If you have advice for cancerians?

what would it be? I know lot of signs have some legit advices for cancerians, probably since it's easy for others to notice the flaws usually.

my aries friend adviced me "don't be so negligent of your work, do your work properly no matter what"

my taurus friend adviced me, "don't be a bitch"

my aquarius friend said " don't be so moody go out and have fun and learn to be independent"

my libran friend said, "you are nothing like I imagined" (well, thats a good thing since I know she thought I've been planned all my life to bring her down)

my leo friend said " don't ever change yourself" (on being confident regarding not taking shit from other people)

my gemini friend gave me wrong advices on purpose lol and my capricorn friend just likes me for having fun.

Don't continue to relentlessly annoy someone because you're feeling some sick pleasure in making them uncomfortable.

It's not teasing, it's sadistic.

To my Cancer brother: if you don't lie to people about your job, you need not to avoid them because of their questions.

To the rest of the world: don't ask questions (are you cops?). Let people talk about whatever they want.

Yesterday a young man (well 36 is relatively seen young) talked to me on the street. We walked for a while. One of his first questions was "what do you do for a living". Jeez......

hahaha that's some real shit lol

Don't dwell on the past. Figure out a way to work through it and move forward.

It's like the picture I saw, it would be:

If the past comes calling, let it go to voicemail. It has nothing new to say!

LOL

When soeone says your huring thm or doing something wrong, look not into how you feel about tht how thyre hurting ou....think back nd think i thir shoes....all that theyre saying imGine if you were them how youwould feel.
Lways tke time to think how someone else will feel if you do omething.

Also, fear and nervousess....it holds you back. Dont think jst because youre scafed of a situation, its a bad one.
It in fvt coul be great. but your fear and yur actions upon it il only buil or destroy paths. Believe in yourself and trust yourself. if you cnt do that thn you need to g bakwards and grw up.
But always move frwardnd face your fears. youll be a much more mature peron

Do not manipuate nyone. it bites you back.
Manipulation means:
When you upset someon dont go on bout how they upse you by being upset.
Dont rry to get out when yoy kniw ou were wong. face it nd change it.
Dont try to ake everythi bout how you fel. otherpeople feeling are also valid
Dont tell half truths.

Dont be meann to people who are beinf good to you out of fear...or anythin relly.
Thatll only hurt you in the end

jeez I could as well take you all to coffee and pretend we're old friends, no one could tell the diff lol^^ it's like you all already know me!
even if I didn't believe so much in astro stuff it's hard to think it would be a coincidence that same signs have such similar impact on others!

Posted by YourGrace
Grow a pair

ok that's for guys I guess, cancerian girls I know need to stop growing a pair!

This is a good thread. I think every sign could benifit from a thread like this. Theres a lot if Cancers in my family. The women are different from the men lol. All the male Cancers always have something to say. All the women Cancers are moody.

Idk, I get along with them. Im just always pushing my Cancer niece to not be so moody and mean, and to never give up. She's young with a lot of talent, but she can be a little lazy and hard headed, in cant anybody help her. She'll rather teach herself. So much like me when I was a child, which I fear.

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Posted by princessacancersagittaire
jeez I could as well take you all to coffee and pretend we're old friends, no one could tell the diff lol^^ it's like you all already know me!
even if I didn't believe so much in astro stuff it's hard to think it would be a coincidence that same signs have such similar impact on others!

haha.. Yeah! And so true...how surprisingly real astrology can be. There will be minor differences here and there, but the overall picture looks same!

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yeah, a little comforting ^^

Posted by YourGrace
You're cheating?
Cool,Me too

Stop doing "TITS for TATS"

touché -_-

"go be a cancer somewhere else"

Agree this is a good thread. I always support a big healthy dose of realistic self awareness.

Dont procrastinate

Make up your mind about who you want to be with now and in the future because the past is the past. You're good with reading people, don't manipulate them, trust your instincts more often and more positively.

Also, stop playing with Scorpios because you've got them wrapped around your finger.

Posted by exxtasyx
Love Gemini's. xoxoxox

Amen
And pisces

To th bove....do not take advantage f your pisces lovers. tey give so muh...jst becas they codle you doent mean they don need it too

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Posted by exxtasyx
Love Gemini's. xoxoxox

Amen
And pisces

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I do, I do both lol! XO