to realise it or react. but the rest of the time idgaf. more freedom whos complaining?

realy...no one?

Posted by YellowSubmarine
We’ve discussed this topic at length many times before, which is probably why nobody is too keen to respond lol.. but anyway, I’ll share:

Mentally, I think a lot, and I vent to my closest friends about it – I get their opinions on the matter and try to figure out where I might have made some mistakes in the relationship in order to better myself, and to figure out how/when things went wrong.

Physically, I distract myself with work and hobbies and back-ups… Back-ups being my exes that I’m friends with that still give me attention if I come around.. although I don’t necessary sleep with them because usually after a break up my heart just isn’t in it, but I’ll do it if the mood strikes and it feels right.

Emotionally, I become a steel trap – nobody really knows the depth at which I hurt because it’s all internal. I cry once in front of the person, when the break-up actually happens. After that, I never scream, yell, or cry in front of that person – I consider it a privilege to have access to my emotional side so after a break-up, you get nothing. Men in general expect women to just fall apart without them, so I’ve been called “cold” many times because I do not fall apart easily, if ever.

And I just wait… wait for the feelings to go away – they always do, which is sad and beautiful at the same time lol

As long as I know I tried my best, that’s all I need to sleep at night and to ultimately get over the break-up.. but it takes time.

Sun – Pisces
Moon – Aqua
Venus – Aries (in the 11th house – hence “cold”)
Scorpio and Aqua dominant

We have the same placemnents and im also aqua dom.
know t you mean by the "cold" part.Our sun gives us many emotikns but our moon makes us dignified. I someties think people forget that i get hurt too and sometimes i feel self conscious becus most of the tim my moon takes lead long wih my aries and i show fearlessnes. It makes it really hard to date guys because they dont treat me like the sensitive girl i am they se m as independend and cluldnt care les.

What de your whole char looklike?

1)Cry while thinking about all the good times.
2)Consider my own faults and try and learn from it.
3) listen to hype music.
4)Also a lot of shit talking with friends help!!!

^ Gemini Sun/Venus 11th house
Taurus Moon. 10th house.

I was broken up with once...still stings a little when I think about it tbh, but we're still nice to each other "no hard feelings"

He was an aqua, and a childhood friend. Chased me for years, finally got me in a weird time in my life, sucked me right in...I was head over heels...then just "changed his mind". No other excuse or explanation. Didn't feel the need.........

Motherfucker.

But it's all good 🙂
Wish him the best. He dates single moms now...all Sagis lol

Posted by tiziani

Posted by brianafay
I was broken up with once...

/dead


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